Has anyone here ever been a professional escort?

[Wanton Woman]

If so, please PM me.

Before I get caustic comments regarding this thread and the fact that it's my first post, I'm not a newbie. I'm just using a different name right now.

 

[sanjuaneros]

Si' why?

 

[Monazwx]

Thinking of a career change?

 

[Wanton Woman]

I'm thinking about getting a job doing it, and I'm curious to know what it entails, exactly.

I want to know more about it.

 

[P. B. Walker]

No, but I was asked if I needed a date by one in Las Vegas. LOL

PBW

 

[Guest]

 

[Cheyenne]

We've had these kinds of discussions here before- you could do a search.

In my mind, escort still = hooker. And yes, I know. Everyone doesn't agree with that. It is MHO. And no, I've never been one.

 

[Wanton Woman]

Thinking of a career change?

Not exactly. I have a regular job, but I have a lot of debt. I figured that getting a part-time job doing something that I enjoy would be a good way to get me out of that debt.

 

[CarolineOh]

Not exactly. I have a regular job, but I have a lot of debt. I figured that getting a part-time job doing something that I enjoy would be a good way to get me out of that debt.

On the other hand, if you got busted, legal costs and fees would put you into even deeper debt.

 

[Monazwx]

Assess the risks, there are alot of them.

*Hijack

HI Caroline

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[CarolineOh]

Assess the risks, there are alot of them.

*Hijack

HI Caroline

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Hello darling. To stay on topic, I'll just say that you are worth a billion,sweetie!

 

[Killswitch]

I know one person here that is a very sought after very expensive escort.

It's a girl, and I aint sayin who.

 

[Wanton Woman]

On the other hand, if you got busted, legal costs and fees would put you into even deeper debt.

I know.

That's why I would want to go with a reputable agency. I would prefer to find one where the women really ARE just paid dates, with sex being totally optional. Unfortunately, the pay isn't that good and agencies like that are rare.

 

[Monazwx]

Are there still "only-dates" escort services?

 

[Killswitch]

I know.

That's why I would want to go with a reputable agency. I would prefer to find one where the women really ARE just paid dates, with sex being totally optional. Unfortunately, the pay isn't that good and agencies like that are rare.

Stay away from agencies.....do what you are doing by trying to find a lady that does this without the aid of an agency.

You would be so much better off handling your own promotion, client list, and enjoying all the profits as opposed to losing 2 to 500 to an agency for taking a phone call.

I wish I could put you together with my friend who does exactly this same thing.....but I cant.

Maybe work for an agency for a short time to learn the ropes.....but if you liked it, aim for being self employed......

 

[Wanton Woman]

Killswitch, that's what someone has already suggested to me. I'm wondering if the person you're referring to is one of the ones who has already gotten in touch with me about it.

I wouldn't feel comfortable working independently off the bat, as I really have no clue what I'm doing. I want to learn mroe about it before I branch out myself (if I ever do), hence the reason for this thread. Literotica seems as good a place as any to get more information about escorting.

 

[Lancecastor]

I know.

That's why I would want to go with a reputable agency. I would prefer to find one where the women really ARE just paid dates, with sex being totally optional. Unfortunately, the pay isn't that good and agencies like that are rare.

Yes, this is an excellent idea.

There are many men who pay for a woman to have dinner with him without any expectation of physical contact.

But they're not called "escorts".

They're called "wives".

 

[Lancecastor]

Are there still "only-dates" escort services?

 

[Gilly Bean]

We've had these kinds of discussions here before- you could do a search.

In my mind, escort still = hooker. And yes, I know. Everyone doesn't agree with that. It is MHO. And no, I've never been one.

I agree with you there, Chey.


There are tons of dangers: STD's, violence, pregnancy, psychological damage, being estranged from friends and family, for fear of them knowing what you've become.


I've never been anything like that, the closest I came was a 1 night stand that I regretted before it was even done, and I'd never do anything where I'd compromise my own beliefs and morals.


I think that it's different for everyone, but that it is also a choice you have to live with and remember for life, and in some instances, have as a burning part of you for life.

 

[Killswitch]

Yes, this is an excellent idea.

There are many men who pay for a woman to have dinner with him without any expectation of physical contact.

But they're not called "escorts".

They're called "wives".

Right on....

 

[Lancecastor]

a burning part of you for life.

Doesn't the burning usually stop after a cycle of penicillin?

 

[Wanton Woman]

Yes, this is an excellent idea.

There are many men who pay for a woman to have dinner with him without any expectation of physical contact.

But they're not called "escorts".

They're called "wives".

Heh heh.

 

[Gilly Bean]

Doesn't the burning usually stop after a cycle of penicillin?

Hmm... possible, I wouldn't know, I've never had to have one.

 

[Wanton Woman]

I agree with you there, Chey.


There are tons of dangers: STD's, violence, pregnancy, psychological damage, being estranged from friends and family, for fear of them knowing what you've become.


I've never been anything like that, the closest I came was a 1 night stand that I regretted before it was even done, and I'd never do anything where I'd compromise my own beliefs and morals.


I think that it's different for everyone, but that it is also a choice you have to live with and remember for life, and in some instances, have as a burning part of you for life.

That's why you take certain precautions. Yes, there are risks involved, but I don't think they're as high as you're making them out to be. I'm also curious as to why assume there would be psychological damage because you're doing a job you enjoy and receiving money for it.

I'd prefer the life of an escort to one of being married and popping out 3 or 4 kids by the time I'm 24.

 

[Gilly Bean]

Psychological damage comes whether you enjoy a job or not, because of the risk of going out with a guy for money.

Basically, I look at it this way: A guy can be prince charming, every woman has met one in thier lifetime. The prince charming who could do no wrong, but just got angry that one time.

What exactly is going to stop a man who is charming from turning face, and beating the hell out of his 'date' (yes, I use that term loosely), when he is in fact paying a perfect stranger to go to bed with him.


It's not something that is going to happen to everyone, but how would you feel, knowing that this guy was 'all right', and that he was fine to go home with, and to end up beaten, sliced, burned and scarred?

That would leave it's damage on your mind.


It would do the same to any woman who dates the wrong guy, only I think the chances are worse with someone who has no emotional ties involved.

Every time you go out on a call, you would be opening yourself up for the full colorful rainbow of people out there. Good, bad, nice, mean.

Dating 5 or 6 guys a week can considerably raise the level of danger, over someone who dates once or twice a week, right?


Anyway, that's my view, because basically, I don't look at it as anything different than being a prostitute.


You asked for opinions, and that's mine. May not be the same as everyone's, but that's why it's called an opinion.