Asking my wife Female Friend about my wife.

[Sarmad_bi]

Hi,
I would love for my wife ( Sofia) to be seduced and pleasured by someone Not me. but I do not have the courage to open the topic with her directly.
I am working on the seduction slowly as my previous threads explained
I know one of her very close female friends ( Becca)
I was thinking to pretend I am a random guy and send an email to Becca pretending I am an admirer of Sofia explaining how much I would love to bed her and beg Bacca to help in convincing Sofia ( my wife) .
Do you think it is good idea?

 

[TravisAW]

What happens if they agree to meet? Who do you send? Sounds a bit crazy.

 

[13Fantasies]

Hi,
I would love for my wife ( Sofia) to be seduced and pleasured by someone Not me. but I do not have the courage to open the topic with her directly.
I am working on the seduction slowly as my previous threads explained
I know one of her very close female friends ( Becca)
I was thinking to pretend I am a random guy and send an email to Becca pretending I am an admirer of Sofia explaining how much I would love to bed her and beg Bacca to help in convincing Sofia ( my wife) .
Do you think it is good idea?

Okay. Ill seduce her.

 

[Sarmad_bi]

What happens if they agree to meet? Who do you send? Sounds a bit crazy.

I want to know first is she is interested or not

 

[Sarmad_bi]

Okay. Ill seduce her.

how

 

[dz2681]

I want to know first is she is interested or not

Have you two talked about other sexual fantasies?

 

[Sarmad_bi]

Have you two talked about other sexual fantasies?

Not really,
and even if she fantsized about fucking another person, and I am sure she will be too shy to confess such thing

 

[dz2681]

Not really,
and even if she fantsized about fucking another person, and I am sure she will be too shy to confess such thing

Got to start somewhere. Talking about both your fantasies and sexual desire will help her feel more comfortable with what she might be feeling and thinking about. Don’t have to jump right into sharing her as your main one but little things you might not have told her might help her open up more. From what you’ve said so far sounds like she’ll be into it and might surprise you with what she says.

 

[Sarmad_bi]

Got to start somewhere. Talking about both your fantasies and sexual desire will help her feel more comfortable with what she might be feeling and thinking about. Don’t have to jump right into sharing her as your main one but little things you might not have told her might help her open up more. From what you’ve said so far sounds like she’ll be into it and might surprise you with what she says.

Thank you
I agree with you
I think your point is very right. talking about fantasies in general will open our mind and make her comfortable talking about other things.
X

 

[13Fantasies]

how

I was joking as I doubt she lives next door.

But I agree with dz. Try talking in general. You can be subtle in other ways too

 

[Bryan_C]

Hi,
I would love for my wife ( Sofia) to be seduced and pleasured by someone Not me. but I do not have the courage to open the topic with her directly.
I am working on the seduction slowly as my previous threads explained
I know one of her very close female friends ( Becca)
I was thinking to pretend I am a random guy and send an email to Becca pretending I am an admirer of Sofia explaining how much I would love to bed her and beg Bacca to help in convincing Sofia ( my wife) .
Do you think it is good idea?

No, not a good idea.

If (when) it later comes out that you lied to her to set this up, it will probably not be well received. If Becca does believe that you are some random guy that she doesn't know, how do you think she's likely to react? Imagine some stranger comes to you and says "hey I think your friend is hot and I want to sleep with them, can you help me out here?" That is almost certainly a non-starter.

 

[Sarmad_bi]

No, not a good idea.

If (when) it later comes out that you lied to her to set this up, it will probably not be well received. If Becca does believe that you are some random guy that she doesn't know, how do you think she's likely to react? Imagine some stranger comes to you and says "hey I think your friend is hot and I want to sleep with them, can you help me out here?" That is almost certainly a non-starter.

Thank you
I agree with you
now i will not consider that

 

[TravisAW]

I want to know first is she is interested or not

I know. But what I'm saying is, if she wants to meet Mr X, who the hell is Mr X?

 

[Sarmad_bi]

I know. But what I'm saying is, if she wants to meet Mr X, who the hell is Mr X?

i see

 

[Britva415]

Hi,
I would love for my wife ( Sofia) to be seduced and pleasured by someone Not me. but I do not have the courage to open the topic with her directly.
I am working on the seduction slowly as my previous threads explained
I know one of her very close female friends ( Becca)
I was thinking to pretend I am a random guy and send an email to Becca pretending I am an admirer of Sofia explaining how much I would love to bed her and beg Bacca to help in convincing Sofia ( my wife) .
Do you think it is good idea?

No

 

[Britva415]

if she fantsized about fucking another person, and I am sure she will be too shy to confess such thing

What if she just doesn't want to?

Let's be very very clear: This is your fantasy, not hers. So, own it.

Be honest and just talk about it. Don't keep coming up with manipulative ideas for pushing her into weird situations while keeping your part in it secret.