Hiring an escort

[ayrton]

I am desperate to get laid and have no prospects. I am 71 years old. I have never used an escort before. Any tips and precautions I should take. Where should I look for legitimate girls in the Chicago area?

 

[twister947]

I would take a road trip to Nevada.

 

[jehoram]

Or maybe Canada? Don't know if prostitution is legal there, but it's closer to Chicago.

 

[Lady2020]

I'm thinking Chicago would have a want ads section in several venues. Just be careful. Vet the hell out of them, or her.

 

[ContinentalPsyOp]

lots of good websites and review sites to help find the right professional.

 

[Bigspurt]

I would take a road trip to Nevada.

Have you ever looked up the Bunny Ranch? Prices are into 4 figures. That’s a lot of money for a good cum!

 

[Starlust]

Yep I'm gonna hire one sometime in the coming months, so I can be rid of my virginity at last (am 37).

 

[Starlust]

Far be it from me to say you shouldn’t hire a pro… but have you figured out why you’re still a virgin at this late date? Is it fixable?

Is that directed at me or the OP?

 

[bone251]

I was in this hobby 10-25 years ago. Currently I have a nice S.O. and do not need anyone extra.

I think about the ladies I met on a board similar to this one. This board was for the exchange of info and ideas. The ladies were independent. They kept there money and had no one telling them anything. Free choice.

I preferred the mature girls and found several that had regular decent day jobs. They were in it for the sex and doing the escort gig let them choose who they seen and gave them some extra money, including the hotel room.

I found several ladies that like to travel. They could easily pay there way about anyplace they wanted to see.

The ladies are connected so they can share info about the guys they might see. I think that is an impressive and worth discussion.

And at the same time, the guys would discuss and put reviews out of the girls they seen.

It was interesting to see the process of getting a date.

Finding a state that is legal does not really matter. If you meet a girl at a hotel or her place and leave money in a plain envelope on a table, then you did not give her the money. But she will find it.

Looking for Escort forums is good. THey used to be out there more. Several got shut down.

Girls call it a donation not a rate.

Feel free to PM me.


Stay away from Craigs list, back page and the like. The girls there tend to have managers or pimps. You never want that.

I had some luck with https://www.seeking.com/. I found several mature girls - 35 -65 - that were just easy dates for sex only. SOme wanted money. Some wanted money just for the hotel room.

 

[ContinentalPsyOp]

Great advice from a trombone player ^

Never met a trombonist who steered me wrong yet!

 

[Starlust]

I was asking you - but not trying to cause offense.

Ah, wasn't sure as you didn't quote me. Well, I'd say it's a mixture of mild autism, depression, and possibly being aromantic that's stopped me from losing it so far.

 

[Thepenismightier0813]

That's a hard trio to deal with Star. From one romantic to the other I hope you find love finds it's way to you sooner rather than later!

 

[Starlust]

That's a hard trio to deal with Star. From one romantic to the other I hope you find love finds it's way to you sooner rather than later!

Well I'm not sure whether or not I want a proper relationship, that's the trouble, hence the bit about being aromantic maybe.

 

[KatieDoes]

Have you ever looked up the Bunny Ranch? Prices are into 4 figures. That’s a lot of money for a good cum!

Its probably cheaper than legal fees if he chooses wrong.

Sex work is work. How much would you charge a random, strange, potentially dangerous man to fuck you?

 

[bone251]

A major point of an escort is when the date is over. It is over.

Discretion. If you see each other out and about, you do not know each other. (maybe if the path is cleared and both are alone. but just maybe )

When you go for the next date, it is on again. Then when you walk out the door, the date is over. It is over.

I am a realtor and showed a property that a girl I seen the day before was in. She had kids and I had clients. We did not know each other. She did send me an email laughing about it and thanking me for acting properly.

You can have a girlfriend or a wife and have love and sex.

Or you can see an escort for sex and buy a dog.

 

[VincentFloyd]

There’s a few sites out there, doing your research is key. Finding which ones are legit and newbie friendly to get your foot in the door will help.

Keep everything vague but let them know your situation and they will help out.

Make sure to use cash

 

[bone251]

The erotic review might yield some info.

 

[Luganis]

I was in this hobby 10-25 years ago. Currently I have a nice S.O. and do not need anyone extra.

I think about the ladies I met on a board similar to this one. This board was for the exchange of info and ideas. The ladies were independent. They kept there money and had no one telling them anything. Free choice.

I preferred the mature girls and found several that had regular decent day jobs. They were in it for the sex and doing the escort gig let them choose who they seen and gave them some extra money, including the hotel room.

I found several ladies that like to travel. They could easily pay there way about anyplace they wanted to see.

The ladies are connected so they can share info about the guys they might see. I think that is an impressive and worth discussion.

And at the same time, the guys would discuss and put reviews out of the girls they seen.

It was interesting to see the process of getting a date.

Finding a state that is legal does not really matter. If you meet a girl at a hotel or her place and leave money in a plain envelope on a table, then you did not give her the money. But she will find it.

Looking for Escort forums is good. THey used to be out there more. Several got shut down.

Girls call it a donation not a rate.

Feel free to PM me.


Stay away from Craigs list, back page and the like. The girls there tend to have managers or pimps. You never want that.

I had some luck with https://www.seeking.com/. I found several mature girls - 35 -65 - that were just easy dates for sex only. SOme wanted money. Some wanted money just for the hotel room.

That’s the perfect advice: white envelope in clear sight. If you want, you can even write contribution to your education fund. So it shows a purpose for the money…

In England, prostitution is not illegal as it’s not hiring a prostitute. They re considered independent workers and pay taxes. What is illegal is manage prostitutes, massage parlors, solicitation, etc. Girls have their own flat (apartment) where they receive their customers, so they pay rent, services, council tax as any other person.

 

[Elite_Goblin]

Funny how expensive it is in Nevada.

Book a vacation to Germany. One of the larger cities, Frankfurt, Munich, Regensburg, just not a town.
Most walk-in sex places are 50euros for 20 minutes of sex. Not much of a discount if you want it longer. Walk around the building, the available ladies are in the hallways. Talk to them, take your pick (or picks), then have your fun.

I saw some really super-hot women online. You call them up and schedule a time and place. Usually between 180 and 200 per hour. But I have to tell you that these are knock-outs!

There are also many escort service places and massage parlors that do not beat around the bush. You can go in for a massage, but also get a happy ending too.

So much more relaxed in Europe!

 

[docisin]

I’ve hired a lot of sex workers over the years. I think its awesome, no strings, just pleasure. a couple of things I’ve found: I used to use a place in NYC regularly. A brothel of sorts, used to be about $160/half hour, and I loved it. I’ve travelled to Amdam and Belgium and Germany, no place like them, because it’s legal, fun, no pressure, and very reasonable. I stopped by Nevada to check it out one time (BTW, Las Vegas prostitution is NOT legal, everywhere else in NV it is). Went to a couple of the legal joints went in to negotiate with the woman (who was HOT, btw), and she goes, “well, for a half hour, it’s 2…..” and I thought “oh, that’s reasonable, $200 for a half hour…”. Then she finished: “…thousand….” I think I audibly gasped….WTF??? 2k for half hour?? I was flabbergasted to say the least…then she said something really lame, like “but it’s not a RUSHED half hour..”. Lol. Well THAT’S certainly a relief! I think I might have said, “honey, that’s a MORTGAGE payment!” As to the OP’s question, there’s a great website, skip the games.com (if it’s censored, PM me). You’ll find all you need there……have fun!!!

 

[Dearelliot]

Just be a nice soft spoken guy, dress nice, be clean, smell good, clean fingernails, and treat the hooker like a lady, they will love you.
My experience, most of them are nice people, they do this all day long, it's how they earn their living. 95% of them want you coming back next week.
My advice, as for scams re hookers, don't under any circumstance, for any reason, ever send anyone money. You only pay when you meet them!
In New Jersey, the simplest and safest is Asian Massage places. Go in, negotiate for full service, here it's around $200 for the hour.
Look for Asian massage places in the papers and on line, here almost 90% of them are working ladies.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Finding a state that is legal does not really matter. If you meet a girl at a hotel or her place and leave money in a plain envelope on a table, then you did not give her the money. But she will find it.

I wouldn't gamble on that holding up in court.

 

[bone251]

I wouldn't gamble on that holding up in court.

This why you check references.
Also the law goes after the girl and the web sites. Girls are hard to get booked. If it is easy, it might be bad. Unless you know each other from past visits.

 

[bone251]

That’s the perfect advice: white envelope in clear sight. If you want, you can even write contribution to your education fund. So it shows a purpose for the money…

In England, prostitution is not illegal as it’s not hiring a prostitute. They re considered independent workers and pay taxes. What is illegal is manage prostitutes, massage parlors, solicitation, etc. Girls have their own flat (apartment) where they receive their customers, so they pay rent, services, council tax as any other person.

This is true in much of Canada too.

I found an interesting conversation with a nice girl from England or GB that was an escort. We compared notes about the biz. She did not stay long on this board as the ladies that never reply to PM got in her face for charging money. She did not like the rude and left. She enjoy her work and she was very particular who she would see. Those are girl that I had the most fun with.

 

[trainman1957]

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