How do you like to be spanked?

[hrdmngd2find]

I have zero interest in being spanked, but giving a spanking to a woman is nearly a fetish for me. I'm often ritualistic about it. I will put a woman into the position, sometimes tie her there, and slowly and deliberately apply my hand to her. It could be over my lap, but more often, bent over the bed, or bent over holding something like a table or desk. Her ass must be bare because I want complete access, and since I am an "ass guy" I want to see everything. I like the reveal as her panties come down.

She will count each spank and thank me for each one. I might have her count down if I want to allow her some mental relief and an anticipation of it ending. In between spanks, I touch her more in a soothing way, and I explore everything that is offered to me. I want to juxtapose pleasure with the pain, and since every woman I have done this with is wet, I use her wetness on her clit and labia. Sometimes I mix in spanks or slaps on her cunt or specifically target her clit. The idea is to completely jar her nerve endings in her most sensitive places.

I have no interest in leaving marks, bruises, or breaking skin. If you like that, fine. I don't. It just doesn't suit my sense of aesthetics. I also rarely spank as a punishment. I spank because I like doing it, and for other reasons, but rarely for punishment.

The spanks have some power behind them because I want her to feel my strength. I want her to feel the blows deeply- in her joints and throughout her frame. I normally spank as part of sex. I won't say always, but mostly. The fuck is going to be utterly primal when we get to that point.

 

[rd1884]

I like being spanked by hand to get my ass warmed up. After that I really enjoy a mix between a paddle, riding crop and flogger. Pretty incredible.

 

[theCARS1979]

I'd love to be spanked over a girls knee with a hair brush paddle or a bare hand.

 

[Boat1]

I like to be spanked with love, VERY harshly, as a prelude to a severe whipping.

 

[kara_cd_sissy]

OTK is delightful hand paddle and hairbrush, set the bum on fire over a broad area.

 

[readingmary]

I have zero interest in being spanked, but giving a spanking to a woman is nearly a fetish for me. I'm often ritualistic about it. I will put a woman into the position, sometimes tie her there, and slowly and deliberately apply my hand to her. It could be over my lap, but more often, bent over the bed, or bent over holding something like a table or desk. Her ass must be bare because I want complete access, and since I am an "ass guy" I want to see everything. I like the reveal as her panties come down.

She will count each spank and thank me for each one. I might have her count down if I want to allow her some mental relief and an anticipation of it ending. In between spanks, I touch her more in a soothing way, and I explore everything that is offered to me. I want to juxtapose pleasure with the pain, and since every woman I have done this with is wet, I use her wetness on her clit and labia. Sometimes I mix in spanks or slaps on her cunt or specifically target her clit. The idea is to completely jar her nerve endings in her most sensitive places.

I have no interest in leaving marks, bruises, or breaking skin. If you like that, fine. I don't. It just doesn't suit my sense of aesthetics. I also rarely spank as a punishment. I spank because I like doing it, and for other reasons, but rarely for punishment.

The spanks have some power behind them because I want her to feel my strength. I want her to feel the blows deeply- in her joints and throughout her frame. I normally spank as part of sex. I won't say always, but mostly. The fuck is going to be utterly primal when we get to that point.

Okay...think toy time is needed after reading that. LOL

 

[hrdmngd2find]

Okay...think toy time is needed after reading that. LOL

Be sure to mix in some clit spanks, or for the full effect, self-administered spanks in the ass up head down position.

 

[readingmary]

Be sure to mix in some clit spanks, or for the full effect, self-administered spanks in the ass up head down position.

I've done the lady parts spanks, but the bum ones are harder to do. Need to add those in, thank you for the suggestions.

 

[partsecond]

I like to be spanked with hips. Hard slappy sounds.

 

[fma20fma]

spank is dull and not very effective except being erotic foreplay. A thin whippy rattan cane delivers the sharp sting and motivates better and a craving for bareback sodomy weekend night whilst tipsy on whisky.

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

I am very new to this forum and don't know if I am in the right place. When in school I was spanked by another girl with her hair brush, there were other girls there also, 4 others, a club initiation sort of, I was over her knee, she pulled down my panties (regular bikini panties) 5 swats from each girl. It was very embarassing to be showing my ass, but even worse was admitting I was so excited that I wet her thigh. She did not hesitate to tell the girls. I learned somethings about myself at a young age. I liked light spanking, being restrained, humiliated, and touched. Restrained and being subjected to sexual stuff is a great turn on for me. I am now 23 and live in the boondocks so it is difficult to satisfy this need to be a sub.

 

[peachielips]

Do you prefer hand, paddle, hairbrush or maybe a caning?
Me, I personally I like a good long hard hand spanking.

Over the knee for sure and with just the hand. But I’ve been suuuuuuper fantasizing a lot about this specific sequence. Scene- angry older daddy (mmm either grey hair/bald), preferably chubby or fat but strong and like rough primal. Because I need to be punished.
starting with all clothes on, then pants down and underwear on ; panties down bare bottom. But the pants/panties are still around my thighs. And later in the spanking they go to my ankles.

 

[Boat1]

I am very new to this forum and don't know if I am in the right place. When in school I was spanked by another girl with her hair brush, there were other girls there also, 4 others, a club initiation sort of, I was over her knee, she pulled down my panties (regular bikini panties) 5 swats from each girl. It was very embarassing to be showing my ass, but even worse was admitting I was so excited that I wet her thigh. She did not hesitate to tell the girls. I learned somethings about myself at a young age. I liked light spanking, being restrained, humiliated, and touched. Restrained and being subjected to sexual stuff is a great turn on for me. I am now 23 and live in the boondocks so it is difficult to satisfy this need to be a sub.

Thanks for the wonderful share and welcome to Lit!

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

Over the knee for sure and with just the hand. But I’ve been suuuuuuper fantasizing a lot about this specific sequence. Scene- angry older daddy (mmm either grey hair/bald), preferably chubby or fat but strong and like rough primal. Because I need to be punished.
starting with all clothes on, then pants down and underwear on ; panties down bare bottom. But the pants/panties are still around my thighs. And later in the spanking they go to my ankles.

I've never been paddled or caned and now I think something like a ping pong paddle or maybe a belt I would like to try. And I think part of the excitement was being bare-assed in front of peopleWhen my right leg fell off her thigh I was completely open and I was drooling, ashamed, and I wanted her to touch me so badly to make me cum, but she never knew that, I don't think.

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

Okay...think toy time is needed after reading that. LOL

will this do? I think I would probably have a fit. I get excited thinking of someone puting me in this position.
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[SmoothAndSweet]

will this do? I think I would probably have a fit. I get excited thinking of someone puting me in this position.
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[Fret2023]

Yes, bare hand on bare bottom would be best

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

Yes, bare hand on bare bottom would be best

Have you actually spanked anyone? It's really hard on the hand

 

[Ashesh9]

Have you actually spanked anyone? It's really hard on the hand

Yes I have both with cane and hand and once a belt

 

[Ashesh9]

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[SmoothAndSweet]

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[Uncut1969]

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Gorgeous

 

[Cuddlycarebear]

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Great pics thanks

 

[babysitterbuttslut]

Bare handed. Something to impersonal about a cane or crop and slightly terrifying.

 

[Angiewantsmore]

Truth is I don't but these days spanking me makes hubby stiffer than anything else. He uses a pair of wooden batons with rounded edges, louvers from an old louvered door. That way he can deliver two blows in really rapid succession which really makes me squeal. It really stings for a long time afterwards, leaving my bum a very vivid red. Still once he is done hubby holds a vibrator to my clit whilst he takes me joyessly from behind enjoying my mixture of pleasure and discomfort.​