Hookin' up via the web ...

Have you had a real-life sexual encounter based on an initial web encounter ?

  • Women: I have never had sex with someone I have met on the internet.

    Votes: 9 14.8%
  • Men: I have never had sex with someone I have met on the internet.

    Votes: 12 19.7%
  • Women: I have had sex with one person I have met on the internet.

    Votes: 9 14.8%
  • Men: I have had sex with one person I have met on the internet.

    Votes: 8 13.1%
  • Women: I have had sex with two different people I have met on the internet.

    Votes: 8 13.1%
  • Men: I have had sex with two different people I have met on the internet.

    Votes: 3 4.9%
  • Women: I have had sex with three or more different people I have met on the internet.

    Votes: 4 6.6%
  • Men: I have had sex with three or more different people I have met on the internet.

    Votes: 8 13.1%

  • Total voters
    61
  • Poll closed .
BiFem36DD said:
yup!


:kiss: saxet


Mmm Bi! (((((((BiFem))))))) That is the best I can do for an embrace right now! I gently kiss your sweet soft lips, :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
 
......not gonna post again in hopes of catching a glimpse of saxet BUMP'n again........
 
Have you been in the thread, "Men who truly love to Lick"? Very interesting reading I think, or maybe you should read one or both of my stories to see how much I really do love to lick!!!!!
 
BiFem36DD said:
I've read your stories darling.

I rate them two nipples up!:p

So what's the deal...you don't have your own stories to share on this thread?

Tease!:p

Roman
 
Ok ok ok.... I'll spill.

The first one? A virtual nightmare. He lied about everything except for being male. Sent me a fake pic, etc... Ummm CLUE? If you are going to meet someone? Do NOT send a fake pic! We talked on the phone 3 times a day for weeks..... emailed constantly... etc... we met on a discussion board. Make a long story short? I got off the plane and this short nasty lookin man came up to me? I took the next flight home. I despise liars.

The next? Yet another discussion board. Glutton for punishment? Maybe so. He got me from 'hello.' He called the next day? We talked for 6 hours. When he had to run an errand? He called from his cell. We were inseparable. We finished each others sentences and laughed at the same silly jokes. We agreed on the right subjects and had all beliefs in common. He said all the right things at all the right times. Spoiled me rotten to the core. Sent gifts and notes constantly. His secretary had specific instructions to find him whenever I called no matter what. We met.... it was magical. A real life fairy tale. Saying things like you are more beautiful than I dreamed and that he loved me.

I flew out every other weekend to be with him.... it was so magical. This was all with the understanding.... No matter what? Leaving my husband was NOT an option. This went on for 6 months... we were at the ocean watching the sunrise and he said he had a question. OMG!!!!!!! Hello? What are you doing proposing? He apologized and went through the I'm sorry thing all day and pouting.

We celebrated our one year anniversary by him asking me to choose between my husband and him.

He was not chosen.

I am VERY happily married. However, there is no passion. You'd have to be in my shoes to understand however, "he" thought somehow I would change my mind.

I miss him dearly, I will love him forever and we do exchange emails every so often but, never to meet again.
 
Wow, quite the experience. I will post mine. By the way Bi, I do not become attached like that. Hooked on your hot loving, yes, want you to run away with me, no, life is more complicated that that.
 
OK, what is it with these stories about guys sending fake pics and then hoping that when they show up IRL, the woman will somehow swoon for them when they see the disappointing reality? Are guys really that deluded?

OK, so I can see how some guys are. My bad.

Roman
 
saxetman said:
Wow, quite the experience. I will post mine. By the way Bi, I do not become attached like that. Hooked on your hot loving, yes, want you to run away with me, no, life is more complicated that that.

Reminds me of Carrie Fisher's line from When Harry Met Sally:

Meg Ryan: He's never going to leave her.
Carrie Fisher: You're right, you're right, I know you're right.

Not that I've ever been in such a position, but if you've met someone who's married and doesn't want to end that, do you really think that you could possibly be hot enough to change that person's mind?

Pure hubris. Lord, what fools these mortals be!

Roman
:D
 
Judging by all of my friends? My answer would have to be yes to every question!

The man sent the fake pic knowing what he looked like but hoping I'd fall in love with the inside NOT the outside and forgive him.

Women hook up with married men in hopes that one day? He will leave his wife.

Ditto on the men scenario.

How could she want him when she could have me...... type of mentality.
 
BiFem36DD said:
Judging by all of my friends? My answer would have to be yes to every question!

The man sent the fake pic knowing what he looked like but hoping I'd fall in love with the inside NOT the outside and forgive him.

Women hook up with married men in hopes that one day? He will leave his wife.

Ditto on the men scenario.

How could she want him when she could have me...... type of mentality.

Ah well, guess I just don't have that degree of chutzpah. Must be my limitation.;)

Roman
 
Hey Sax, funny meeting you here. LOL

Ok....my turn to wade into the conversation. Well, I have met people in person that I met online, but not for sexual purposes. I met my best friend online when she lived at another base (we met on an e-mail list we were both on), then they got orders to the same base my hubby was stationed at. We met in person and now are "bestest" friends. Have met a couple of other ladies from that same e-mail list when they've come to town, too.

As for meeting for intimate encounters....there are some with whom I chat and would like to meet in person, but a few factors keep me from doing that.

1. I'm married, and don't feel comfortable breaking my marriage vows. Not really very happily married, so I'm very tempted, however.

2. Safety, as has been discussed in this thread.

3. Health. I know that I'm disease free, and would like to believe that the person I met was also, if he/she claimed to be...but you never know. Likewise, he/she would have to take me at my word, also. Of course, precautions would be taken, but nothing is 100% safe except abstinence.

4. Pregnancy. My husband had a vasectomy after our son was born. I conceive very easily (son was conceived on birth control pills). With my luck condoms would break and I'd get pregnant.

For what its worth, that is my take on the subject.

Blue
 
BlueDaisy said:
Hey Sax, funny meeting you here. LOL

Ok....my turn to wade into the conversation. Well, I have met people in person that I met online, but not for sexual purposes. I met my best friend online when she lived at another base (we met on an e-mail list we were both on), then they got orders to the same base my hubby was stationed at. We met in person and now are "bestest" friends. Have met a couple of other ladies from that same e-mail list when they've come to town, too.

As for meeting for intimate encounters....there are some with whom I chat and would like to meet in person, but a few factors keep me from doing that.

1. I'm married, and don't feel comfortable breaking my marriage vows. Not really very happily married, so I'm very tempted, however.

2. Safety, as has been discussed in this thread.

3. Health. I know that I'm disease free, and would like to believe that the person I met was also, if he/she claimed to be...but you never know. Likewise, he/she would have to take me at my word, also. Of course, precautions would be taken, but nothing is 100% safe except abstinence.

4. Pregnancy. My husband had a vasectomy after our son was born. I conceive very easily (son was conceived on birth control pills). With my luck condoms would break and I'd get pregnant.

For what its worth, that is my take on the subject.

Blue


((((((((BLUE))))))))

You make all excellent points, Talking with people on the web adds spice to life, reality keeps us from just going completely wild.
 
saxetman said:
((((((((BLUE))))))))

You make all excellent points, Talking with people on the web adds spice to life, reality keeps us from just going completely wild.

Thanks for the hug, Sax. I needed that :)

Yeah, chatting online is great. These days the only "sex" I get is the cyber variety! lol
And it does help me to keep sane.

Blue
 
BlueDaisy said:
Thanks for the hug, Sax. I needed that :)

Yeah, chatting online is great. These days the only "sex" I get is the cyber variety! lol
And it does help me to keep sane.

Blue

We do have our fingers crossed for you that the situation would change for the better.
 
saxetman said:
We do have our fingers crossed for you that the situation would change for the better.

Thanks, Sax, I do appreciate that. But I'm not holding my breath. Hubby and I had a long talk yesterday, and we both are pretty much in agreement as to where this marriage seems to be going. We both love each other...but are no longer "in love" with each other. The way things look now, unless some major changes come about, we pretty much feel that we will be splitting up when the girls graduate; at least we have about 1.5 years or so to see if it can work out. By then, if it doesn't work, I'll have had the time to get the training I need to get a job.

Blue
 
Oh blue....... (((((blue)))))

Although I do not know you. My heart aches for you.

I am so sorry to learn of your situation and my heart is heavy with sadness.

You ever need someone to listen or just a shoulder? PM me anytime ok?:rose:
 
BiFem36DD said:
Oh blue....... (((((blue)))))

Although I do not know you. My heart aches for you.

I am so sorry to learn of your situation and my heart is heavy with sadness.

You ever need someone to listen or just a shoulder? PM me anytime ok?:rose:

Thanks, sweetie. I appreciate it. But I'm ok. I was just filling Sax in on how things are going with me, as he has known about my situation for a while now.

Blue
 
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