Giving or sending your wife to another man

[Tyrantino]

She started falling for him and felt it had run it's course. Sad for me, but hey, her wishes.

I witnessed a similar case long time ago. Not exactly that the man was sending his wife to other men, but they were an open couple and enjoyed sharing their experiences. Until she fell in love with another man.

Long story short: although her husband was athletic, funny, adventurer... she preferred a not so good looking, sad, widower with two daughters but for which she felt most valued.

Back to your case, if she started falling for him, and you love her, it was the best.

 

[Paul01uk]

I witnessed a similar case long time ago. Not exactly that the man was sending his wife to other men, but they were an open couple and enjoyed sharing their experiences. Until she fell in love with another man.

Long story short: although her husband was athletic, funny, adventurer... she preferred a not so good looking, sad, widower with two daughters but for which she felt most valued.

Back to your case, if she started falling for him, and you love her, it was the best.

Absolutely. I enjoyed the cuckolding and the delicious humiliation when her mother found out and a few friends, but we're better together,

 

[RipRespon]

I "gave" my wife to a very good friend. He became her lover for 15 months, visiting once every six weeks. It was incredible. Getting to watch, listen, join in, share, or just let them go out for a night and lay at home wondering. The best times ever.

How did the first “give away” happen? Could get enough of those “lay at home wondering “ moments. Not much better for a cuck than the sexual anxiety of edging by myself imagining my wife behaving like a slut at that same moment.

 

[Tom_Brown]

She started falling for him and felt it had run it's course. Sad for me, but hey, her wishes.

It was a similar situation for us. We had 2 encounters with a guy that my wife really liked. The sex was amazing for her and he fucked her multiple times during those encounters.

He was younger, much more endowed than me, and she loved being with him. After the second encounter, she felt as if she was really starting to enjoy him, so she put an end to it and said that she would not have sex with another man, so as to never put herself in that type of predicament again.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Hot tubs are one of the best places for seduction. We had one ant our first house and if we had a guy over to seduce she might go topless, sit on the edge to “cool off”. Feet and hands can wander unnoticed under the twirling water. Real easy place to start stuff.

I was always amazed who will get naked and want to play in a hottub.
We had friends, neighbors and co workers in ours. We had a tease of a female friend get to tipsy and I had to take her outside on the deck to cool her down and give her plenty of water.
Because she was a tease I sat her on our deck with an open robe facing the neighbors house so they could see her tits on full display.

 

[Phatfeet]

I agree with others that a wife is not someone you give away, but yet still there is something about a marriage that solidifies a lifelong commitment. That is, a marriage certificate is not just a piece of paper; it represents a lot, with marriage being present in every culture in the world. It is just that intrinsic to human relations and culture.

Therefore, when a husband openly let his wife be sexual with another man, it is a significant event. It’s permission, but only in that a professed commitment can be temporarily set aside with no repercussions.

And really, there really are only two elements to this; the husband being present when she is shared, and then not, and each has its finer points.

I never have been present. I envisioned I would be, thought I would be, but reality was the first man she tried this with wanted her, but them to be alone when he did. So, I walked away and let him have a private moment with her.

In some ways it was not as good, as I could not see, hear, or touch her as this monumental moment was carried out, but in some ways be distant was more intense. I knew what she was doing and with whom, but not how he did so. I could only envision it. And being distant I am sure it was more intense as the two could enjoy one another without restraint as pure passion was shared between them as he took something I cherished deeply. In that way I was not openly humiliated since I was not there, but the fact that I wasn’t being a milder form of humiliation just the same. I could not help him, nor could I stop him, I was not there so I merely had to let it happen and trust that another man would take care of her sexual, emotional, and physical needs for a night. There is a lot of emotions wrapped up in that which is hard to put into words.

But THAT is the addiction. Not fixating on just one thing but that you are excited, scared, thrilled, nervous, irritated, hopeful, and jealous all at once. Its the overwhelming avalanche of emotions that makes what is happening so powerful. This is not supposed to happen and yet it is, and one moment you are rock-hard thinking of it, and the next pacing the floor in nervousness.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

This is an excellent description that captures the intensity of the conflicting emotions experienced by the waiting cuckold husband.

 

[Phatfeet]

My wife was giving herself to another man, a hung single colleague of hers, for years before I found out. Now I give her to him willingly and enthusiastically. He has no idea I found out, still thinks she's cheating.

Wow; with only a few sentences you describe the situation, but the more I think about it, the more I realize it truly shows the difference of perspective.

What a shock it will be to his smug attitude when, or even if... he ever finds out that you knew all along. Perhaps it was distressing to you at first, and my sympathies to you if that was the case, but to hear your words now; how you have come to embrace it, and taken what many, many men have unfortunately endured and turned the act into a thrill for you.

It is a complete role reversal. Perhaps the other man thinks he's using the husband when in reality it is the unsuspecting man that is being truly used. Not every husband can see with such clarity, or roll with such a punch, but man; good for you on such a unique perspective. You not only took the moral high ground, you dominate the whole damn mountaintop!

You have my respect!