Guys... Please help me!!!!!

[starrcat69]

This is for the guys......I would like to hear your comments on this question. During making love with your woman, when you are in the 69 position or any other position for that matter, have you ever been fingered in the butt, what did it feel like and did you like it. The reason I'm asking is because its something new for me. I'v never done it but i would like to do it to my boyfriend. We've discussed it and wondered what it would be like. Please help!!!! Thank you.

 

[Guest]

In answer to your question, it ismost wonderful, not onloy th finger, but small vibrator is even better. Try it; you both will be taken to new levels. If he likes this then I can tell you mre ways to turn him into quivering mass. Just leave post and let me know if you are interested.

 

[Guest]

Re: Postillion

I think the French call that, "postillion." When I was married, I begged my wife to do that to me, and she finally did at one point. She did it the wrong way, and it felt more like someone trying to put a finger in my ass than trying to intensify my orgasm. Having said that, though, I should never forget that she tried to do it right for me. Recently, I had a female lover who used a dildo on me, but refused to use her finger. Your question seems more directed at straight males (I'm bi myself), so I'll just say I've had other more wonderful experiences, and believe I'm qualified to give you an answer.

You didn't really say whose idea it was to try that, and in any case, I hope your boyfriend is up to it. Anal play involves issues of submission, for most, so some guys are just too macho or "straight" for it. For the rest of us, it's icing on the cake! There are some excellent books available which cover all things relating to anal sexual pleasure, and some can be found at larger bookstores like Barnes & Noble, Borders, etc., and perhaps even the local library, if all the perverts haven't "lost" them for good. Anyway, while you should consult these for the official word, I'll share my own secret recipe for pleasure with you.

The basic idea for doing it is to find your boyfriend's prostate and massage it while performing oral sex on him. I recommend KY liquid, a finger condom or latex glove, and lots of practice. Make sure you have cut your fingernails, and make sure to do it a few hours beforehand, so he's in suspense (heh heh). The prostate can be located at a position about 2 inches or so inside his rectum, and to the front (between belly and rectum). It's a good idea to go as far in as possible, then gently press toward the belly (bend your finger slightly) and slide your fingertip down as if you're exiting. HE will tell you when you've found it, and then it's just a matter of gently rubbing the same spot. This should be done as an accessory act, though he may grow to like it by itself. Don't forget to tell him how sexy he looks taking your finger in, and how much it turns you on to do it.

When you get good at it, try this technique, which is my personal favorite, and which will put you in control of your man's pleasure. Get him close to orgasm via oral or manual stimulation, then stop. Penetrate him but don't actually begin the prostate massage yet--make him feel the invasion a bit first. Then, hold your inserted finger still while you slowly resume hand/mouth work. When you feel him begin to tense for orgasm again, stop and go back to working your finger, then back to his penis after a while, holding your finger still, and back and forth. Each time, make your finger go deeper, or even insert a second if he can take it, but still do not touch his prostate. Finally, when he can no longer maintain civility, you can do your favorite hand/mouth technique(s) while beginning an intense (but still carefully gentle) assault on the male G-spot. His mind will be blown to bits, especially if you like or don't mind swallowing for him.

Make sure he learns how to do it right for you, as well, and you can both enjoy it at the same time. Best of luck to both of you!

Love,

SPR

 

[Mr. Briggs]

The last post pretty much sums it up ;-)

If your boyfriend is into that, then introduce a vibrator to your play. If he likes that as well then I suggest you surprise him with a strap on. If he is ok with a finger and vibrator he'll be begging you to fuck him with the strap on )

Good luck


Mr. Briggs

 

[Yoc]

I can't say how she did it exactly. But I had this girl (older lady actually) who had quite an appetite sexually wise and could give me a quick erection by putting a finger up my bum.

Never felt anything like it before.

 

[Felsen]

Anal fingering

By all means, try it! The next time you're giving him head, ease his ass cheeks apart, dribble a little spittle on your index finger, and ease it into him. I guarantee he won't protest, once you get it in to the first joint and past his anal sphincter. (You can also do the same thing if he's on top of you in the missionary position, of course, though you might have to use your middle finger in this position.) Once in, you can locate his prostate and gently massage this sensitive gland for him. I guarantee you that he will be willing to do anything you ask after pleasing him in this way.

The same thing works on girls, too, even if they don't have a prostate for you to massage. The thing I enjoy most about providing this type of stimulation to my female partners is feeling their anal sphincter squeezing my finger when they reach orgasm. Believe me, you can tell how strong the orgasm is that you're giving her by the force with which that muscle squeezes your intruding finger.

 

[starrcat69]

my earlier question about anal fingering

I forgot to mention that I had heard it from a friend who tried it on her husband and he said he liked it a little but it was very intense. I had already discussed it with my boyfriend, and we both agreed that I could try it on him if I liked. But I just haven't worked up the nerve to do it yet. But I have another question also. What is the best position for it??? And can it be done right in the 69 position if he is on top, or would it take another position?

 

[DriveSouth]

Go ahead and do it-

He'll love it, you'll be rewarded...

 

[WillowWhip]

If you've talked about it why not try it?
Be gentle until you are asked to be rougher.
For some this is a real turn-on. For others
it is an annoyance and distraction.
LISTEN to your partners body and you won't
be dissapointed.

And if he REALLY enjoys it; try some anal beads!!
Have fun!!!

 

[Guest]

Best Positions

You can finger him in the sixty-nine position, but it can get uncomfortable for your wrist. A related position is to lay on your back with your head hanging upside down off the edge of the bed. You may already know that you can deep-throat him more easily this way, and the position also lends better access to his backside. If you are ever on top, and he begins to get into it once you penetrate him, he will likely grind himself onto your hand as the pleasure becomes more intense. The best ways to do it, however, will not involve the sixty-nine position. Instead, while he lays on his back, place his legs on your shoulders, and you can pretty much do what you like to him--though, he won't be able to reciprocate. As he gets more used to the idea of anal penetration, get him on his hands and knees, while you work your magic from slightly off to one side, or from underneath.

Hope this helps!

--SPR

 

[starrcat69]

I would like to thank you for your advice Secret Pleasure Rooms. It has been most helpful and I will use it. Hey I got a story finally posted on this site, it is in the Extreme section under New Stories. You oughta go and check it it out and email me and tell me what you think about it. Also if i had your email address I can email you with any more questions I have. lol Thanks again for all your help on this matter

PS if anyone else has advice please feel free to drop me a few helpful lines. Thanks guys!!!!!!

 

[Bonaire]

Careful?

To make a long story short, my former wife returned to me after a three month fling. I was aroused by the fact that she had fucked other men. While having sex one night she asked me to put my finger up her ass. I knew she hadn't learned that from me and tried to respond before I lost control. She tried with me, but her fingernails were too long and the feeling was not conducive to enhancing our moment so we pulled out of each other's anus and proceeded to normal fucking speed. I found out later that she had tried anal sex with one of her temporary boyfriends who had a small cock and it was pleasurable for her.

Just be careful and talk with your guy before you surprise him with a probe up the rearend!

Bonaire

 

[Spokanite]

Finger in ass

I love to have a finger in my ass while my wife is giving me a blow-job. I normally never cum when she sucks my dick but when she puts a finger in there it sends me over the top. I bought her a strap on and she used it on me once and it was kind of fun but it wasn't enough to make me cum. I suggest you try a finger but make sure it's well lubricated and use a glove so that your finger-nails don't hurt him.

 

[cymbidia]

OMG.
There's someone else at Lit from Spokane!



I mean, uh...
go have a look at this thread.
It'll be quite enlightening, i think.
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=36748&highlight=anal+play+finger

 

[Guest]

another Spokanite!

Here's another! Cymbidia, I'm the guy you "spoke" to recently about "my submissive nature." Since I spend most of my on-line time at work, I haven't taken the time to register yet, but when I do, I know of no reason not to list Spokane as my location.

 

[Felsen]

You can get a latex tube about 5" long and 1" around with 8-10 "ripples" on it, which attaches to a vibrator via a suction cup. Lube this up with "Wet" or other water-soluble lubricant and slip it into your guy's rectum during foreplay. When you start fucking or sucking, turn the vibrator on and off several times and, when you know he's about to cum, turn it on and slip it slowly out of him. He will melt right before your eyes!

 

[XMistressMimiX]

Female here...

Sorry...I know you asked the GUYS and I'm a woman.... But I simply have to respond! Get lube and go for it. It may not be exactly what he thought it would be at first, but since you have DISCUSSED it (no sneak attacks please girls...they hate that) then by all means give it a try or two...or three. It may feel great right off, it may just feel 'nice but weird' and hell he may hate it. But if you have talked about it...GO FOR IT!
What have you got to lose?

 

[XMistressMimiX]

Oh!

Oh! And remember to cut and buff your FINGERNAILS!!!

 

[Guest]

related question

How do you bring up the topic to your wife without freaking her out?
I had an old girlfriend who used to like to finger my ass while I masterbated, it was pretty intense.

 

[Felsen]

Re: related question

How do you bring up the topic to your wife without freaking her out?
I had an old girlfriend who used to like to finger my ass while I masterbated, it was pretty intense.

The way you bring this topic up to your wife is to "do" her first! Get her to take a shower with you---with all the soaping and rubbing, etc., of course---so she knows that you are both squeaky clean all over. Then when you dry off and get in bed, take the reins and burrow your face in her pussy. After a couple of licks at her clit and vaginal entrance, move down and lick her asshole. If she doesn't kick you off the bed---and I'd bet my testicles that she won't!---go back to licking her genitals and fingering her vagina. With the lubrication provided by her vaginal juices helping you, take your finger out of her cunt and slip it gently and slowly into her anus. If she seems to be enjoying this, go ahead and bring her off orally, keeping your finger firmly imbedded in her rectum. (Personally, I just love to feel a woman's anal sphincter clutching at my finger while she's cumming.)

I don't think that you will need to talk her into reciprocating. Once she's experienced an orgasm with simultaneous anal stimulation, I'd be surprised if she didn't go through the same process for you. I mean, sucking your cock, licking your asshole, and then putting a finger in while sucking you again.

I hope you'll let all of us know if this works---assuming that you've nerve enough to try it!