Have comfortable are you with your fetishes?

[Nightspeed]

Yes, I feel a bit naughty thinking about it right now...LOL

 

[Rockymtnman]

I pretty much have 2 major fetishes. Fit women and asses. My wife is quite aware of both of them. She’s very fit because she knows I love it and has become very comfortable with my tongue and fingers in her ass. Never been a boob guy. Feet, piss, bondage or any other common fetish has never been my thing.

oh and I’m very comfortable with my fetishes.

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

I have dwarf and big breast fetishes. My SO's all for a boob job, but won't get her legs shortened bro!

Stew

 

[Trubbycat]

I'm comfortable with them but have no one to share them with.

 

[pink]

I don't think I really have any. Straight up vanilla, imo, gets boring so maybe add some dom/sub in. I also have a thing for asian men. I just think they are sexy.

I don't know? I'm just me.

 

[pink]

oh oh oh i just thought of one. I love men's feet!!!!! Now i'm sure there are feet out there that just are nasty but there are some men's feet that are just so adorable and or athletic.

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

oh oh oh i just thought of one. I love men's feet!!!!! Now i'm sure there are feet out there that just are nasty but there are some men's feet that are just so adorable and or athletic.

I have a foot fetish too. I just wish my wife's feet were smaller than mine bro.

Stew

 

[lg_65]

Not comfortable at all.

We’re so glad you can express yourself here on Lit!

 

[GessoOfJess]

I struggle with some. My brain gets in the way or my heart gets in the way. My wiring is all messed up.

 

[Lorack]

I'm very comfortable with my kinks & preferences. My husband is Vanilla and I love shocking him.

oh Please elaborate!

 

[Intrepid47]

I told my wife---once---that I would like to be teased and denied cumming. Just that far.

The conversation went rapidly down hill from there.

For many years when she would play with me, if I happened to ejaculate onto her hand she held it away from herself like it was now filthy and rushed off to bathroom to wash her hands. I finally mentioned how that made me feel. The essence of myself, filthy and shouldn't be touched.

No oral sex, and she also doesn't want it.

No, I would not be comfortable at all with my wife knowing my kinks or fantasies. We rarely have sex, and that is almost always in the dark and she is almost always at least partially clothed.

 

[Ejljr]

He was always very standoffish about the subject. We did a lot of fantasy talk during sex, but this almost always involved other women (I'm not into women but in context of talk I'm fine with it - I just don't like doing it). I have always been turned on by MMF threesomes, but he never wanted to include that. Then one night we needed to use some lubricant, and he put way to much in me.

While we were having sex I made the comment that I had so much inside me it felt as though someone had come inside me before he entered me. He came within seconds which I found odd. I then started gradually introducing this kind of talk until he would start fantasising about having sex with another male. We have done this now multiple times. To be honest, when it comes to MM sex I prefer the sucking and licking side. Anal sex is quite graphic up close, it doesn't really do it for me.

The downside now is that the bisexual side pretty much dominates our relationship. He will never go one on one with another male as 'it's gay' (go figure), but threesomes is now the main times we have sex.

I get it ..me and my wife do same thing chatting while fkn or masturbateing together and she wants to see same mm I told her maybe start off with a transgender ??

 

[JenniZinc]

I get it ..me and my wife do same thing chatting while fkn or masturbateing together and she wants to see same mm I told her maybe start off with a transgender ??

My advice is if you want to do mm, go for an effeminate male (known as a sissy) as opposed to a trans. Adult dating sites have plenty of them, there is no fee involved, and in my experience great to have sex with.

If you want to play with a transgender you are more than likely going to need to pay for the service - you then need to decide if you want hormonal or non-hormonal. Put simply, a hormonal trans will have natural breasts but a very small penis that won't go erect, whereas a non-hormonal pretty much has fake boobs and a regular penis. In my experience trans sex workers aren't very pleasant people to be around, I worked with a number during my time and can't say I ever warmed to one. Sorry for the generalisation.

 

[cheney_dude_2022]

I'll be honest...My partner knows almost all of mine, but not 100%. There are one or two that I'm still too shy to share openly with her. I wll say that when I finally revealed a panty fetish to her, she was very accepting and accommodating, and it was/is a HUGE thrill! I am quite certain, however, that she wouldn't feel the same about a couple of others, so those remain private fantasies. In a way, though, that keeps them stimulating. Sort of a forbidden fruit thing, I think.

I wish my girlfriend was accepting and accommodating to when I finally told her my panty fetish.. One of my previous girlfriends was very accepting and very accommodating to when I told her that I loved her scent. Sadly, it was not meant to be.. I wish it could have worked out one way or another. I probably wouldn't have time for Lit, as we would probably be going at each other with lust and love like we were when we first met.

 

[Gengen0806]

I guess so, yeah. They are not that weird

 

[CindyCim]

My husband has 2 fetishes that I have accepted. He loves cum and he wears lacy panties.

No, he's not a cuckold, although we do swing. He just loves to eat his own creampie.

 

[Intrepid47]

I will say, sometimes in the evening if I walk past her she pulls my shorts down.

She did that last night, so I took off my shirt and have been nude since (about 630 am for me now).

Sometimes she fondles me, I always wish there were more.

I would like it if my wife were to capitalize on the disparity of our innocuous CFNM—a fetish that cropped up for me a couple years ago—but she does not.

This morning she asked for some help with a project and I walked up to her office (at home) nude. She smiled once, but that was all.

 

[Intrepid47]

mine's pretty basic, vanilla.
I love cocks. they fascinate me with the look and what they do.
yes, not much imagination haha.
another thing I like, is showing guys my ass - it's like my last taboo.
it's like I've given him everything now we're free to do anything.

https://imgur.com/SNr1d0q

Doesn’t he look like a HAPPY man!!

 

[MinnFun]

He was always very standoffish about the subject. We did a lot of fantasy talk during sex, but this almost always involved other women (I'm not into women but in context of talk I'm fine with it - I just don't like doing it). I have always been turned on by MMF threesomes, but he never wanted to include that. Then one night we needed to use some lubricant, and he put way to much in me.

While we were having sex I made the comment that I had so much inside me it felt as though someone had come inside me before he entered me. He came within seconds which I found odd. I then started gradually introducing this kind of talk until he would start fantasising about having sex with another male. We have done this now multiple times. To be honest, when it comes to MM sex I prefer the sucking and licking side. Anal sex is quite graphic up close, it doesn't really do it for me.

The downside now is that the bisexual side pretty much dominates our relationship. He will never go one on one with another male as 'it's gay' (go figure), but threesomes is now the main times we have sex.

That gay label can be quite powerful.

I play with a couple from time to time. I’ve always been bicurious, and I discovered I love sucking cock and swallowing cum. I’ve also fucked the husband a few times and it’s one of the hottest things I’ve ever done.

Yet I still don’t think of myself as bi, probably mostly because I’m not really emotionally attracted to men, and barely even physically attracted to them. I just love cock. Once I played with both of them together I became totally fine playing alone with the husband. Doesn’t happen often, but when it does it’s super hot.

 

[cheney_dude_2022]

I am definitely ok with mine, I just wish society was

Lisa

And what would that be Lisa..???

 

[cheney_dude_2022]

Can’t say now. Apparently banned from the chat room

You can PM me..

 

[ryeandginger69]

I'm very comfortable with my fetishes, which include eating pussies that are being, or just have been, fucked, and jamming my tongue far up inside gaping assholes.

But I might not be comfortable with yours.

 

[MinnFun]

I’m also completely comfortable with my fetishes and turn ons, though I’m not going to share them with every stranger I meet. But they are generally pretty tame.

- I have a foot fetish, but only for certain feet that I think look pretty.
- I love hairy, meaty pussies.
- I love well puckered assholes, which I love licking, along with eating pussy.
- I’m totally turned on by veiny women’s hands.
- I love older, saggy, hairy women. European granny Porn (yes, it’s a thing) is good for satisfying that itch.
- Muscular women’s calves drive me wild.
- A more recent discovery is giving blow jobs and swallowing cum.

I am also curious about the differences between fetishes, preferences, and mere turn ons. Fetish seems imply some level of deviance. Perhaps a turn on that’s not socially acceptable or popular is what gets labeled a fetish?

 

[muddie684]

Everyone has particular things that turn them on, but I wonder if people would be comfortable knowing their dirty little secrets.

My partner is obsessed with hairy women, so when he asked me 7 years ago to stop shaving ....... let me just say that a country woman in her then late 40's surviving on rain water tanks in drought conditions - I didn't hesitate.

I had already succumbed to his other fetish of natural odour (no deodorant) so to me this wasn't a biggie.

After not shaving or trimming for this amount of time I will say there's a very free feeling about it. I'm not sexually aroused by my body hair, nor do I really care what people think about me or my looks.

This is where the issue is. My partner is terrified of others knowing about his fetish. I refuse to cover up in public, my body hair is blonde so it's not particularly noticeable until up close. We spend most of our life on the farm, but I do travel reasonably often and he works in the music industry, so although we're often apart, he freaks at the thought of family or friend get togethers.

He wants me to wear jeans in the middle of summer, or not take my t-shirt off if we go to the beach.

So my ultimatum is that either he shuts up and lets me be me ..... or the razor is coming out for good!

How comfortable would you be if other people knew your sexual obsessions?

I wonder what sort of repercussions your husband may face if people found out about his preference? Would his family feel disdain for him? What in his past with his family would make him not trust them with this information? Does he come from a religious family or social elites?

His fetishes sound pretty common. That should make them more easy for his family to accept. Also, you don't have to explain the extent of the fetish to anybody. If people ask why you're hairy and unshowered you could simply say, "My husband likes it," and leave it at that. He doesn't have to make excuses or explain his sexual preferences to people who don't have sex with him.

 

[muddie684]

Am I at the family thanksgiving dinner and everyone is arguing about politics? :/
Ahhh ok, I’ll take one for the team… See how shocked they are then.

I’m not comfortable with my fetish. I did share it with someone and he was turned off. I think online guys are pretending to get off but if we did it for real, they wouldn’t be into it.

Some fantasies are better in the mind than really doing them.

Yes, some fetishes are only able to be gratified by fantasizing about them. Some are too unsafe to do in reality. Others are too complicated or logistically demanding.

For example, if my girlfriend told me she was interested in scat play, I may have an initial face of disgust, because we're talking about about feces, not because we're talking about her kink. I work in the medical field and occasionally have to work with feces, fully aware of the risks of improper handling. Most people have issues with most bodily substances, which arguably is a defense developed by evolution. My response to her would be, "I'm not going to do that, but explain to me why you like it and we'll see what else we can do."

Some women fantasize about being murdered. That's impossible to satisfy in real life. However, it can be role played and analyzed to find what else will satisfy. Other illegal fantasies can be referenced with play, but must never be realized in their original form.