How to approach an escort?

[cheney_dude_2022]

Who in their right mind would pay $2k for 2 hours of sex ?! Especially when there are married women like myself being neglected at home and horny as hell !

Except for that you are probably a fair distance away from the person wanting it..

 

[UtilityCurve]

Who in their right mind would pay $2k for 2 hours of sex ?! Especially when there are married women like myself being neglected at home and horny as hell !

Texas. (Sigh.)

 

[Bramblethorn]

I've used Scarlet blue independent escorts (female and male) and have had wonderful experiences, each time I've used them. Roughly 10 times over several years. You initially text message them, back and forth a bit say what you want, then arrange either an incall or outcall. It is safe. I've never felt unsafe at any time whatsoever

And it's not as cheap as $400 an hour. More like $600. I'd assume it's cheaper if you go to a brothel

Coming back to this thread to say for the record that Shellz32 was right about prices and I was wrong here. The folk I knew who were charging $250-400/hr were more of an exception than I realised.

(Again, there are cheaper options, but not recommended.)

 

[Shellz32]

Yeah I think escorts would be one area you wouldn't want to skimp or save money in

Unless . That is what is your turn on

 

[Shellz32]

I want to get an escort, not even sure if that’s the right way to say. How does it work? How do I convey that I am a virgin? Is it safe? Will they have their own place or should I get a hotel? How to trust them? This is in context of Australia.

Update?

 

[cc22xp]

Update?

It will take a while for me put my desire into action. I live in a small country town, need to save up a lot before I go to a big city for this. But for sure will update when it happens.

 

[Redmandeadman]

I'm not Australian and can't advise on legal matters. If any of this is regionally inappropriate I'm sure someone will tell me.

For what its worth...

Find a woman with at least a reasonably well written profile. I would suggest a native speaker on this occassion as communication will be vital. Contact her (through the website/phone/email) saying you are a virgin and you would like not to be. She doesnt need your life story. Book either one hour or two and expect to do it twice. The first time may well be disappointing or quick. Do not spend any money on extras. A one hour service with oral and sex should be great and anything else will just make you come quicker or interrupt the flow. The one exception to this is (french) kissing.

I've no idea about Australian prices, but aims for the medium. Obviously you dont want super cheap but premium is also likely to be a waste at least the first time. Do not negotiate prices and do not send hundreds of messages. If her first reply is not polite, bail, but otherwise seal the deal quickly. She may get annoyed with many follow up emails as that can suggest you are getting your jollies from messaging her.

Set your expectations realistically. There are fantastic workers out there. There are also good workers who just happen to be having a bad day when you arrive. And there are some girls who are unfortunately in the wrong job even if they know how to sell themselves. Expect to experience the mechanics of sex. Also expect that it is going to feel emotionally a bit weird. For whatever reason you might not click. You should expect to get what you paid for, at a basic level, but ultimately if the service is half hearted it is almost impossible to 'complain' it into being better - just find a different girl for next time if its something you intend to do (semi)regularly.

You should be okay following her lead. Many girls have a fixed 'program' that they follow if not directed for something else. This is often french followed by sex. Often they will allow multiple positions, but may start with cowgirl which may or may not be what you want. (It puts the expert in control, but isnt the typical experience) If you want missionary ask for it. If you want to perform cunnilingus, ask for it well before you start as she is likely using lube.

Also follow her lead with conversation. Some girls are chatty some less so. Dont going looking to impress her or win her over with your charm. Do be polite. Shower immediately before hand (or at the venue). Don't wear strong scents.

It is a very good sign if the advert says they will immediately cease contact if you ask for bareback. Dont freak out if the condom breaks. Do pull out and check immediately if there is the slightest possibility this may have happened.

This may be a personal thing, but if you are inexperienced with woman, ask to snooze while holding her between rounds. (Again up front and dont be offended if she says no.)

Do not fall in love.

That last line is most important

 

[SlowHandQuickMind]

Who in their right mind would pay $2k for 2 hours of sex ?! Especially when there are married women like myself being neglected at home and horny as hell !

Where were you when I was a young virgin?

Now I'm thinking about a vacation in Texas for some reason. Hope y'all are doing okay down there. I know there have been some tragedies of late.