getting bored
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jade, Ive had partners before i got married, not inexperienced, hubby & i have tried pretty much everything out there with great results. Don't get me wrong, it's not like there's no satisfaction just maybe too predictable. I know what he's going to do before he does it. I love to surprise him but he has very few for me that's all. Maybe I'm justfeeling under-appreciated and sorry for myself!
forgetunome
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Have you talked to him about it? Of course not while you are in the middle of it.
I have been married 13 years and there was awhile where things got predictable you could almost time it on the hour, day of the week, etc. I finally talked to him while we were watching t.v. one night (but not during football
) non-confrontational, light not wanting him to feel bad or feel like I didn't enjoy sex with him because I did, I just wanted to shake it up a bit. It worked for me. He still surprises me and I have become more agressive. I hope this helps. Putting effort into it is worth it.
I have been married 13 years and there was awhile where things got predictable you could almost time it on the hour, day of the week, etc. I finally talked to him while we were watching t.v. one night (but not during football
) non-confrontational, light not wanting him to feel bad or feel like I didn't enjoy sex with him because I did, I just wanted to shake it up a bit. It worked for me. He still surprises me and I have become more agressive. I hope this helps. Putting effort into it is worth it.best to you
y forgetunome, I think your're right on. . I bet he has some of the same feelings. Nothing like unpredictability and spontanaity to add zest to fading interest. Are you growing together in other ways? Sometimes we recognize symptoms and focus on these but learn later that there are other issues. Good luck ohsally there is nothing better than great sex with intimacy.
y forgetunome, I think your're right on. . I bet he has some of the same feelings. Nothing like unpredictability and spontanaity to add zest to fading interest. Are you growing together in other ways? Sometimes we recognize symptoms and focus on these but learn later that there are other issues. Good luck ohsally there is nothing better than great sex with intimacy.
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Chips, dips chains whips??? Waitaminute, those are party favors!
