How many of you like being called degrading or kinky names?

[lucy__b]

I'm very new to all this but there is something intoxicating about the idea of being called certain things that typically would perhaps offend you in other circumstances.

 

[Booboobear84]

I'm very new to all this but there is something intoxicating about the idea of being called certain things that typically would perhaps offend you in other circumstances.

Yes, and that's the heart of it to me. The names aren't meant to insult or degrade (though it's often described that way), but to hyper sexualize.

 

[lucy__b]

Yes, and that's the heart of it to me. The names aren't meant to insult or degrade (though it's often described that way), but to hyper sexualize.

Yes exactly

 

[PaxNurgle]

^^Basically this; when in sub space, being called "Slut," "Bitch", (or more graphic) etc. helps re-enforce the power exchange dynamic- making it EXTRA hot.

 

[Booboobear84]

^^Basically this; when in sub space, being called "Slut," "Bitch", (or more graphic) etc. helps re-enforce the power exchange dynamic- making it EXTRA hot.

Interesting, I can see that, but have never been conscious of it. Part of the key in any case is it's the domme's job to provide for the feelings of the sub. All of this stuff needs to come from a place of caring (despite how it looks from the outside).

 

[PaxNurgle]

Yes. I agree. And also everyone's different as far as what triggers their hormonal strings. As someone who loves kink, degradation and humiliation, once I am in the middle of a scene, being called humiliating and degrading names, being objectified as part of the power exchange, that is a huge turn-on if I am in the right mindset and place. But of course it would have to be in the right setting and place- and clearly, one person's turn on is abuse to another person.

 

[likitisplit]

not that i like it, i allow it. i like dirty talk as a part of it and used thst wasis best.

 

[KaitlynW1993]

Yes. Helps me mentally get more turned on

 

[roxanne1971]

Yes -it helps reinforce my place

 

[SissyBJBitch]

Yes -it helps reinforce my place

Sometimes reinforces, sometimes it puts me in my place.

 

[van_delay]

Occasionally my wife will refer to my smaller than avg penis size. Usually makes me cum.

 

[Deleted member 5428187]

Yes. Helps me mentally get more turned on

So many people ignore the mental/verbal part of it - which is often more important than the mechanics; at least it is for me.

 

[Booboobear84]

So many people ignore the mental/verbal part of it - which is often more important than the mechanics; at least it is for me.

When I name call, I do it to turn the other person on. I actually hate the idea of degrading someone, but I love of hyper sexualizing them. It's the taboo of the words not the sting that it's all about for me.

 

[Youngman5678]

I'm very new to all this but there is something intoxicating about the idea of being called certain things that typically would perhaps offend you in other circumstances.

What do you like being called?

 

[dearlybeloved]

So many people ignore the mental/verbal part of it - which is often more important than the mechanics; at least it is for me.

This!

The “bad” name calling is a heat of the moment thing for me which I wouldn’t want outside of sexual situations but which really gets things going for me within them.

Otherwise, however, I prefer sweeter names and I really like the sort of hot shower / cold shower dynamic this creates. Haven’t met many who could do both, though. They’re either uncomfortable with one or the other.

 

[Darkrhytm]

Her favorite, where she gets hungrier beyond belief right now is “bitch in heat.”

 

[roxanne1971]

I do enjoy it as part of the mental build up and reinforcement of my role.

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

I need it
And didnt know it until a guy made me say I was his bitch. I came soooooooo hard. He loved it.

 

[Corbie]

I need it

Your wish is my command dirty cum slut.

 

[Booboobear84]

I need it
And didnt know it until a guy made me say I was his bitch. I came soooooooo hard. He loved it.

That sounds like he was coming from the right place try to push your turn on button, not trying to degrade you?

 

[SavannaT]

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[Otis_Ravelli]

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Stop my my inbox, I'll call you all sorts of things.

 

[MiaBabe23]

On principle I really don’t like it, yet when I have been called something, by the right person at least, it does fuel the passion somehow.
And I think it’s how it’s said, or the context/ how it’s put across. He might call me a sweet angel, but if with a certain sneer or manner, could feel like something entirely different and hot

 

[Utmale48]

I’m the right moment at the right time dirty names are a huge turn on. Nothing like the thought of her being my dirty little slut.

 

[Fistboy]

Love being called names, especially when I’m jerking off, like now.