How Do I Find A R/L Dom/me?

[Maximumtest]

Hi all, i'm not really new at being a Sub (i'm 22 and in England) but have decided that online is no longer enough for me and was wondering if anybody could give me some advice on the best places online I could find a Mistress or even a Master who would be willing to take me on in R/L. I have Googled quite a bit, but i seem to have a hard to finding genuine personal ad sites and not just BDSM related porn sites. (not that theres anything wrong with those ) What also makes things difficult is that i'm in the UK, and what i could find seemed to cater more to the US. Any ideas or suggestions.... or even anyone you know here who needs a boi on a leash?

Many Thanks

 

[Maximumtest]

(please note this is not a personal ad, or certainly not intended to be, I just thought i'd shove me pic on for the hell of it, sorry if it breaches any rules)

 

[Vixandra]

Part of me wants to say its a "How to" thread, another says its a "BDSM Personalls", final part says you're in the right place.

That said- toss up an add on the personals site here- can't hurt. Moving along- are there any local munches or clubs in your area?
Might also ask the proprieters of the local sex toy stores- they might know of a group of BDSM'ers that they can introduce you to.

Not sure other then that.

 

[Maximumtest]

Hi, I might well ask at the local Adult store or see if they have a notice board. Wasn't sure where to put this post but the ppl in this area seem the most knowledgeable from what I read, was trying not to step on anyones toes Thanks

 

[catalina_francisco]

If you want I can PM you some good Euro personal sites where you can advertise in this area. BTW, welcome to the forum.

Catalina

 

[Maximumtest]

Hi Cat, that would be fantastic. Could you PM them to me?

 

[snowy ciara]

I came, I saw, I Googled..

I used "bdsm clubs in England"

This looks like a good place to start:

Finding your local sex positive culture

A listing of bdsm nightclubs in England:

Open directory Seem like dropping by one of these spots one night might help to meet people..

In another thread, people have been talking up collarme.com; some people have had good luck there. Here's the thread if you want some testimonials:

Who opened all the cages?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Re: I came, I saw, I Googled..

I used "bdsm clubs in England"

This looks like a good place to start:

Finding your local sex positive culture

A listing of bdsm nightclubs in England:

Open directory Seem like dropping by one of these spots one night might help to meet people..

In another thread, people have been talking up collarme.com; some people have had good luck there. Here's the thread if you want some testimonials:

Who opened all the cages?

Actually another male sub in Europe mentioned collarme.com the other day as a place to get lots of good replies. So far he has met a couple of nice Dommes, but nothing right for him, and a lot who did the usual online lead up overtime then called off the meeting at the last minute. Think that is part of the process on most personal sites though.

Catalina

 

[snowy ciara]

Well, I've never tried it; but some folks have gotten good results. It seems though, that whenever someone mentions personals sites; this one gets better reviews than say, alt.com or the other big one. I think it's bondage.com?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Well, I've never tried it; but some folks have gotten good results. It seems though, that whenever someone mentions personals sites; this one gets better reviews than say, alt.com or the other big one. I think it's bondage.com?

Seems that way...have to check it out.....was going to earlier this week and forgot.

Catalina

 

[princess4u]

i've had good experiences with collarme.com - i have met several local people - some just as friends with whom i had dinner or drinks and discuss the lifestyle - and a few "wanna-be" doms who fell far below the mark

best of all - i met my Master on that site - funny though, he messaged me one time on the site itself and then we took it immediately to email off that site

anyway....i really did enjoy the site and it was easy to search and find local people - i don't recall if there were many people on there from the UK