No, but then I'm usually kinkier than my partners. I've found as long as I don't get too into the strap on business, most men are happy little campers trying almost anything I'm into.
Yup. Broke up with my ex-wife because she was "gay". Now I personally wouldn't count being gay as a "kink"... but the idea of she and I staying together and having theesomes wasn't acceptable to her, so you could say we broke up because of sexual kinks. Or basically, sexual incompatibility.
I have had one end because of my kinks. After that, I determined to never get into another emotional relationship with a nonkinky person. I was willing to give up my personal favorite pleasures to be with him but it was not enough. It has been years now and I still see reminders of him in my home every day. Usually the thought is fleeting but sometimes it hits me in the gut like a solid punch.