How do you like to hurt?

[AliceLittle]

A short exchange with someone today prompted me to think about this:

Assuming that you are a masochist, what kind are you? A physical or emotional one? Or a combination of the two? Why do you think so? Do you think you can seperate the two? Or do you need to be one, in order to be the other? Do you think that your history has anything to do with your choices or masochistic bent, again assuming you are a masochist?

On the other side of the coin: You call and toss it.

This is bathroom thinking for me. I'll be in the shower giving this a great deal of thought.

Hold all my calls, please.

Physical for me; eventually the pain triggers an endorphin rush and /that/ is what I enjoy. The pain also increases sensational awareness. I can separate the two and I know it simply because I get NO enjoyment from emotional pain and it is the fastest way to shut down a good experience. Is there a past history that plays into this? A little. I had a shit ton of emotional and verbal abuse growing up. Therefore its a negative association that creates tension that doesn't release easily. I didn't actually discover that I enjoyed pain until I was tattooed for the first time.

Physical pain, on the contrary, does create an oddly calming effect and based on Psychology today, there are theories that some people who have self harm tendencies actually have the opposite reaction to pain that a normal brain does. Instead of creating a stress response, it calms the stress response. Usually it takes about 30 minutes to release endorphins, but for some reason some brains do it faster.

 

[PrisonPerv]

As a Dom and Sadist I prefer the physical pain for subs and slaves. When you get into emotional pain you tend to get more than you bargained for. Plus its very easy to do even more psychosocial damage than either party wants done. I try to stay away from anything but physical pain. Besides its the crys and yelps and moans that get me off.

 

[CoronaExtra43]

Pain or pleasure???

It's one of the many things I haven't been exposed to. But will keep an open mind. Thanks

Not into pain myself, per sa. My ex wife did love to have her nipples pinched and her ass spanked at times. And she would do the same to me.There is that fine line between pain and pleasure. Hurt, type, pain, is definitely not for me!! Absolutely love your profile pic. Desiree1. Beautiful and very intriguing.

 

[hbcacouple]

mmm

It is not an everyday thing but, pain triggers an endorphin rush and I really get off. The situation must be right and I must be "in the mood" but when things are right, there is nothing better. Sometimes bites in my nipples or clit will trigger the need for more. Sometimes I just know that I want a rough session.

 

[slutty4son]

love to be paddled

 

[Ashesh9]

I am from Mumbai India and a Worshipper of Goddess Kali: I hv a Huge Picture of Goddess Kali trampling Her Divine Hubby Lord Shiva in my Bedroom and I insert a Steel Rod in my Penis/Lingam and torture my Prostate Gland/Mooladhara Chakra by pressing until fresh red Blood spurts out in Worship of Her Divine Majesty at my Pain/Penance and I lick/ slurp it up!!!!!

 

[FavoriteAunt]

I am from Mumbai India and a Worshipper of Goddess Kali: I hv a Huge Picture of Goddess Kali trampling Her Divine Hubby Lord Shiva in my Bedroom and I insert a Steel Rod in my Penis/Lingam and torture my Prostate Gland/Mooladhara Chakra by pressing until fresh red Blood spurts out in Worship of Her Divine Majesty at my Pain/Penance and I lick/ slurp it up!!!!!

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