Honestly a few… my biggest,
I want to be teased by a massage client, I want to know that my desires of pleasing her sexually as well as professionally would be welcomed.
I have for ever stayed away from even crossing any boundaries.
Initially it's the physical attributes, but it's not the same on every girl. Could be her eyes, smile, tits, curves. To keep it going, it's always her mind
Memorable experiences I’ve been lucky with but two stand out for equal reasons. The first was a hot quickie in a confessional booth. The second was fucking an ex under a secluded waterfall at sunset. Both times were hot, naughty and good well beyond my imagination at the time.
Really just one thing has truly turned me on in the last 48 hours. That is the idea of specific Domme. I think the biggest reason it has taken up my mental and in many respects, physical space, is that this person truly knows themselves and they are someone who is so intelligent. Those two things are so alluring to me - they way they command a "room" is intoxicating and I the thought of submitting to them has kept me well...upright
OK
qualities:
a big higher than me in highheels, well educated, good sense of humor, comparable humor, self-assured, so self-assure that he can laugh about himself
Red flags
Macho-attitude. does not respect me, vegan, strongly different political view