Have you ever wanted to spank other people's kids?

SweetCherry

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I know it's not a nice thing to think or want to do, but sometimes Iwish I really could. I think some kids are in dire need of it. Beware, this IS a rant and I'm not holding it back.

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My 6 year old nephew has had problems with the bullies in his class. For the longest time, they were beating him up every day at recess and he kept quiet about it. Finally, he spilled about it, and his mother had a talk with the school principal. Things backed way off, and now, they're no longer beating him up at school. They only say things to him. Like calling him a bitch. Mind you, these are 6 and 7 year old boys. Bitch may not be something bad for an adult to say, but first grade kids have NO right saying those thing, IMO.

Well, I stayed out of that. It wasn't my place to say anything then, because that was not my child. I was pretty pissed, but I heald my tongue. Until Monday. Monday changed everything.

One of the bullies, along with another older boy who has tormented my daughter in the past, decided to make the one block they walk together with the kids as "fun" as possible, throwing snowballs and ice chunks at the kids. Now, this older boy has been yelled at by me before for chasing my little girl home from school. I laid into him and let him know I was NOT happy one bit.

Well, they did it again. Bombing snowballs and ice chunks at the kids. Hitting my daughter in the face with snow. The smaller bully pushing and holding my daughter out of the way so the other boy could hold my nephew in the snow and shove snow into his coat and face. I didn't find out all of this until yesterday.

yesterday I got more info from my daughter on what happened. I was steamed. I told myself if it happened again, I was going to take it to the school. Well, due to unforseen circumstances, I had to walk tyo the school and pick up my son after school, since his ride was unable to get him for me. I met my nephew on my way there, and he walked back with me top get my son. He started telling me of the stuff the other boys had done after he got out of the school, trying to trip him into the mud and shoving him. And as can be expected, Auntie started getting pissed. Those kids, unfortunately ride the bus and the bus had left.

Well, walking back out and heading home, with nephew and son in tow, nehphew pointed out the other boy who'd thrown snowballs at my daughter the previous day and hit her in the face. I proceded to call out to him, and then when he looked, I informed him that it was MY little girl who he'd hit the day before and that I was very unhappy about this and I didn't want to hear any more reports of this stuff going on. I told him to back off and to leave my kids alone, my nephew included. He ran off home, afraid, I'm sure, but I was pissed over his actions.

Well, today, they were doing it again. I couldn't figure out why the kids took so long to walk home 2 blocks. Those 2 little brats were standing there and throwing more snowballs at my nephew and daughter, making it impossible for them to get off the school grounds. My kids, in turn, fought back, throwing snowballs of their own. My sister in law happend to get there to get the kids and saw it then, and let the boys know her displeasure.

She got here, and I went out into my porch, in bare feet, a thin shirt and jeans to see what had been keeping them. She told me, and I blew my stack. I asked if she coudl see them, and when she pointed them out, I looked at her, got in her car and said, "Let's go."

She drove me down there, and I get out intop the snow in my bare feet and procede to lay into those kids again. Due to a stressful day, I was NOT in the mood for anything anyhow, and they made it worse. I Told them both I was exptremely angry, and they'd best leave my kids alone, all of them, and that if there was anything else that happened, I was taking it to the school, and then demanding a meeting with their parents. They sat there saying that my kids had started it. That my kids threw them first, that they were only playing.

I don't give a damn what they say. I know my kids. I know my kids would rather be left alone by them. I know my daughter is more than a little afraid of the older boy after the incident earlier this winter. I'm so pissed I could scream. They put their hands on MY baby girl, hit her in the face with snowballs, make half of her walk home hell. I can handle it better when it's boys picking on boys, but there's NO excuse for boys to treat younger, smaller girls that way. The school is getting a visit from one BERY pissed off Mama tomorrow and ther's going to be something said.

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Please excuse any spelling or gammer errors, but I'm pissed and needed to vent this before I explode. You may now return to your previous entertainment. And thankls for those who take the time to read this. It's just a part of my day here, and something I needed to talk about before it made my head explode.
 
Not be tolerated. Go with a letter for the parents of the boys, from you, that the school can pass on. It's important that the parents have a connection with you, not just the school, which has to act as mediator. Good luck.
 
I have often wanted to.....

kill other peoples kids.

But not before I killed their parents for letting them behave in ways polar to my happiness.
 
I;ve often thought that too, but obviously these klds are severely lacking in discipline. My son, at 4, knows that "boys don't hit girls". He already gets the concept that boys do NOTHING physical to girls in any way, shape, form or fashion. He also knows that hitting, punching, kicking and fighting are unacceptable and to treat others with respect. I get so angry with parents who don't teach their kids these things. I would love to just treat them how their kids treat others, but I'm above that. I won't get physical, but I will get very vocal and make a stink about it, and if needs be, pull my kids from that school and send her to a smaller, more strict school, where this stuff doesn't occur. Ot doesn't occur, because it's not allowed at all. There's zero tolerance. The only thing stopping me is the bussing. I'm not crazy about sending her on a bus to school yet.
 
I tell ya what.

There's no fucking respect.
No fear.
bring back the days when a good arse whuppin was normal.


There's one kid i know,that i wouldn't spank.

I'd pick him up by his feet and use him as a cricket bat,to smash bricks with.
 
DCL, I'm seriously thinking of requesting (demanding, maybe) a meeting with the parents and the principal at the school. I know the thing that will be thought of, tho, since these boys happen to be hispanic and I'm not. I don't give a damn what race someone is. Brat is universal and knows no races, colors or creeds.

Sparky, the thought of a slow and painful death for touching my daughter has crossed my mind. :)
 
Working in the schools I see this stuff all the time- the kids are just plain rotten. They usually do not have involved parents either. They earn respect from their peers through fear. In some ways schools have the same social order as a pack of wolves.

You might try having a meeting with the parents and if the kids don't straighten up you could threaten to sue. It is harrasment, if nothing else and probably a violation of your daughter's civil rights.

I hope your school is responsive. Many aren't preferring not to get involved in such things.
 
Ya know what I do?

I devise a way to seperate the kid or kids - away from prying eyes and ears. I usually do it in a 'nice' way too.

Then? When I get the kid alone - I scare the ever lovin' shit out of him or her. I lay done the law.

If the kid squeels? I deny anything. After all, the kids a fuck up anyway right? Who'd believe the brat?

It always works. I often never hear a peep out of them again. They often don't want to be near me and leave for other parts of the house.
 
Chantal Marchon said:
Working in the schools I see this stuff all the time- the kids are just plain rotten. They usually do not have involved parents either. They earn respect from their peers through fear. In some ways schools have the same social order as a pack of wolves.

You might try having a meeting with the parents and if the kids don't straighten up you could threaten to sue. It is harrasment, if nothing else and probably a violation of your daughter's civil rights.

I hope your school is responsive. Many aren't preferring not to get involved in such things.

Yea what she said, plus, don't be afraid to get the police involved, sometimes they can even help. I went thru this a few years ago with my neice (only the snowballs this one kid threw had rocks in them) and I was her guardian at the time, I didn't hesitate to call the police, and they helped alot with informing the parents and the school.
 
Bullies

It's too damn bad that things have reached the point where the schools and parents can do nothing.

I hope that you have good luck with DCL's reccomendation. It is the proper way to handle the situation. There is no punishment that the school can really administer. Off school grounds and after regular classes ties their hands. And if you were to administer corporal punishment, you'd probably find yourself in jail.

On the other hand there are other ways of handling the situation. The first is to sue the parents. This is expensive and chancy, but you will get their attention.

The second is a little more devious. Hire a couple of 14 year olds to deliver a 'message' for you. Preferably ones not known in the neighborhood. That way you can use them for 'follow up' therapy if needed. They probably wouldn't be charged if caught. And I can assure you the lesson won't go unnoticed.

Ishmael
 
Sateema Lunasi said:
I have more often wanted to kick the ass of the parents.

Ditto for me, nothing is more irratating than seeing a child misbehaving acting out, or whatever a person calls it, and then you see the parents! It amazes me sometimes
 
I would be very pissed too. I think I would take it straight to the parents. All too often the schools don't do anything about it and end up being a waste of time.
 
Go for the big guns.

I agree with the police thing. We have school police so that helps.

My son's school also has zero tolerance for that type of behavior. It is part of the self manager program.

Bullies are generally brought up by bullies. The parents need to be bullied and the police are the best way to go. They do know how to do it so well.
 
Re: Go for the big guns.

ksmybuttons said:

Bullies are generally brought up by bullies. The parents need to be bullied and the police are the best way to go. They do know how to do it so well.



Exactly, and sometimes, it's the only way you can get thru....
 
SweetCherry said:
I know it's not a nice thing to think or want to do, but sometimes Iwish I really could. I think some kids are in dire need of it. Beware, this IS a rant and I'm not holding it back.

[rant]

My 6 year old nephew has had problems with the bullies in his class...

Freakin' a...I'll kick their asses!
I used to get pick on in 6 grade and all through high school...

and WHY...because I was little...Freakin' Sissy Mary ass bullies...picking on little kids! No...I couldn't get a seat on the bus...it was hell.

But now, I'm like real tall...5' 7"...

oh, and a black belt in karate...
 
A similar instance happened to a close friend's son (both of her son's infact), only the school did jack shit. Infact, the school banned my friend from the school, serving her with a restraining order to say 1000 yards away from the school, just because she went down there demanding to know what was going on. Apparently, she had gone to the school before and the principal told her that it was between her sons and the other boys to settle the problem, and not up to the school officials (this school, though has been totally neglajent to this family, and I will get into that now.) When her youngest son was in the first grade, and computer monitor fell on his head, and he had to get ten stiches on his head. What her son said was that the teacher was sitting on the desk the computer was on (he was on the floor), and when she got up the table shook and the monitor fell and hit him. The school says he tried to make it fall by kicking the table repeatidly. Her other son was diagnosed with type 1 diabities about a year ago. He had perfect attendance from his first day in school up untill that point, but the school refused to wave the three weeks he missed when he was in the hospital (even though his step-dad went to the school every day to get the assignments for him to do, so he really missed nothing). It seems that now a days, the schools don't give a flying fuck about the students, all they care is that they get paied enough. I am sorry if I offended any edcuators out there with that last comment, but it was my oppenion.
 
Thanks for the time and effort you all put into your responses. I appreciate it. I've now had a hot bath, something to eat and a chance to veg out and watch "That 80's Show" so I've managed to not be quite so steamed.

I'm gonna go to the school and talk to them tomorrow. I want it to be made clear that I won't tolerate this happening. I won't be complacant while some little juvenile delinquant wanna be torments my children and makes them begin to fear school. I'll take it to the principal, and to the schoiolboard, if needs be. I will also involve the police if needs be, tho a lawsuit would be next to impossible, since I'm barely scratching by on what I get now.

I'm hoping to avoid all that with a visit to the principal. I'm not one who's overly fond of confrontation, but neither am I someone who lets her children get tormented. Think rabid dog. That resembles me quite well when my kids are involved.

Anyhow, I'm going to try and get some sleep and maybe cool down some more. I don't want to be irrational tomorrow. A good nite's sleep is just what the doctor ordered. :)

Good nite, Lit.
 
Rambrat said:


can I feel one of them?



Now? If you take pleasure in rapping your knuckles on your monitor, then by all means, help yourself!
 
roxie said:




Now? If you take pleasure in rapping your knuckles on your monitor, then by all means, help yourself!

WHACK!

Damn...you're right!

uhkey...ah tie ma tung...
 
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