How do you like to be spanked?

For me, any implement will do: hand, paddle, cane, flogger, belt, bullwhip, nettles... You name it, I'll gladly take it. Maybe with a small non-preference for hand, because it may end up being less hard, since the spanker's hand will eventually also hurt.

Bonus points if the implement changes between hits when I least expect it.

In terms of circumstances: Ideally, I'm first forced to strip completely naked, as it adds the humiliation that I crave. Or even better: I'm stripped by force, but the latter tends to fit less well in a spanking scenario. Of course, true humiliation is greatly enhanced if the spanker is not my regular owner, but some stranger or (wishful thinking) somebody I know who normally is not supposed to know about my kinky side: a family member, a vanilla friend, a colleague (esp. if it is someone who in vanilla life would be considered my subordinate), … Or maybe one of those is just watching me being spanked and is learning about my most intimate secrets in that way.

I want to be unable to resist or escape. I’ve been spanked while in arm and leg irons, but still with the ability to (partially) shield myself with my arms, or walk (not run) away, should the opportunity present itself. That’s not ideal. Better is if/when my hands/feet are tied together, or held down by somebody much stronger than me, or locked onto something (a bench, a cross, …) that prevents all that. Also nice is when my entire body is prevented from evading hits, e.g., by being tied down with a leather belt around my waist or so.

When being hit with something long and flexible, I like when it wraps around. Such as when my ass is the thing being aimed at, but during some hits the tip of the whip completely wraps around and hits my cock.

Extra bonus points if sometimes my junk is unexpectedly grabbed from behind, pulled back, and tortured in between regular hits. But this is not compatible with some of the other things I described.

I do not like over the knee. That’s for schoolboys and -girls who do not have the physical strength to escape it. I would have liked it when I was that age, but it didn’t happen. Being a 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 years old man trying to act as if I still were 15 is not humiliating, but just silly. I like role play only when it is realistic. Similarly, any humiliation should be felt for real, not just sexy theater.
 
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I liked to be spanked two ways: my favorite was me being placed in stocks with my legs spread and spanked with a flexible paddle or crop. Second would be head down ass up with the same implements. If the scene was being watched, all the better!
sounds amazing and hot as hell
 
I’ve spent the vast majority of my sexual life in the Dominant role, serving the need of my partner to be dominated. I have quite a bit of experience delivering spanking.

The position is irrelevant, but it must be bare-handed. If her ass burns, my hand better burn as well. As much as possible, whatever she goes through, I go through, too. Gives me a better sense of her experience, her limits versus mine, attunes me to her body through my body. I’ve been calling this physical empathy, though certainly there’s a word for it.

My core value is that the Dominant partner is responsible for the submissive one, for their pleasure and their safety, the architect of intimate connection.
 
I love being spanked hard with some rough groping
Aside from the random impact of my hand on your ass cheeks, tits, and cunt... which happens as I feel the urge,...

I like a ritualistic approach. Blindfold you, and slowly remove the various elegantly sexy items of clothing you wore in accordance with my instructions. As you are bared to me, my touches evolve from teasing to exploratory to invasive as I claim your flesh and awaken every nerve ending. With the blindfold on you find clear focus on my voice and touch, catching every nuance. My voice is firm, deep, and soothing, and despite your ever building arousal and the starkly explicit way I speak about you and what I will do, part of you relaxes into the buttery deep sounds. Once you are completely unclothed, with the exception of the blindfold and your heels, then I move you into position for the spanking. It could be over my lap, it could be standing and bent over holding the edge of a table or piece of furniture.

and yes, I intend to mix the sting with the sooth, and the pleasure with some pain.

Progressively hard my hand comes, large and heavy. I prefer you bent over so my swing is in line with your spine and you feel the vibration of each blow up through your frame, making your hanging breasts bounce and your nipples tingle. As you arch your back, your puffy outer labia protrude from between your thighs and I aim for either side of your entrance, so the heat radiates into your sexual core. I take pleasure in your surrender and the sight of your gorgeous vulva, and the scent of your arousal gratifies and electrifies my own rising hungers.

Then more spankings, progressively harder, but each deliberate, pausing so you can thank me properly and count.

This is where my self-control begins to give way, and I indulge my fingers in their desire to explore your sex. I make it a tease as well, just because I am playful like that, delighting in torturing you with almost there touches, but as my self-control dissolves I become more aggressive and greedy. I spread your cheeks and leave nothing unplundered.
 
Recently I had a fantasy of mine fulfilled when I had my tits spanked. Oh my it was soooo damn hot and delicious!!!! Bare handed though because I fear anything else may cause long term damage to chest.
that sounds fun I could see giving your tits a hard squeeze and then pinching your nipples while you moan before slapping your breasts as hard as I could with a smile on my face

I would also be tempted to use a riding crop
 
For me it has to be a paddle unless his hands are really big. I feel like some guys don’t know how to slap correctly and sometimes its dull or is too soft. Paddles cover more surface evenly!
 
For me it has to be a paddle unless his hands are really big. I feel like some guys don’t know how to slap correctly and sometimes its dull or is too soft. Paddles cover more surface evenly!
Have paddle to hand, ready and waiting. Would you like to bend over or be tied to the bed?
 
For me it has to be a paddle unless his hands are really big. I feel like some guys don’t know how to slap correctly and sometimes its dull or is too soft. Paddles cover more surface evenly!
well I do have big hands...but I also enjoy a paddle and can have one at the ready
 
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