Holding Your Tongue

[Guest]

 

[TBKahuna123]

You know, that's an interesting point. I wonder why that is.

Because we need validation? Nah, personally I think it's just guys needing an ego stroke. "I have a 6 1/2-7 inch cock, but I'm worried it's too small. Please tell me how much better a 6 inch cock is than a 10 inch one!"

You notice you never see a guy come on and say "OK, I truthfully have a 3 1/2 inch penis. Is there anyway I'm gonna make a woman happy?" I dare say THIS guy would get some genuine responses from women on how to deal with having a less than average sized schlong. But the above schmuck...he's just looking for a mental handjob.

 

[TBKahuna123]

I was wondering about my junk?

It looks as if it is bent downwards and then sort of rises to a point almost.

A lot of the time it looks low and I am never sure if it is realy big enough to satisfy.

I try keeping it wet as much of the time as I can, and when it is wet for the most part it stays firm and erect, I like it full and firm, I am not the fastest to whip it out, but once it is out I can keep coming and going all day or all night.

I wonder if you ladies would take a look at it and tell me what you realy think?

See here it is.

OK, I htink we need to start one of those "Who's got the hottest Junk" threads over in the Am Pics section. Or would that be wrong?

 

[AppleBiter]

OK, I htink we need to start one of those "Who's got the hottest Junk" threads over in the Am Pics section. Or would that be wrong?

I think it would be hilarious.

 

[Eilan]

You notice you never see a guy come on and say "OK, I truthfully have a 3 1/2 inch penis. Is there anyway I'm gonna make a woman happy?"

Exactly. An average-sized (or even a little above average) penis isn't good enough.

It's porn! Porn's to blame!

 

[Recidiva]

Anyhow, to the advice-givers, do you ever hold your tongue? Do you read through a thread and back away before you say what you know needs to be said, or do you tell it like it is?

Hardly anybody listens to advice unless they solicit it, and then they'll only listen to what they want to hear.

Say what you want to say, but make it entertaining, at least to yourself, because you're probably the only one who is going to read it and understand your actual intention.

Feel free to walk away, too. It is just bait on a hook and not even good bait. Have fun with the bait you think might be yummy and avoid the hook.

Especially avoid all the people pointing to the hook and saying "LOOK! IT'S A TRAP!" It's always a trap. Duh.

 

[Eilan]

Hardly anybody listens to advice unless they solicit it, and then they'll only listen to what they want to hear.

Sometimes the thread-starter's intent is to seek validation or attention instead of advice. Then they get all pissy when others don't say what they want to hear.

 

[Recidiva]

Sometimes the thread-starter's intent is to seek validation or attention instead of advice. Then they get all pissy when others don't say what they want to hear.

Yeah, those are the obvious "multiple choice" people. You're only there to fill in their little circle.

 

[Eilan]

I have to confess that I didn't hold my tongue very well today.

There's a thread on the Personals Board started by a guy who wants a last fling before he gets married in a month. While I know that that I probably should have just ignored it, I didn't.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Actually I think you did pretty well. This was one of those "hit em upside the head with a hammer" moments. I say bravo!

 

[Quoll]

I have to confess that I didn't hold my tongue very well today.

There's a thread on the Personals Board started by a guy who wants a last fling before he gets married in a month. While I know that that I probably should have just ignored it, I didn't.

Nice threadkill.

 

[Eilan]

Nice threadkill.

I usually feel guilty when I kill threads. Not today.

 

[AppleBiter]

I usually feel guilty when I kill threads. Not today.

Ooh, ooh, I want a link!

 

[Eilan]

Ooh, ooh, I want a link!

Here ya go.

 

[AppleBiter]

Here ya go.

Thanks, doll. *High five* That was fucking awesome!

 

[Eilan]

Thanks, doll. *High five* That was fucking awesome!

I consider myself pretty sexually open and all, but cheating is something that I just can't condone. That guy's bride-to-be's probably not suspecting a thing.

That's not the way to start a marriage.

 

[AppleBiter]

I consider myself pretty sexually open and all, but cheating is something that I just can't condone. That guy's bride-to-be's probably not suspecting a thing.

That's not the way to start a marriage.

*nods* I fully agree.

 

[TBKahuna123]

I consider myself pretty sexually open and all, but cheating is something that I just can't condone. That guy's bride-to-be's probably not suspecting a thing.

That's not the way to start a marriage.

I've never understood this whole get laid on your bachelor party night thing. I guess to me marriage isn't the commitment, you've already made that commitment to be faithful before you get married. At least, you'd better have! Hell, even in an open marriage there is a commitment of some sort. Marriage doesn't work without it.

 

[Guest]

 

[warrior queen]

i tell it like it is, and have no problem voicing my personal opinion.
sometimes i'll turn away without replying, but that's only because the subject doesn't interest me or someone else got in the bitchy, over-the-top comment before i could.
way i see it, if someone doesn't want to hear my view, they shouldn't tempt me to respond by starting a thread in the first place!

what can i say - i'm blunt as a brick and as tactful as a rock.

 

[Pyro Paul]

i manage to be one that get people to not hold there tongue. but acctualy, i quite enjoy stirring up aurgument, it makes it more interesting as well as their mind's work out the problem before them and do their best to shut me up and make me wrong. sometimes i will post partualy incorrect information, and wonder if any one will jump on me for it . i know eilan will, and it is nice that someone does, although s/he only points out im wrong and not things that back it up

... i guess i kinda am, an anti tongue holding person.. i will some times say things extreamly awry forcing some to just jump up and say 'no!'

 

[Bibliodrak]

I consider myself pretty sexually open and all, but cheating is something that I just can't condone. That guy's bride-to-be's probably not suspecting a thing.

That's not the way to start a marriage.

The guys a complete #$%@#$%
You said exactly what was needed in the politest possible way

 

[Eilan]

i manage to be one that get people to not hold there tongue. but acctualy, i quite enjoy stirring up aurgument, it makes it more interesting as well as their mind's work out the problem before them and do their best to shut me up and make me wrong. sometimes i will post partualy incorrect information, and wonder if any one will jump on me for it . i know eilan will, and it is nice that someone does, although s/he only points out im wrong and not things that back it up

... i guess i kinda am, an anti tongue holding person.. i will some times say things extreamly awry forcing some to just jump up and say 'no!'

Maybe this isn't the right place to address this, but you posted here, so what the hell. Again, my tongue-holding is failing miserably.

If you're posting partially incorrect information on purpose, then that's pretty shitty. What kind of person gets his jollies baiting people like that? If you want to do that, go to the General Board, where I assure you that you'll get even more soundly spanked than you are here.

The people who come here with serious questions about things like birth control deserve the best we can give them. We're not claiming to be medical professionals, just people who might have some experience or insight to offer. IIRC, you're a virgin, so you have neither experience nor insight. At best, you're irresponsible.

If you like posting misinformation that someone might actually interpret as fact, then be prepared to get your ass slapped around for it whenever you're wrong. And I'm not the only one who feels this way; there are a few of us who'll be combing through your posts with a fine-toothed comb.

Oh, and you want to know where I get my info? Ever hear of Planned Parenthood? How about WebMD? Or Google? How about the fact that until about two years ago I was trying to prevent pregnancies? Has it ever occurred to you that I might have researched birth control options because I was using birth control?

I'm inclined to believe that you don't really believe what you're saying. You're just trying to rationalize your ignorance now that you've been called on it a few times.

By the way, I'm female, thankyouveryfuckingmuch.

AppleBiter, I apologize for hijacking your thread. Please feel free to put it back on track.

 

[silverwhisper]

eilan: you haven't read many of pyro paul's posts previously, have you?

i'm sure someone somewhere has a massively self-congratulatory postmodern thesis about how trolling is in fact a more enlightened form of internet discourse. its author can blow me b/c it's utter bullshit. trolls are idiots and the only proper response is ignoring 'em. unless, of course, you happen to be a pyromaniac. which periodically, i am. :>

back on topic: i hold my tongue now & again, unless faced w/ such ridiculous pig ignorance as to warrant something more than simple, stony silence.

ed

 

[Eilan]

eilan: you haven't read many of pyro paul's posts previously, have you?

Yeah, I have, but I've also held my tongue until recently.