tulip2lipservice
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Intrigued.....
One thing I have always said in a post of mine is doing what you are comfortable with. So hence this is what you are comfortable with then be it.
Originally you were comfortable with posting yourself and that is fine. Your pictures were tastefully done. It reminded me of drawings from the Lueve (spelling wrong) and so many other pieces of art from museums I visited across Europe. A thing of beauty, do not allow one person who is full of hatred make you doubt that ever.
So many people in society have views on what is beautiful and what is not. It is all in the eye of beholder. I made the realization when I saw so many drawings in history that your size was beauty through the beginning of time until several decades ago. Only within the last couple of decades did it seize to be so. You looked healthy and happy and that is what is important.
Can we help it that some men or women desire extremely thin people that some are even to the point of looking unhealthy. This is not a statement to belittle petite or tiny people. I am referring to the Olive Oil look and the lollipop head. I am referring to the ones that look as if they could have been in a concentration camp, so unhealthy. To that extreme I am referring to. Then there are others that want a lot of meat on their lover. People that want to have that feeling of something to hold on to. Intrigued you did not fit into either extreme of the categories but looked as if to be in the middle. Your artwork though average size showed so much sensuality and beauty. It is all a matter or choice and preference.
It does irk me that some men and women are so vain with their interpretation of what they find to be beauty. In a way Madison Ave. has brained washed them. Sensuality and beauty is not the way one looks but the way they hold themselves. It is an awe that they emanate and elude. It is not about a person’s size because if that is all it is truly about what he or she is worried about then good luck to him or her. It is vain and what they need to show on the outside to get approval from what others might think. Their insecurity! For what comes around goes around. Looks fade and what not. It only shows their sense of self worth for they place so much emphasis on how their partner looks and not worrying about his or her feelings. That they are so unsure of oneself that they have to follow the trend of what “society” places to be beautiful. The lack of ability and power to think for oneself but to allow the Madison Avenue syndrome to take over his/her finding a person that enhances who they are.
So Intrigue I commend you on your decision and the way you went about it. You did it on your own terms. I know you did not pull them cause of what another choose to say but because you already had shared them. I am sure you had more positive feedback from them than the negative ones. It was just time to change and that is all. Perhaps you will take more in the future and share them once again on this forum. If you do not choose to share them then it is only the boards loss to view another creature with such a wonderful heart, sensuality, and beauty. Again that is your comfort level.
Again you did this so eloquantly and I thank you for this.
Peace,
Tulip
One thing I have always said in a post of mine is doing what you are comfortable with. So hence this is what you are comfortable with then be it.
Originally you were comfortable with posting yourself and that is fine. Your pictures were tastefully done. It reminded me of drawings from the Lueve (spelling wrong) and so many other pieces of art from museums I visited across Europe. A thing of beauty, do not allow one person who is full of hatred make you doubt that ever.
So many people in society have views on what is beautiful and what is not. It is all in the eye of beholder. I made the realization when I saw so many drawings in history that your size was beauty through the beginning of time until several decades ago. Only within the last couple of decades did it seize to be so. You looked healthy and happy and that is what is important.
Can we help it that some men or women desire extremely thin people that some are even to the point of looking unhealthy. This is not a statement to belittle petite or tiny people. I am referring to the Olive Oil look and the lollipop head. I am referring to the ones that look as if they could have been in a concentration camp, so unhealthy. To that extreme I am referring to. Then there are others that want a lot of meat on their lover. People that want to have that feeling of something to hold on to. Intrigued you did not fit into either extreme of the categories but looked as if to be in the middle. Your artwork though average size showed so much sensuality and beauty. It is all a matter or choice and preference.
It does irk me that some men and women are so vain with their interpretation of what they find to be beauty. In a way Madison Ave. has brained washed them. Sensuality and beauty is not the way one looks but the way they hold themselves. It is an awe that they emanate and elude. It is not about a person’s size because if that is all it is truly about what he or she is worried about then good luck to him or her. It is vain and what they need to show on the outside to get approval from what others might think. Their insecurity! For what comes around goes around. Looks fade and what not. It only shows their sense of self worth for they place so much emphasis on how their partner looks and not worrying about his or her feelings. That they are so unsure of oneself that they have to follow the trend of what “society” places to be beautiful. The lack of ability and power to think for oneself but to allow the Madison Avenue syndrome to take over his/her finding a person that enhances who they are.
So Intrigue I commend you on your decision and the way you went about it. You did it on your own terms. I know you did not pull them cause of what another choose to say but because you already had shared them. I am sure you had more positive feedback from them than the negative ones. It was just time to change and that is all. Perhaps you will take more in the future and share them once again on this forum. If you do not choose to share them then it is only the boards loss to view another creature with such a wonderful heart, sensuality, and beauty. Again that is your comfort level.
Again you did this so eloquantly and I thank you for this.
Peace,
Tulip


you, intrigued.