Guys, Quit Fucking With Her Mind!

[juicylips]

What is with the head games? The toying of emotions?? What do you get out of that?? Hmmmmm??


If you want her, then just fucking tell her straight out.

If you don't, same rules apply.

I know someone who is hurting, deeply, and there was really no reason for it to happen if he would have just played nice, fair, and upfront.

Cassidy,
who is royally pissed off today

 

[Starblayde]

What is with the head games? The toying of emotions?? What do you get out of that?? Hmmmmm??

If you want her, then just fucking tell her straight out.

If you don't, same rules apply.

Right back at ya....

If you want him, then just fucking tell him straight out.

 

[Weevil]

Yeah the real problem in the battle of the sexes is that Guys play head games, good call.

 

[Black_Bird]

What is with the head games? The toying of emotions?? What do you get out of that?? Hmmmmm??

*Blink* Not all guys do that... and quite a few women also play mind games. I don't like them either.

If you want her, then just fucking tell her straight out. If you don't, same rules apply.

*Nods* That's the way it should be.

I know someone who is hurting, deeply, and there was really no reason for it to happen if he would have just played nice, fair, and upfront.

... but not everybody is going to be honest. Some men think it's okay, if not desirable, to play games. It's that whole "play or be played" mentality that I'm told about all the time. I can't agree with it - but it's pretty prevelant out there.

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Guys, Quit Fucking With Her Mind!

Right back at ya....

If you want him, then just fucking tell him straight out.

That goes without saying.

Of course it works both ways.

Cassidy

 

[Starblayde]

Re: Re: Guys, Quit Fucking With Her Mind!

... quite a few women also play mind games...

It's that whole "play or be played" mentality that I'm told about all the time. I can't agree with it - but it's pretty prevelant out there.

Damn straight.... I've met far too many girls who do that whole head-fuck thing... its not pretty, especially when it happens to me

And no, I don't do it back....

 

[scylis]

what happened to the good ol' days when we just went out and brained her over the head with our club before dragging her back to our cave?

man, i tell ya... too damn complicated these days...

 

[Black_Bird]

what happened to the good ol' days when we just went out and brained her over the head with our club before dragging her back to our cave?

man, i tell ya... too damn complicated these days...

I'm still quitting the band.

UGH! *Thump* ~drag~

 

[riff]

What is with the head games? The toying of emotions?? What do you get out of that?? Hmmmmm??


If you want her, then just fucking tell her straight out.

If you don't, same rules apply.

I know someone who is hurting, deeply, and there was really no reason for it to happen if he would have just played nice, fair, and upfront.

Cassidy,
who is royally pissed off today

Unh-unh, Honey. I know you ain't talkin' 'bout me, sugah. No way, baby....

riffy, don't play no head games.

At least I don't think I do. I am fair. I play nice. And I always tell the truth.

Sorry to hear you are pissed jusicylips. If there is anything I fear, it is an angry woman.

 

[JaymesBlond007]

Nobody wants to be the person that gets hurt. So of course, if they don't let the other person know how they really feel, then that information cannot be used against them.

It's a real nasty game, that can do a mind-job on some very nice, and kind people. I'm sorry that your friend got hurt JL. I've been down that road too many times...

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Guys, Quit Fucking With Her Mind!

Unh-unh, Honey. I know you ain't talkin' 'bout me, sugah. No way, baby....

riffy, don't play no head games.

At least I don't think I do. I am fair. I play nice. And I always tell the truth.

Sorry to hear you are pissed jusicylips. If there is anything I fear, it is an angry woman.

I KNOW you don't play those kinds of games. (Thank god)

And, please, this isn't about me. If a guy I am involved with is giving me shit, then I tell him, in private. We work it out.

Cassidy

 

[riff]

well, juiciness, thanks for your confidence.

We are all major idiots at times (m & F).

Head games really suck. And I am NOT the type who plays them well, so I always try to do unto other as I would have them do unto me.

Except in the case of a good ass reaming. Don't want nobody putting their dick in my ass!

 

[scylis]

I'm still quitting the band.

UGH! *Thump* ~drag~

you whore in pants!!

 

[GuyJD]

Yeah the real problem in the battle of the sexes is that Guys play head games, good call.

But don't women do it too.

They have guys buying their affection eventhough they have no love or real feelings for the guy.

The fact is, women know that they're going to have sex with the man in the first 15 minutes of meeting them. All other men, they simply use until "the well goes dry".

 

[juicylips]

But don't women do it too.

They have guys buying their affection eventhough they have no love or real feelings for the guy.

The fact is, women know that they're going to have sex with the man in the first 15 minutes of meeting them. All other men, they simply use until "the well goes dry".

You have some serious issues.

Yes, women do this. I am not discounting that. The point of this thread is WHY do guys do it?????? When someone is open, honest and upfront with their feelings?? That is using someone till the well runs dry, G.

Btw - it takes me a lot less time than 15 mins to make up my mind

Cassidy

 

[lovetoread]

The fact is, women know that they're going to have sex with the man in the first 15 minutes of meeting them. All other men, they simply use until "the well goes dry".

Not this gal,thank you very much.

I am not comprehending this thread. Are you saying JL,that a guy deliberately led your friend on,or did it just seem that way? I mean did this guy tell her he was only playing with her?

I know a few people who hurt others,not for any callous reason,but because they werent strong enough to admit they did not share the same feelings.

I also know people who throw out the emotional words expecting it to be returned,even if they suspect its not.

Then there are the real horrible people <notice the word "people" not a gender> who do this for fun. Those are the people to avoid at all costs.

 

[juicylips]

Not this gal,thank you very much.

I am not comprehending this thread. Are you saying JL,that a guy deliberately led your friend on,or did it just seem that way? I mean did this guy tell her he was only playing with her?

Yes it was deliberate.

Yes, it was admited he was just playing.

Yes, she is devastated.

Yes, I am venting and ranting for her.

Oh..I know..so very unJL like.

Cassidy

 

[Orlanth]

As you have already sad, it works both ways. Not every guy, nor every woman does this... In your first post you made it sound like guy does it. That is hugwash,. Not every man does it just uas not every woman.

Heck, my ex-girlfriends have played trouble mind games with me. So I know how it feels.

 

[GuyJD]

I'm with Riff, I'm not one to play head games with women. I don't have time to play (grown too old for that).

But it's strange that whoever says "I Love You" first seems to be the one who gets hurt. Ladies, why is that?

 

[juicylips]

But it's strange that whoever says "I Love You" first seems to be the one who gets hurt. Ladies, why is that?

my god, what kind of relationships have you been in???

I am feeling for you, G.

Saying I Love You....always makes you vulnerable. Especially if you are the first to venture forth and speak those words. You don't really know if the other person feels that. You sure hope so. But you don't really. Sometimes they even say them back, because they feel they must and it is expected.

Cassidy

 

[VanB]

Like has been said both men and women play mind-fuck games - probably in equal proportion.

Your friend is unfortunate that she encountered a jerk. I don't think there are any more male juerks than female jerks in this respect.

 

[MechaBlade]

i know...

You're trying for the wrong guys... Ahem!

Sorry, this cough thing has been going around....


Sorry about your friend...

MechaBlade
(who never mindfucks anyone, but is always being mindraped)

 

[GuyJD]

my god, what kind of relationships have you been in???

I am feeling for you, G.

Well since you asks, a little over a year ago, I lost my job because of a woman whom I was dating at work. (And trust me, this was a situation that I once never allow myself to get involved with.) She made all of her coworkers believe that I did so much harm to her. But all of whom knew me at my job believed otherwise.

I've since moved forward and gotten a much better job, of course. But ever since then, I've felt betrayed. My trust was crushed, along with my heart. And to this day, I find it hard to love anyone again. So until then, I simply concentrate on my personal goals in life, including my erotica and poetry writing.

 

[juicylips]

Well since you asks, a little over a year ago, I lost my job because of a woman whom I was dating at work. (And trust me, this was a situation that I once never allow myself to get involved with.) She made all of her coworkers believe that I did so much harm to her. But all of whom knew me at my job believed otherwise.

I've since moved forward and gotten a much better job, of course. But ever since then, I've felt betrayed. My trust was crushed, along with my heart. And to this day, I find it hard to love anyone again. So until then, I simply concentrate on my personal goals in life, including my erotica and poetry writing.

Ok. Point made. I understand where you are coming from, G.

You, too,were a victim of someone mind fucking you and I am sorry to hear that. You are still healing, that is obvious. Glad to see, though, that you have refocused on your personal goals. Often when we fall for someone we lose who WE are. We become tangled in their life and lose sense of our own direction.

Best of luck.
Cassidy

 

[plasticman33]

What is with the head games? The toying of emotions?? What do you get out of that?? Hmmmmm??


If you want her, then just fucking tell her straight out.

If you don't, same rules apply.

I know someone who is hurting, deeply, and there was really no reason for it to happen if he would have just played nice, fair, and upfront.

Cassidy,
who is royally pissed off today

It's a two way street, Cass, trust me I know! Anytime someone starts playing with emotions, not being totally straight forward and playing mind games, someone is going to get burned.