How many of you parents have a secret code word with your children?

Starfish

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This is good info for people who's children aren't grown up to enough to be off playing at the park or with friends on their own yet, or those who have yet to become parents but are planning on it.

This is something my mom and dad did for me growing up. It was so if someone was to come for me, because my parents couldn't, then they would know the secret code word that my parents would tell them. It was a hard one. One only my Mom, Dad and Brother knew. Never needed it.

But how many children get abducted just because their abductor claimed that their mommy and daddy sent them to get the child for them? Sadly, lots. Children are innocent and trusting. Too trusting.


Teach you child a code word. If a person askes them to come with them, but doesn't know the code, tell them to run like hell to the nearest group of people or business screaming "Fire, Fire". Tell them that when they are asked where the fire is, teach them to tell the people to look at the attempted abductor, (will be trying to flee by now) so the adults can try to get a good look at the criminal, and to tell them that person tried to take them and to call the police.


Reherse it with them at a young age.


Okay, so what are some tips and things you have used to insure your children are less likely to be abducted? Please share for the sake of others.
 
My family had one....never used......*chuckle* They only sent our neighbours to get us.....and the neighbours were so completely trustworthy, they once sent us to Ontario alone, just me at 14, looking out for my brother 12.

*rolls his eyes*
 
Yep we use that with our kids since they are very young..... our password is the title of their favorite movie... I told them to trust no one, not even the nice neighbor. I've tried to come up with all kind of reasons as to why someone would want them to come in their car, candy to puppy and explain to them that poeple are often mean... I think we scare the kids a bit ;)
 
I would never send a person the kids did'nt know to collect them

It would ALWAYS be a relative or a very close friend that they new to be ok

Some kid especaly the younger ones can be triped up with code words
I could allways trip up my girls and get them to tell me secret things eg. Just where my wife had hid the birthday/xmas prezzis
 
thanks for this post, starfish.....my lil miracle is 5....and we now have a secret word.....thanks to you......;)

you can't have too many plans....or talks about safety...these days....nothing can be taken for granted.....
 
Started one with my son when he was 5 when the "Stranger Danger" book came out. To this day even with my daughter at age 12 we still use the same word. A Great tool to use to help keep our little ones safe!
 
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