Getting him off...

[LEATHER LOVER]

My partner and I have a terrific sex live. He enjoys thankfully going down on me for hours at a time, and won't give up until I've squirted all over him and or the bed. Now the problem, I do not reciprocate. Not that I don't want to but that I can't get my mouth around the whole thing and still deep-throat him. So in the dozen or so years we're together, oh I lick it here and there and all, but I've never been able to suck him off, ever! This would give me (and I hope Him) get pleasure so any instructions as to how to accomplish this, without dislocating my jaw would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you, Mrs. Leather Lover

 

[Monazwx]

Leather Lover

It can be difficult when your lover has a large penis, but practice, practice, practice. It's the only way.

If you can't practice on him directly, use something similar, like a cucumber, for example. I'd say to work up to it gradually; start smaller than his length and girth.

Even if you don't get to deep throat all the way, I'm sure he'll appreciate the sentiment (and will probably go back to working on you) and that's never a bad thing.

 

[Nefarious]

Deep throating is cool as hell, but don't think for a minute that it's the only way to get a guy off. If he's too big for you to accomodate, adjust your technique. Concentrating the lips and tongue on the last 2 or 3 inches while dripping enough saliva to lube his shaft allows you to bring you hands into play. He'll probably be more than happy to give pointers as to grip strength and hand speed. You might even learn a thing or two by watching him masturbate, seriously!

 

[MissTaken]

Yes, take what you are comfortable with.

Then wrap your hand around the well lubed base and pump and twist at the same time.

If you can fondle his sac as well, all the better.

Practice, do the best you can and have a good time.

That you are interested in doing so must be very heart warming for him.

 

[Belilica]

Well, what I was going to suggest was using hands, but it's already been said. You could try a flavored lube if your concerned about taste, and judging from his responses, the sensation is great I also have a self heating flavored lube that he absolutely loves.

Bel

 

[Timeus]

I'm glad you care!

I'm glad you care because there are a lot of ladies out there who think they are great in the oral department and aren't.

The best technique description I've seen is in the Non-Fiction area of www.satinslippers.com --sex tips. Comes from a woman whose man, when single and in the Navy, experienced what a proficient professional can do. (Also has a great first hand account of a woman determined to have Gspot climaxes--but heck, as a guy, I need the ladies to tell me whether it's on target or not (so to speak!).

Don't forget the Million dollar spot!
T.

 

[DarkkSeduction]

Practice makes perfect

but if hes not unhappy ....continue what your doing