Have you ever withheld sex to get what you wanted?

[ridddder]

I had a girlfriend who would always withhold sex to get her way, I soon learned to pretend not to want it as much....just because I was stubborn too.

Let's hear what others have to say....

 

[The Squid King]

That is how she got me to quit smoking cigarettes, thank you very much, it was about the only good thing she did for me.

 

[Dietrich K.]

What if sex is what you want?

 

[busybody..]

The one time it happened

I showed her the door

and how to use it

for an exit

and locked it behind her

she thought I was kidding

she was wrong

it was in the middle of the nite

Tough Shit

 

[KillerMuffin]

Never needed to.

I have a paddle for that.

I have been known to overstimulate and withhold orgasm.

 

[The Squid King]

I have been known to overstimulate and withhold orgasm.

Wow, you are killer. That is waaaay worse than withholding sex.

 

[hogjack]

Ah, so that's what I'm doing

I must be doing it right now.

That's IT!

I'm "withholding". I like this angle much better.

 

[Lancecastor]

If it gets into Pat Benatar territory, the relationship is over, whether you acknowledge it or not.

Buddy whathisname up the thread said it best. Show her the door. You're done.

Lance

 

[ridddder]

Showing her the door is a little harsh....but I agree....it is making something you share together into a gift. Like if you are good you will get head tonight? WTF? Either you want to do it or not, if you love me or even just like me, do it for me, but don't just do it because you want a new Longberger basket...which by the way are way too expensive....I mean come on now...it is just a basket....

Whip her into shape....lol

 

[SpiceCake]

I have never withheld sex to get my way, but for other reasons I have withheld.

Right now I sex is being withheld from me and it's just killing me! Damn it all!!

 

[SkyBluAngelEyes]

Have I ever withheld sex?

Good God no!! I don't have that kind of willpower to with hold it, nor would I.

Why use sexual blackmail to get what I want?

Does this imply that I have to have someone else supplying me with something? Hmmmmm... I don't think so. I'm pretty independent.
Scary huh?

 

[WaxNWane]

Manipulation is dumb.

 

[Ishmael]

My ex-wife did. She got a divorce. I have no idea if that's what she wanted.

Ishmael

 

[Rubyfruit]

Nope, but it's been done to me.

Passive/aggressive people just aren't my cup of tea.

 

[Lancecastor]

Amongst the well-to-do in Toronto, wives who lunch get "jewellery money" from their husbands, deposited into an account set up for that purpose. Blowjobs are $100, anal is $200, etc....it's spoken of quite openly by men and women alike.

This might be an alternative to witholding.

If you're going to be transactional...it might as well be positive.

 

[A Desert Rose]

you gotta be kidding

Me? Withhold sex? ~laughing~

 

[ridddder]

Gives new meaning to favor

Can't we all just get along....

Have this

instead of this

I have yet to find a woman who truely likes it as much as I do....I was begining to think I lived in an alternate universe....on the planet Nosexalpha2

Guess I have been watching startrek too much....any women like start trek...next gen? Or is that only a guy thing?

 

[Rubyfruit]

This might be an alternative to witholding.

I'd prefer if you gave me cash. That would really make me feel like a whore.

 

[sunstruck]

Ok, see, withholding sex means I don 't get any and that just doesn't work for me.

 

[Lancecastor]

I'd prefer if you gave me cash. That would really make me feel like a whore.

Witholding to get what one wants is the same as a fee for service arrangement, I think.

Except in the latter scenario....we have sex!

So, if it ever comes to that between us Ruby...I'll just want you to pay me for it, okay?


L

 

[Eumenides]

Withhold sex?

How do you do that?

 

[Rubyfruit]

So, if it ever comes to that between us Ruby...I'll just want you to pay me for it, okay?


L

But I wanted to play the whore this time. ~sigh~ Do I have to pay you per orgasm? I have a feeling that could really get expensive.

 

[Saint Peter]

My right hand owes me alot of cash!!

 

[lovetoread]

When I was married,I did it all the time.

It was my form of power.

Now,I no longer have that power,so such a thing is not feasible.

 

[Lancecastor]

But I wanted to play the whore this time. ~sigh~ Do I have to pay you per orgasm? I have a feeling that could really get expensive.

Your credit's good with me and I have deep pockets when it cums to you.