Girls who love being called SLUTS

[Yang4yin]

Slut to me implies I'm easily used by any man who wants me.

Next definition... a slut is someone who really enjoys having sex.

I'm all for having my own personal slut!


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[IsabellaSnow]

See now, I could handle that if that were my original idea of what the word meant.

Think I'd prefer to called a nymph or something, though.

 

[nymphee]

I keep getting cross with my friends for calling me nympho- it's such an ugly word! I feel the implication is slightly different too.
Slut is another ugly word, and hearing it does nothing for me, yet being told i'm a bad girl does.
Girls are strange aren't they?

nymphée

 

[CutieMouse]

I keep getting cross with my friends for calling me nympho- it's such an ugly word! I feel the implication is slightly different too.
Slut is another ugly word, and hearing it does nothing for me, yet being told i'm a bad girl does.
Girls are strange aren't they?

nymphée

Words are only ugly if we give them the power to be so. I personally don't care for terms like "slut"; I'm far too much of an erotic prude to enjoy being called such a thing.

Although it's geared towards polyamory, you might try reading The Ethical Slut. It might help you see words like "nympho" in a more positive light.

 

[nymphee]

The only reason i don't like it is because it's a perversion of the original word- use nymphomaniac, nymph, nymphe, ninfea, but don't make it acoustically unattractive. (Also, I think nympho sounds a bit common...sssh!)
Not that I'm against perversion in general you understand...

 

[CutieMouse]

The only reason i don't like it is because it's a perversion of the original word- use nymphomaniac, nymph, nymphée, ninfea, but don't make it acoustically unattractive. (Also, I think nympho sounds a bit common...sssh!)
Not that I'm against perversion in general you understand...

Oh I think I'm going to like you.

 

[nymphee]

Thank you, although I feel I must warn you- <whispers> I'm a bit of a perfectionist.

Uglyness, carelessness and lazyness make me sad. So does bad grammar, but I'm working on that.

 

[Perfect_Trust]

I keep getting cross with my friends for calling me nympho- it's such an ugly word! I feel the implication is slightly different too.
Slut is another ugly word, and hearing it does nothing for me, yet being told i'm a bad girl does.
Girls are strange aren't they?

nymphée

I love slut, yet I like to be called a good girl. Open to most things, though I wont accept slag as my ex husband used it on a regular basis purely to demoralise me in a non-sexual context. (Tosser! )

 

[IsabellaSnow]

I love slut, yet I like to be called a good girl.

I'm a sucker for this one too.

 

[neonflux]

Define promiscuous.

Promiscuous is anyone who's had more partners than I have.

Actually, the idea that it is bad to have ___X# of partners is one reason that I hate the word slut (hate the words skank and slag even more).

When subbing, I do like being told I am a good girl, however.

Neon

Confession: I have no problems admitting to being a "pain slut," LOL.

 

[pipesoflirael]

During sex, slut is definetly a turn on. Outside of sex, it's not as attractive. Hearing "good girl" is certainly another good one as it makes me feel a little proud that i've done something right for my Master. "Bad girl", which i only get in texts so i know what to expect when He gets home, is humiliating and scary but, somehow, just as enticing. Makes no sense...

 

[FluteMaster]

During sex, slut is definetly a turn on. Outside of sex, it's not as attractive. Hearing "good girl" is certainly another good one as it makes me feel a little proud that i've done something right for my Master. "Bad girl", which i only get in texts so i know what to expect when He gets home, is humiliating and scary but, somehow, just as enticing. Makes no sense...

lol - why does it have to make sense?? We all have those little things that make our stomachs tingle and our gonads perk up and take interest. When a sub tells me I am "her slut", I love it, but only with the qualifying possessive pronoun. On the other hand "whore" leaves me absolutely cold.

There again, at times I can be "Daddy", and at others "Master". Every time, context is key, and the art is finding the right key to each context.

Meanwhile, lets have fun saying things that arouse ourselves and our partners.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Promiscuous is anyone who's had more partners than I have.

LOL... clever girl.

Touche!

 

[neonflux]

LOL... clever girl.

Touche!

Yep

 

[PerthOzMale]

Promiscuous is anyone who's had more partners than I have.

In Oz we have a saying

A slut is a woman who sleeps with everyone, a bitch is a woman who sleeps with everyone but me

 

[neonflux]

In Oz we have a saying

A slut is a woman who sleeps with everyone, a bitch is a woman who sleeps with everyone but me

LOL - Any terms for men who sleep around?

 

[FluteMaster]

LOL - Any terms for men who sleep around?

Lucky?

 

[FurryFury]

LOL - Any terms for men who sleep around?

I call them sluts and whores too.

Fury

 

[IsabellaSnow]

LOL - Any terms for men who sleep around?

Typical?

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

LOL - Any terms for men who sleep around?

'Celibacy Challenged'

 

[montana_706]

Completely new here so hi...

I have been seeing a girl for about 6 months who is into quite a lot of extreme rough sex. She is absoutely gorgeous (9/10) perfect size 8, huge tits, intelligent and well off. However she LOVES it when i really abuse her and call her a SLUT, WHORE, BITCH etc. not to metion how she likes to be submissive in the bedroom and to feel "used". She's totally into me as I am to her but loves to be dominated in this way.

I find this a massive turn on but I'm interested to understand the psychology behind this. Can anyone help? ....

Well, I'm training in psychology, so maybe I can help. Most likely, she is aroused by being put into what society would say is something that is bad. Slut, whore, bitch, cunt, they're all terms that are normally intended to make a woman feel inferior and worthless. Basically, if there's something that society says is bad, however, it's going to be exciting for some people just by the nature of being bad.
Extremely rough sex isn't exactly something that women are generally taught to want either. Society teaches women that they should have soft, gentle sex with a man that they love. Of course, another thing about it is that you people have nerve receptors. The harder you're being, the more intensely you're going to feel it. This tends to lead to a higher arousal level (being turned on) and therefore is probably going to feel really good. Also, if you're pretty rough, it might even reach the point of being a little painful. Since the nerves aren't wired to percieve pain and pleasure separately, it's also going to be extremely stimulating to the person's sexual nerves.

I hope that helps.

 

[saw_man1]

Any terms for men who sleep around?

Shankara. He is such a slut.

I on the other hand am saving myself for Ms Right.

 

[neonflux]

Shankara. He is such a slut.

Then I must admit to liking "slutty" men

I on the other hand am saving myself for Ms Right.

Lucky woman - I would refer you to this thread, which I believe you've already posted on

 

[neonflux]

Well, I'm training in psychology, so maybe I can help. Most likely, she is aroused by being put into what society would say is something that is bad. Slut, whore, bitch, cunt, they're all terms that are normally intended to make a woman feel inferior and worthless. Basically, if there's something that society says is bad, however, it's going to be exciting for some people just by the nature of being bad...

I hope that helps.

I do suspect that part of my extreme dislike for verbal humiliation in this form, either giving or receiving, arises from my never having seen sex or sexual desires as dirty. I remember when I was a kid and first learned about intercourse (before there was much overt sexual imagery on TV and sex education in U.S., schools beyond the "menstruation talk" was almost unheard of), all of my friends were saying something along the lines of, "Ewww! My parents never did that. Ok, maybe twice - once to have me and once to have my sister." I on the other hand thought, "Oh, can't wait! And of course my parents must do that all the time!"

On the other hand, regarding engaging in BDSM and identifying as queer (to my way of thinking different from and much less assimilationist than seeing oneself as gay/les/bi), I do enjoy being a "sexual outlaw." Then again, I grew up in El Paso, Texas where as the child of extremely progressive parents who adopted their beliefs early on, I was automatically branded a rebel, a self-definition which became part of my "personality make-up."

Neon

 

[Netzach]

I'm down with the outlaw thing, as mentioned in another thread, I've always had disconnect with "slut."

As someone who didn't even get her first kiss till she was 18, "slut" just meant my top clearly didn't know me. It wasn't out of guilt or "good girls don't" it was out of "these boys are gross and these girls will kick my ass if I go there." It always sounded stupid and ergo not hot because of this background.

Now that I've landed much more to the control side of the fence, I find that I can be *quite* a slut, and there's something really hot about hypersexual/cuckolding type activity, implications of promiscuity and whatnot.

I'm the first to call myself a slut now, I probably would not balk if someone I'm friends with kidded me that way. It's still not a turnon, but it's maybe less stupid sounding.