How many is too many.....

[Kenny9990]

Suppose you were discussing previous sex partners with your spouse. How many would be too many for you--that is, make you angry, jealous, etc?

Or don't you care at all--what happened in the past is over and not relevant. But what is he/she did the deed with someone else after they met you--how do you feel about that?

Personally, I'm intrigued but I couldn't care less about my wife's past from a jealousy standpoint. Thinking about it does turn me on a bit.....

 

[Guest]

Everything is relative.

Age, religion, character of the person, etc.

If you ask me, it's rather pointless question.

Better to get statistics from men's and women's magazins and compair.

 

[ithaqua]

Don't care.

I don't care if they have had sex with the entire state of TX (apart from the fact that they have probably picked up a few pointers doing that).

What I am more interested in is how they get along with there ex's, because I know that I will be one (probably sooner than later).

 

[Lost Cause]

How much is too much, if you never know how much too much is?

 

[Liontamr]

I don't care what the past was like.. but it better be a case of keeping past exploits in the past.

 

[Pyper]

The only reason I'd be worried if my boyfriend had had like a gazillion past sexual partners would be disease. Otherwise, I'm not the jealous type.

 

[lilminx]

The past is the past. I actually prefer that my partners have lots of sexual experience, provided that they are disease-free now.

I like hearing crazy stories of things they've done as well.

 

[Kenny9990]

I'm surprised there are not more people voting who admit to being concerned wiyth their partner's past. Both my wife and her sister are fixated on this.

 

[plasticman33]

It doesn't much matter, the more the merrier! I wouldn't want to apply a double standard, heck I'm a male slut!!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I couldn't care less about my wife's past from a jealousy standpoint.

Now then. You've made three or four threads asking about how many past lovers we've had, whether or not we care about that magic number with our SO's, etc. If you don't care about how many people your wife has been with, why do you keep bringing the topic up? Do you feel guilty about your own number? Do you feel inadequate about your own number? There's something driving you to keep asking this same question, and before you create another thread asking about it, I suggest you figure out why you're SO incredibly interested.


Just a thought.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

It doesn't much matter, the more the merrier! I wouldn't want to apply a double standard, heck I'm a male slut!!

-stalk-

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I want a woman with experience...enough to have gotten some of the wildness 'out of her system'. There's nothing worse than a relationship where one person strays because they still have tons of exploring to do.

 

[SpiceCake]

It doesn't much matter, the more the merrier! I wouldn't want to apply a double standard, heck I'm a male slut!!

That AV is yummy! *drool*

 

[Rex1960]

the old

Madonna vs Whore discussion



I don't think that we should expect a virgin that knows everything

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Too much (many)...

only becomes so if and or when...

'It' becomes detrimental to ones own or others health.

Even if too much becomes boring - it is not hurting anyone.

So why not attempt to see where too much may be?

Always, always, always push for greater heights in pleasure - life is way too short to do otherwise.

 

[RosevilleCAguy]

As long as my SO operates within the parameters of the current relationship, I don't care about the other stuff.

She was a free agent before we hooked up as was I.

Only thing is making sure neither of you has an STD from prior conduct.

 

[The Heretic]

No amount is too many - although a number in the thousands might indicate some kind mental or emotional instability. My only concern would be exposure to STDs - the more partners the more likely that there was an exposure to an STD.

Beyond that, I would rather have someone with some kind of experience than someone without - but either way an open attitude towards sex is more important than experience. Also, quality is more important than quantity.

 

[SpiceCake]

*sighs as she looks up*

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I am interested in the recent count, if only to get an idea of the person's mental and emotional state. If I woman slept with 50 guys in a single night ten years ago, but has been practicing serial monogamy more recently, I'm cool with that. If the gangbang was last week, I'm not so cool with it...