Giving or sending your wife to another man

[Carolinaguy45]

I’ve had fantasies on both sides of this. I really would love to see my wife with another man. To watch her getting fucked by a big cock. See her body moving in rhythm with the man ahis cock, watching her face as waves of pleasure wash over her, her her moans and whimpering as his cock owns her, her the raw primal sounds of fucking. Seeing her orgasm on his cock. It all makes me so excited and aroused.

Also would love to be the man a wife was sent to….for obvious reasons lol

 

[Handydan]

My husband has sent me to other men many times over the years. He would text me an address and a time - nothing else. I would always go. It was exciting for everyone. Sometimes I knew the guy he sent me to. Most of the time I had never seen them before. I never asked how he found them or how he knew them I thought that would ruin some of the mystery. He even sent me to one of my cousins once. I knew the address looked familiar. I almost didn't get out of the car.

My wife would love that!

 

[dz2681]

My husband has sent me to other men many times over the years. He would text me an address and a time - nothing else. I would always go. It was exciting for everyone. Sometimes I knew the guy he sent me to. Most of the time I had never seen them before. I never asked how he found them or how he knew them I thought that would ruin some of the mystery. He even sent me to one of my cousins once. I knew the address looked familiar. I almost didn't get out of the car.

Would you ever choose a guy on your own or it was always hubbys pick? Never denied any of his choices?

 

[dz2681]

In those scenarios he always chose and I never denied.

I have chosen plenty of guys myself outside of that scenario

Very hot. Did you ever return to any of your husbands picks on your own another time?

 

[Tom_Brown]

I never “sent” my wife to another man because I always wanted to watch her get fucked. That’s not to say that I wouldn’t love to hear that she went out on her own and got fucked, but she’s never told me that she has.

I did leave her alone with the first guy she fucked, so that she could lose all of her inhibitions and not feel embarrassed about really letting go while being fucked by another man, but that was only for an hour.

For 15 years I begged my wife to fuck another guy. For the first 13 she outright refused. Then a couple incidents happened in her life for her to consider it. For about a year we would role play about having another man fuck her.

Finally, she agreed, but said only once. We met a guy on Adult Friend Finder and messaged back and forth (for about a month). Once comfortable, we met for drinks. At one point, they met near the restroom at the bar and kissed.

At home she told me about the kiss and agreed to meet with him again. We had drinks at the bar and eventually went to the room, where my fantasy became reality. I watched as they went through every stage of sex including him fucking her repeatedly. Afterwards, she said that it was very satisfying, but said that she would never do it again.

A month of me begging and him messaging us to meet again, she agreed. They fucked throughout the night and again in the morning. Once again, afterwards she said never again.

We went back to our normal life, but after about a year, I was yearning for a repeat performance. She continually said no, but would still role-play getting fucked by another man. so I figured out another way.

I knew that she loved massages and also that plane trips hurt her back. So…

We planned a trip to Hawaii. I held out sex with her for 2 months, where I told her to get a fuck buddy to satisfy her sexual needs. She teased that she needed cock and just might fuck someone else. She was in a constant state of arousal, having been without sex for so long. I contacted a guy (in Hawaii) who did sensual massages and explained my dilemma. He agreed to try to entice her into letting him seduce her, but also knew that if she refused, the massage would go back to professional.

We arrived and she complained about her back, so I pretended to call the front desk for a massage therapist. I told her that I got her a massage for late afternoon. We spent the day at the pool and she had a couple of cocktails. She was tipsy, but definitely not drunk. She becomes horny when tipsy and with the lack of sex for the past couple of months, she was definitely ready.

The masseur arrived and proceeded with a professional massage. She wore a black Lycra top and panties. Eventually while massaging her inner thigh, his fingers grazed her covered pussy. I watched her flinch, but could tell that it excited her. He repeated the grazing and she moaned.

That was his signal to actively rub her pussy outside of her panties. Eventually, she was moaning and moving her hips. Carefully, he moved the gusset of her panties side and massaged her bare pussy. When she didn’t stop him, he slipped a finger inside of her pussy and she bucked her hips.

He aggressively finger fucked her and she pulled down his sweats and sucked his cock. They got into a 69 and she came from his oral talents and asked me to get him a condom. She put it on him and asked him to fuck her. He did and after he came, I fucked her.

Afterwards, she was happy with the experience, but also refused to ever fuck another guy again and hasn’t (as far as I know).

I wrote about that and all of our experiences here on Lit:

https://www.literotica.com/series/se/my-lifestyle-experiences

 

[dz2681]

Never. One time only. That is one of our rules.

Did you ever want a repeat with any of the guys but didn’t bring it up? Pretty sure the guys that your husband sent you to would have loved a return visit.

 

[dz2681]

There have been guys that were fun enough to think about having again but I would never jeopardize my marriage by going back. I know how lucky I am and I'm not going to ruin it.

Sounds like you two have a good and strong relationship when was last time he texted you an address to go to? Would you take pics or videos for him with the guys so he can see when you got back home or did he enjoy hearing the details from you?

 

[000777]

I sent my wife to a coworker of mine. Even though I would have liked to watch, he wasn't comfortable with me being there.

 

[000777]

It's been a while. A few times last year. We started doing it when I was in my mid 20s a long time ago lol. I call him and put him on speaker before I go to their door and he'll quietly listen until I hang up after I'm back in the car.

How does a guy get on the "sent" list? Asking for friend. lol

 

[dz2681]

I don't question the method lol

Does he accept friend requests?

 

[000777]

I don't question the method lol

Hey, as long as it works! But... a man can dream....lol

 

[dz2681]

I don't question the method lol

Never asked him how he chose some guys? Curiosity never got to you? Lol

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

I’ve had fantasies on both sides of this. I really would love to see my wife with another man. To watch her getting fucked by a big cock. See her body moving in rhythm with the man ahis cock, watching her face as waves of pleasure wash over her, her her moans and whimpering as his cock owns her, her the raw primal sounds of fucking. Seeing her orgasm on his cock. It all makes me so excited and aroused.

Also would love to be the man a wife was sent to….for obvious reasons lol

That does sound so incredibly fucking hot.

 

[Paul01uk]

I "gave" my wife to a very good friend. He became her lover for 15 months, visiting once every six weeks. It was incredible. Getting to watch, listen, join in, share, or just let them go out for a night and lay at home wondering. The best times ever.

 

[OneEyedSteve]

I'd love to watch my wife with another guy, or multiple guys. She's had a number of threesomes and visited a swingers club a couple of times with an ex bf. They chose a guy to join them on both occasions.
I've often encouraged my partners to exhibit themselves, from convincing my first wife to go topless on a beach (which she loved) to taking her panties off and exposing herself in short skirts to men in bars.
My wife gives great head and has blown quite a few complete strangers in the past, I'd love to watch her at a glory hole

 

[rickybobby808454]

I'd love to watch my wife with another guy, or multiple guys. She's had a number of threesomes and visited a swingers club a couple of times with an ex bf. They chose a guy to join them on both occasions.
I've often encouraged my partners to exhibit themselves, from convincing my first wife to go topless on a beach (which she loved) to taking her panties off and exposing herself in short skirts to men in bars.
My wife gives great head and has blown quite a few complete strangers in the past, I'd love to watch her at a glory hole

id love to see mine as well but it will never happen and I am completely ok with that

 

[conservative1]

I "gave" my wife to a very good friend. He became her lover for 15 months, visiting once every six weeks. It was incredible. Getting to watch, listen, join in, share, or just let them go out for a night and lay at home wondering. The best times ever.

Why only 15 months?

 

[Paul01uk]

Why only 15 months?

She started falling for him and felt it had run it's course. Sad for me, but hey, her wishes.

 

[Tyrantino]

She started falling for him and felt it had run it's course. Sad for me, but hey, her wishes.

I witnessed a similar case long time ago. Not exactly that the man was sending his wife to other men, but they were an open couple and enjoyed sharing their experiences. Until she fell in love with another man.

Long story short: although her husband was athletic, funny, adventurer... she preferred a not so good looking, sad, widower with two daughters but for which she felt most valued.

Back to your case, if she started falling for him, and you love her, it was the best.

 

[Paul01uk]

I witnessed a similar case long time ago. Not exactly that the man was sending his wife to other men, but they were an open couple and enjoyed sharing their experiences. Until she fell in love with another man.

Long story short: although her husband was athletic, funny, adventurer... she preferred a not so good looking, sad, widower with two daughters but for which she felt most valued.

Back to your case, if she started falling for him, and you love her, it was the best.

Absolutely. I enjoyed the cuckolding and the delicious humiliation when her mother found out and a few friends, but we're better together,

 

[RipRespon]

I "gave" my wife to a very good friend. He became her lover for 15 months, visiting once every six weeks. It was incredible. Getting to watch, listen, join in, share, or just let them go out for a night and lay at home wondering. The best times ever.

How did the first “give away” happen? Could get enough of those “lay at home wondering “ moments. Not much better for a cuck than the sexual anxiety of edging by myself imagining my wife behaving like a slut at that same moment.

 

[Tom_Brown]

She started falling for him and felt it had run it's course. Sad for me, but hey, her wishes.

It was a similar situation for us. We had 2 encounters with a guy that my wife really liked. The sex was amazing for her and he fucked her multiple times during those encounters.

He was younger, much more endowed than me, and she loved being with him. After the second encounter, she felt as if she was really starting to enjoy him, so she put an end to it and said that she would not have sex with another man, so as to never put herself in that type of predicament again.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Hot tubs are one of the best places for seduction. We had one ant our first house and if we had a guy over to seduce she might go topless, sit on the edge to “cool off”. Feet and hands can wander unnoticed under the twirling water. Real easy place to start stuff.

I was always amazed who will get naked and want to play in a hottub.
We had friends, neighbors and co workers in ours. We had a tease of a female friend get to tipsy and I had to take her outside on the deck to cool her down and give her plenty of water.
Because she was a tease I sat her on our deck with an open robe facing the neighbors house so they could see her tits on full display.

 

[Phatfeet]

I agree with others that a wife is not someone you give away, but yet still there is something about a marriage that solidifies a lifelong commitment. That is, a marriage certificate is not just a piece of paper; it represents a lot, with marriage being present in every culture in the world. It is just that intrinsic to human relations and culture.

Therefore, when a husband openly let his wife be sexual with another man, it is a significant event. It’s permission, but only in that a professed commitment can be temporarily set aside with no repercussions.

And really, there really are only two elements to this; the husband being present when she is shared, and then not, and each has its finer points.

I never have been present. I envisioned I would be, thought I would be, but reality was the first man she tried this with wanted her, but them to be alone when he did. So, I walked away and let him have a private moment with her.

In some ways it was not as good, as I could not see, hear, or touch her as this monumental moment was carried out, but in some ways be distant was more intense. I knew what she was doing and with whom, but not how he did so. I could only envision it. And being distant I am sure it was more intense as the two could enjoy one another without restraint as pure passion was shared between them as he took something I cherished deeply. In that way I was not openly humiliated since I was not there, but the fact that I wasn’t being a milder form of humiliation just the same. I could not help him, nor could I stop him, I was not there so I merely had to let it happen and trust that another man would take care of her sexual, emotional, and physical needs for a night. There is a lot of emotions wrapped up in that which is hard to put into words.

But THAT is the addiction. Not fixating on just one thing but that you are excited, scared, thrilled, nervous, irritated, hopeful, and jealous all at once. Its the overwhelming avalanche of emotions that makes what is happening so powerful. This is not supposed to happen and yet it is, and one moment you are rock-hard thinking of it, and the next pacing the floor in nervousness.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

This is an excellent description that captures the intensity of the conflicting emotions experienced by the waiting cuckold husband.