Guidance please

[manwalking666]

Hi,

Me and my wife are wanting to take things to a whole new level in our sex lives we do the tame restraints and pumps and clamps but we want to take things further.

Can anyone help us on what we can do to take it further.

There is no definitive dom and sub in the relationship we experiment in both roles.

the areas we like the idea of is breast play ( she has 40E boobs) belly, pussy, clit and thigh play as she is on the larger side and cock and ball for me.

Thank you

 

[Stella_Omega]

I suggest you go into the library thread that is pinned up top-- browse around all of the links and topics offered there

 

[midwestyankee]

I'm curious about something. Does the size of a woman's breasts appreciably affect her capacity to enjoy breast torture? I mean, other than the fact of having more or less real estate on which to plant clips and such?

 

[DVS]

Hi,

Me and my wife are wanting to take things to a whole new level in our sex lives we do the tame restraints and pumps and clamps but we want to take things further.

Can anyone help us on what we can do to take it further.

There is no definitive dom and sub in the relationship we experiment in both roles.

the areas we like the idea of is breast play ( she has 40E boobs) belly, pussy, clit and thigh play as she is on the larger side and cock and ball for me.

Thank you

Check the library as well as some of the stories here. Adapt what you find interesting to your own situation and go with the flow. Experiment with what you both like. There are no rules other than playing safe.

If you both are switches, you might have a problem deciding who is going to be in charge at any given time. You will maybe need to flip a coin to decide roles. Have fun!

 

[KlaytonFrost]

Reading stories is a good way to go. Bear in mind that a lot of the time fiction doesn't reflect reality, but things you read about in stories can be good jumping off points for your own further research.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Discuss if there are any specific areas that you want to explore and start by focussing on them, which in turn will probably open up pathways into different areas of exploration. Start with the things that are currently top of yor todo list.
You say that there is no obvious Dominant? You may find that one of you is more into control and the other more into physical punishment.... It will depend verymuch on your relationship dynamic as to how it plays out. There is no right or wrong, only what is right for you both. Good luck and enjoy xx

 

[Stella_Omega]

There does not have to be 'one obvious dominant."

really, guys. I know most of us here can't imagine life without D/s dynamics-- even when we have to invent them in our heads-- but honestly? Kink can be practiced without domination and submission. And it is still part of BDSM.