Being fairly new to the forums, a thing I’ve learned that even though I’m in a long term marriage (34 years) there’s still things to learn about communication & new things to try sexually. I find doms & the lifestyle intriguing. Which is new for me..I never understood how someone would like that but giving up control is something I want to explore. Also I discovered I LOVE praise!
France, probably. Some of Paris, and absolutely les Champs-Élysées which I have wanted to see since Zelazny described it in a book I read as a kid. But mostly the countryside. Small towns, wine, bread, incredible food -- romantic, all.
I’ve got used to the fact that most Litsters aren’t Brits. There is some differences, mainly in terminology but essentially we’re all just filthy minded people looking for a fun way to spend time. I think attitudes can differ but certainly not insurmountable
Definitely haven’t yet. What would it take… I suppose want and will from both, and to explore the idea and find a way to make it happen that would be as fulfilling for both as I hope and imagine it would be
That it is some how wrong to want it and for it to be a key component of a relationship. It is the height of intimacy for any couple (whether one night, short term, long term, married) and is a beautiful thing in its moment.
Broad-based condemnation of an individual because they look or sound different or have a different belief system than their own or any inherent bias always paints that person in a bad light, regardless of gender.