How many of you hide Literotica from your S.O.?

[LedAstray]

I'm just curious to know how many of you have to hide Literotica from your spouse or significant other? How do you do it? Why?

My husband hid it from me. Hell if I know why, because once I saw it on his dropdown list, I was hooked. I'd like to sit with him and read the stories (preferably out loud), but he's not interested, so we have a folder where we share the stories that turn us on. His is empty I did write a story the other day and challenged him to find it and it took him two days to find it.

Just curious what your experiences are with it.

 

[HiJincs]

I found Literotica while looking for erotic stories. I only found the message boards after a few months of reading the stories.

It was the people and the community that made me decide to tell my SO. I really found everyone interesting.

I did show her the stories also, but she doesn't seem too interested in them. (I like to think it's because we have a sex live more exciting than any story.... right!)

However, we both enjoy reading the forums, often we will be reading different threads and share what we read and comment on the topics

 

[Gilly Bean]

My hubby knows. I hid that I was reading stories for a while, because I wasn't sure how he would react (mostly because a year before, when I found him looking up porn, he was one step from being tossed out on his ass). I finally told him, but it took a long time before I was comfortable enough to read any while he was around. I have him read some once in a while, and have shown him some of the sites. We are both pretty OK with it, now, so it's all good.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

You have to have an S/O first!

 

[Azwed]

I have been debating whether or not i should tell my gf about lit. We tell each other stories sometimes. We normally do it like a bedtime story but sometimes we write them down. I guess the reason I don't is because she can get very jealous sometimes. Well no thats not right she gets insecure. She gets insecure that I will find some other girl more attractive and dump her. I think it would make her insecure that I do sometimes flirt with people on here.

 

[Hecate]

I hide it so to speak (or rather I simply don't shove it into my SO's face)... mainly because my SO doesn't speak /write/read English and I can't be bothered to explain it all to him, second becasue I think it would lead to a lot of useless discussions about why I am hanging out at Lit.

If he were interested in finding out what I am up to on the web he could easily trace my steps online and join us here, I am not actively hiding anything.

 

[shadowsource]

Mine knows -

I had to explain once while I was trying to defend the Social Security program (so help me - what a way to be exposed). She's not very interested and I suspect she thinks I should work harder. Unless she comes here without telling me. But I think not. She doesn't much like porn.

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[SexCrazedQT4U]

My S/O and I found the Literotica site together. We have both enjoyed it together and alone.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

The whole point of my making up a fake name and coming here was so I could have a place to explore sexuality freely, and that meant not involving the "real" me. My wife wouldn't care, but still, she doesn't know. Literotica is mine. All mine. She has "Gilmore Girls", I have this.

 

[celiaKitten]

Funny thing..

my ex found out I was reading stories on lit, and demanded that I stop or "I didn't love him" Needless to say - this was a troubled relationship anyhow ... so I stayed away .. then hid it ... and other things finally slapped me in the ass and said "ditch him!"

and I did.

End of story

 

[Paradox]

Yes, I hide it. This is the other me. Does that sound really sick?

By the way, this is post number 100!

 

[celiaKitten]

YAY!

WooHoo darlin' - now I get to taunt you about what your sexy Av should be

 

[Calamity Jane]

I don't exactly hide lit from my SO... but I would be bothered if he came here. This is my place... I don't want him reading my story(ies) or my posts.

We hada HUGE blowup about whether or not cyber sex was cheating... I was basically ordered not to do it again. No discussion. I wouldn't want him knowing what I write about, what I read about, or how I respond to posts. There are parts of me that he's more comfortable pretending don't exist. That's his right.

 

[Mistress]

I met BF here.....

 

[ohiobbw]

I don't have a S.O.

But I hide Lit from my parents. Wouldn't want them to know that I was at a porn site

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

My parents know. Laurel, Manu -- can I go out and play now?

 

[Chanson_bleu]

I'm a closet Lit-er

My Soon-to-be-ex-husband is an incredible prude sexually, so I would never dream of telling him about it. This has been MY outlet. I've had more intense orgasms reading stories here in a week than in our 10+ years together! He would just DIE if he ever knew not only am I reading erotica, but writing it as well! Isn't that awful?! Reason #167 why we're splitting!

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[freakygirl]

I used to be a closet Lit member.. but now i've shown my husband where i go..

he doesn't read my posts.. and doesn't post here himself.. he has his own porn sites.. and i have mine..

 

[Angel]

I brought him to Lit. He's registered and he posts sometimes.

I act like me while I'm here. Everything I am offline is everything I am online and on Lit. Apparently this bothers him a little bit so he doesn't post here often. He comes once in awhile when he's bored, or I link him to something I think he might like to see, but other than that Lit is *my* thing. He's got his RPG's and other random stuff that I don't enjoy.

 

[Mz_Scarlett]

I met my honey here

I love this site and I'm glad that it is something we can share together. He doesn't post often, but he does read the board and searches for what I post. We use the chat module to talk here as well and email each other links to stories we enjoy.

 

[lobito]

why hide it? why hide anything for that matter?

If you feel you have to hide Lit or anything else from your S.O. then your basically lying to them.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

It's a marriage...not a Vulcan Mind Meld. We are allowed to be our own people.

Keeping an affair from a wife/gf is lying to them. This is typing.

 

[sexy-girl]

i told her about it but it wasnt a big deal or anything ... she enjoys reading posts on here and posting sometimes too ... although i seem to have more free time then her to do that