How "Joel and Carrie" changed my (sex-)life

TheCoolKid

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Hey everyone

I wasn't quite sure where to put this, but i figured the general board might be a good place.

First, a little bit about me: I’m 25, male, and happily in love with one naughty, twisted-minded and stunningly beautiful girl. i should also say that English is not my mother tongue, so please forgive my grammar and spelling errors in the text following. I hope you'll read and understand it anyways :)

A bit over a year ago, i was single, bored, sick of porn and horny, so the idea of reading sex stories instead of watching them crossed my mind. I googled and found this site, notably the "Joel and Carrie"-story. I started reading and got addicted; i finished all the 6 or 7 chapters which were out back then by the end of the day.

Not only did the story drive me crazy sexually (i masturbated like twice per chapter), i also figured that with my next girlfriend, i would try to be completely open about my sexual fantasies, not hesitating to ask her to try new things instead of "being stuck" with "just" regular sex. I wasn't exactly thinking about wild orgies and group sex back then, but i definitely wanted to ask her for trying anal (yes, i am an ass-man). Also, the story took a bit of my fear from a threesome with another guy. Of course, a threesome with another girl is probably one of every guy's fantasies. But in general, i got the idea of sharing your girl without getting jealous, something i couldn't imagine before, but now, it seemed possible.

It was only a few weeks later that i met this gorgeous girl, long brown hair, a sexy and beautiful goddess. Personally, i wasn't in perfect shape back then (though i worked on that since :) ), but I never was the shy type, so I took all my courage and asked her out. Long story short, we ended up dating, and after a couple of weeks I decided to take the risk. I took her to my favorite coffee place. It had well separated tables and the music level is just so that you can chat easily, but other won't be able to hear you. Again, I took all my courage and let loose. I told her how I felt about sex, that is was fantastic the way we had it, but that I would like to try other stuff, like anal, like a threesome regardless of allocation, like tasting her juices, cuming all over her body and so on. I knew I could have blown the relationship we had built so far by doing it. Some girls might just have walked out and never spoke to me again. But by then I figured I already knew her well enough. In addition, I did not fail to pick up some dirty comments of her along the dates we had. She was interested, more than that, she was willing to try.

We started to try the funny stuff (alone, of course). We got even more comfortable around each other, in bed and (what surprised me) also in regular life. It's just like you have this one person you aren't afraid of sharing anything with her. I never had that before. Usually, there are always some things you don't tell your girlfriend, and mostly its sex related. But now, this barrier was gone, and I felt like our relationship became even stronger, and I really started to love her as much as I could. I’m not saying I wouldn't have loved her if she wasn't into this stuff, but this way it’s just fantastic.

So one day, she wanted to know where I had all those ideas from, and I gave her the story to read. She read it, and besides the incredible night of sex we had afterwards (she obviously got incredibly horny), I soon realized I’ve created a monster... the story turned my already open-minded and twisted girl into a Carrie.

The next weekend, we had my best friend and his girlfriend over for dinner. I knew that my best friend's girlfriend was pretty prude, he told me on several occasions. But my love didn't quite know that, although she did figure it out soon. But she kept dropping naughty comments. I of course realized where she was coming from and what she was aiming at, and played my role, so did my best friend once he thought he knew what was going on... of course, he didn't fully understand just yet. After a few glasses of wine and Champaign and a lovely dinner, we convinced the girls to kiss, and the evening took off from there into a mind-blowing orgy.

I cannot deny that I was a bit afraid the next morning. My friend was certainly bigger than me. I might be average sized, maybe even a bit below that, but watching porn kinda biases your judgment. Would my love have enjoyed sex with him more than she did with me? I did not ask her, because before I could speak, she showed me all her love she had just for me. I fell back to sleep after, happy and reassured. We talked about it once we finally got up while cleaning the house; I spoke my little fear, only to get it crushed by her. Just over night, our relationship had grown even stronger, stronger than I could ever imagine. I knew now that she would never ever cheat on me (or at least not without me being around), and I felt the same way. Discovering that complete trust was the best feeling I ever had.

It took my best friend's girlfriend about a week to digest what had happened that night, but once she did, it had turned the prude girl she was before into a wild slut. We repeated those dinners twice since, and it got better every time.

As a couple, we also did not hesitate to try to seduce other people or couples. We also figured out that not everybody is as open-minded as ourselves (or the characters in the story). some stated clearly that they were not up for anything like this, most girls were not into anal or would not even try it, and many girls aren't bi-sexual or won't go any further with another girl than kissing or maybe a little petting. Also, especially these days, STDs is an issue, which can easily be solved by wearing condoms, what we always do. This also requires the guys to grab a new condom every time they switch partners - so you need to have some clear mind even while having the wildest orgy possible. Besides all that, we "require" every girl to be on birth control in addition, because things do get messy and you don't know where your juices get carried.

The largest party we had so far was a group of 6, which i think is about the largest it should get. Maybe 8 could work out as well, but with everything above that it gets out of hand i think. I also think it’s important that the people know each other. On one hand, it gives you some security about STDs, and you only want to do this with people who have been tested lately and don't fuck every girl or every guy that crosses their way. E.g., I never invited one of my good friends because he didn't fit those criteria (luckily, he doesn't quite know what exactly is going on at those parties... he thinks its a couple's night :) ) Additionally, it gives you some kind of reassurance that they will always ask before they do stuff, that it doesn't get too rough or that they simply don't care what they do to the other people. So far, we didn't have an issue with that. People were very careful.

Our one year anniversary was just some days ago, and we haven't had a single fight since we met, which i think is incredible. I never had that before. And i think the fact that we can be completely open with each other, not having (m)any secrets about anything, helps a lot. It’s like another barrier between us fell, when we told each other about our fantasies. Once you've done that, it's like there's nothing you could tell the other person that would shock or disgust or upset them. I know, i might be repeating myself by now, but i can't stress that enough :)

So, although a lot of things from "Joel and Carrie" are different in real life, this story certainly helped me improve not only our sex-life, but also our relationship. And for that i would like to thank the author. i don't think we could have come this far without that little inspiration telling us that we're not the only ones with perverted minds, or even better, that it's okay to have a perverted mind.

This has turned out to be quite a long first post :) i hope some people will read it though.

All the best
 
Demonstrate your (yours and your gf's) open-mindedness by posting pics of you giving to her in the pooper.

:)
 
not gonna happen :) on one hand, i don't like taking pictures (or my picture taken) while having sex. those things can only be bad for you. and on the other hand, this is an anonymous post for good reason. i don't want to put out any more information as necessary. the internet is a small place :)
 
what was it listed under? cant seem to find it in the loving wives index
 
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