Forced Intoxication

[Etoile]

Interesting fetish I had not happened across before: forced intoxication.

I was cruising NiteFlirt out of curiosity (had never seen it until a friend mentioned her line was open) and came across the First National Bank of Dave. That's pretty standard financial domination stuff...taken to very elaborate extremes, but standard. Then I noticed a little link offering forced intoxication sessions.

So I ran to Google, and I came across Forced-Intoxication.com wherein lovely ladies get paid by guys who want to relinquish their power and feel they need booze to do it. At least, that's what this description of forced intoxication says. Apparently forced intoxication clients like to get drunk and then do stupid, humiliating things on cam for their mistresses...among other things.

So...can we discuss this?

 

[BiBunny]

"I really like to get drunk/do drugs/do other things I don't like to admit I like, and I make myself feel better by saying 'Mistress told me to.' I think I'm getting off on the 'control,' but I'm really the one who's in control because if you tell me to do one little thing I don't like (even if I didn't tell you what I like and don't like because you're supposed to be a fucking psychic), I'll act like a jackass or just flat hang up on you."

 

[Etoile]

Well, yeah, I get that part.

But for all the crowing the kink community does about drugs/drink being bad for play, this totally embraces it.

I'm trying to imagine this in a real-life scenario, as opposed to on the phone. Do you suppose anybody does this IRL?

 

[BiBunny]

Well, yeah, I get that part.

But for all the crowing the kink community does about drugs/drink being bad for play, this totally embraces it.

I'm trying to imagine this in a real-life scenario, as opposed to on the phone. Do you suppose anybody does this IRL?

They might. I've played drunk before. But you have to realize that there's very little about phone "domination" that carries over into real life or vice-versa. A lot of these fetishes were basically made up for phone scenarios because there's no way to really translate real-life stuff into phone stuff.

Don't mind me; I'm bitter and burnt out right now.

 

[Etoile]

But you have to realize that there's very little about phone "domination" that carries over into real life or vice-versa. A lot of these fetishes were basically made up for phone scenarios because there's no way to really translate real-life stuff into phone stuff.

Huh...that is what totally boggles my mind. Such scenario-specific, made-up fetishes. I certainly don't see why forced intoxication couldn't be done IRL...exactly as it is described on the websites, even.

Don't worry about being grouchy, I am just riffing on the topic in general, your input is valuable.

 

[BiBunny]

Huh...that is what totally boggles my mind. Such scenario-specific, made-up fetishes. I certainly don't see why forced intoxication couldn't be done IRL...exactly as it is described on the websites, even.

Don't worry about being grouchy, I am just riffing on the topic in general, your input is valuable.

You probably could do it in real life, and I'm sure there are people out there who do. But considering the amount of people who'd flip out if they admitted to doing it, I doubt many folks are going to cop to it here.

Like I said, I've bottomed drunk a time or two with people I know well. I don't do drugs, though.

 

[graceanne]

Like I said, I've bottomed drunk a time or two with people I know well. I don't do drugs, though.

I'd bet more people have bottomed drunk than want to admit. For that matter I bet more people have bottomed drunk with people they don't know well than want to admit, but that's not true in my case. I only bottom for K, and I know him well. lol Honestly, on occasion I like to bottom drunk.

 

[Netzach]

One of my go-to abduction fantasies involves a suit, a van, the woods, rope, a funnel gag, and a bottle of whiskey. It's more work than it's worth in my opinion, but it could be hot - that would be the non-phonesex version of it I guess.

 

[ImOnIt]

Oh wow, the more you know.

The exterior of the temple is still in need of bricks. The temple is currently made of sandstone bricks, but that isn't good enough for Banker
Dave. Therefore, it is your objective to purchase solid bronze, silver, gold, and platinum bricks below to retrofit the temple exterior.

I'd like to point you all to this monstrosity of taste. Jesus fucking web design l Someone's cock surrounded by the tackiest flashing pictures

The money, the power, the entire aspect engorges my cock to the point that immediate release is emanate. Why else would I
choose banking as a career?

This whole fucking website. Goddamnit. Words fail me.

After making your payment, you can view the attached photo set file.

25-100USD$ per photo set. This is the internet people, do we not know everything can be free?

EDIT for the 4th time. It looks like someone paid $25 out of $40,000 to buy BankerDave a brand new 2010 Grand Cherokee to add to his 'fleet of vehicles' Ha ha. "This totally achievable goal must be met by 25th December 2010. Looks like he's on the failboat.

EDIT for the 5th time. "# Direct deposit (to this guy's site) can help you avoid overdrafts because the deposit is direct and on time."

This totally makes sense and is not abso-fucking-lutely bat shit retarded.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

I'm trying to imagine this in a real-life scenario, as opposed to on the phone. Do you suppose anybody does this IRL?

Its not BDSM, but it fits people pledging a fraternity. Making a pledge drink a crap load of alcohol and doing humiliating things just to get in.

 

[Etoile]

Oh wow, the more you know.



I'd like to point you all to this monstrosity of taste. Jesus fucking web design l Someone's cock surrounded by the tackiest flashing pictures

The money, the power, the entire aspect engorges my cock to the point that immediate release is emanate. Why else would I
choose banking as a career?

This whole fucking website. Goddamnit. Words fail me.



25-100USD$ per photo set. This is the internet people, do we not know everything can be free?

EDIT for the 4th time. It looks like someone paid $25 out of $40,000 to buy BankerDave a brand new 2010 Grand Cherokee to add to his 'fleet of vehicles' Ha ha. "This totally achievable goal must be met by 25th December 2010. Looks like he's on the failboat.

EDIT for the 5th time. "# Direct deposit (to this guy's site) can help you avoid overdrafts because the deposit is direct and on time."

This totally makes sense and is not abso-fucking-lutely bat shit retarded.

Mwahahaha. I told you it was taken to elaborate extremes!!
BTW I will give you for FREE what he wants $5 to tell you: http://bankerdave.livejournal.com

 

[Keroin]

BTW I will give you for FREE what he wants $5 to tell you: http://bankerdave.livejournal.com

*struggles to remain open minded*










*fails*

 

[Netzach]

Ahem, NOT that I might eke out my living in ANY way similar to this for ANY reason, and NOT that any of my sites might look anything at all this bad.

But whatever yeah, some people have stupid fetishes. I think blowjobs disguised as an act of "serrrrrrvice" is pretty retarded, but man it seems to fuel this entire community. Some people are married and desperate and have bought into the dream of American normalcy so much they can't get out of it alive and they need an outlet, and they have money. Some people pay money to get their pussy hair removed because their partner SAID SO - we're really in a position to call this stupid?

Some guys want to pay money to cock centered in a virtual altar of cheesiness. Some people want to do it with people dressed as mascots.

I know that people have no issues slapping up kink.com content here or whatever pay site, but there are people working. I've had some of my mp3s go to torrent, and it's one of those things I want to feel is free advertising, but really just makes me feel like shit. Banker dave may actually get some people who pay for his blog link or his "starbucks" which he uses on bills or cat vet visits, or all kinds of mundane shit that people need and he's not part of a pro porn network so fuck him in the ear, can't just live and let live.

If you hate that people pay for sexual material, I hate that people pay for food or intepreters or constuction or lawyers,ok? What, I can't take your shit from work and give it away for free and expect you to go "oh haha"?

One of the more successful ppl in my biz has a total web 2.0 blinky gif site. Why bother with design if it's working?

Sorry I know I've been gone a lot and I'm dropping a bitchfest, but I've been working pretty much 24/7 and coming back to this exact topic just kind of blows. At least he's not getting paid to kill people or spew oil into the water.

 

[Keroin]

Ahem, NOT that I might eke out my living in ANY way similar to this for ANY reason, and NOT that any of my sites might look anything at all this bad.

But whatever yeah, some people have stupid fetishes.

I think getting bossed around by a dude is pretty retarded, but 99.99999 percent of the board LIVES for that. Some guys want to pay money to cock centered in a virtual altar of cheesiness. Some people want to do it with people dressed as mascots.

One of the more successful ppl in my biz has a total web 2.0 blinky gif site. Why bother with design if it's working?

Cheesiness and bad website aside...

Considering the financial straights so many people in the US are in now, giving money to some guy to build his "temple" (?) seems...I don't know...the word eludes me. Want to be financially submissive? How about submitting to the well being of your fellow, (seriously needy), man?

But, yeah, it's their life. I won't lose sleep over it.

 

[Netzach]

Cheesiness and bad website aside...

Considering the financial straights so many people in the US are in now, giving money to some guy to build his "temple" (?) seems...I don't know...the word eludes me. Want to be financially submissive? How about submitting to the well being of your fellow, (seriously needy), man?

But, yeah, it's their life. I won't lose sleep over it.

Why not do that instead of add a deck?

You see my point, I'm sure. Anything is frivolous other than what you propose, unfortunately that's why the rest of us corporate peasants have food.

 

[Keroin]

Why not do that instead of add a deck?

You see my point, I'm sure. Anything is frivolous other than what you propose, unfortunately that's why the rest of us corporate peasants have food.

Nope, you're right, just my opinion.

It's like when I'm in these third world countries and I see all the poor people giving money to the church so the church can build this big fuck off monument to god, while everyone around them lives in squalor. Bugs me, that's all.

Just me.

 

[Netzach]

Nope, you're right, just my opinion.

It's like when I'm in these third world countries and I see all the poor people giving money to the church so the church can build this big fuck off monument to god, while everyone around them lives in squalor. Bugs me, that's all.

Just me.

I like to tell the more conservative ones that I'm donating their tributes to Moveon or MADRE, and yearly I do.

I just find it fascinating that if people blow money on casinos put it up their nose buy cars plane tickets houses, god, what have you - that's sane, but spending it on their idea of a killer orgasm makes it somehow irresponsible on the part of the provider for existing. Like internet sex work makes you a corner crack dealer or something.

 

[Keroin]

I like to tell the more conservative ones that I'm donating their tributes to Moveon or MADRE, and yearly I do.

I just find it fascinating that if people blow money on casinos put it up their nose buy cars plane tickets houses, god, what have you - that's sane, but spending it on their idea of a killer orgasm makes it somehow irresponsible on the part of the provider for existing. Like internet sex work makes you a corner crack dealer or something.

I think this dude just rubbed me the wrong way. Like TV evangelists do. Know what I mean?

I get that everyone has a kink and whatever makes you happy. Lots of things I spend money on that I'm sure other people think are a waste or nutty or what have you.

*shrugs*

ETA: Complete bias and judgment on my part...I will freely admit that.

 

[Netzach]

I think this dude just rubbed me the wrong way. Like TV evangelists do. Know what I mean?

I get that everyone has a kink and whatever makes you happy. Lots of things I spend money on that I'm sure other people think are a waste or nutty or what have you.

*shrugs*

Actually the first time I encountered the genre, especially with a lot of blackmail fantasy rhetoric, my head kind of exploded in WTFuckity FUCK?

Now it's just another day at the office, but it looks pretty deranged, I grant.

 

[Keroin]

Actually the first time I encountered the genre, especially with a lot of blackmail fantasy rhetoric, my head kind of exploded in WTFuckity FUCK?

Now it's just another day at the office, but it looks pretty deranged, I grant.

Mm hm. I mean there are a lot of weird kinks out there that make me scratch my head but for some reason this one just pushed a button.

Then again, I once thought ball gags were the height of deviant. LOL.

 

[OzoneRed]

Some time ago, someone asked if there was a drug that he or she could take that would leave them conscious, but completely limp and unable to resist anything their partner did to them. There have been a number of threads about being hypnotized during sex. I wonder if forced intoxication could be related to that: loss of control, and therefore not responsible for whatever happens.

...wherein lovely ladies get paid by guys who want to relinquish their power and feel they need booze to do it. At least, that's what this description of forced intoxication says. Apparently forced intoxication clients like to get drunk and then do stupid, humiliating things on cam for their mistresses...among other things.

I suppose that, in this circumstance, it's a loss-of-inhibitions thing for the guy. Pretty smart move for the phonesex dominatrix, though. A client who's drunk is liable to lose all sense of time, and rack up some serious phonesex bills.

 

[Netzach]

Some time ago, someone asked if there was a drug that he or she could take that would leave them conscious, but completely limp and unable to resist anything their partner did to them. There have been a number of threads about being hypnotized during sex. I wonder if forced intoxication could be related to that: loss of control, and therefore not responsible for whatever happens.

I suppose that, in this circumstance, it's a loss-of-inhibitions thing for the guy. Pretty smart move for the phonesex dominatrix, though. A client who's drunk is liable to lose all sense of time, and rack up some serious phonesex bills.

Most of the third party billing that almost everyone uses cuts off - it doesn't run indefinitely so that card can't possibly max out unless it was planned to from the beginning. It actually cuts down on chargebacks, the feeling of "maxing out" is preserved some I guess by the time running down.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I think Banker Dave is very funny, very satirical, and has created a perfect mirror of the Bitch Domme persona that so many guys seem to adore.

The Bitch Domme fetish squicks me intensely, and the idea that het men will headgosplody because this one is male not female-- cracks me up.

 

[Netzach]

I think Banker Dave is very funny, very satirical, and has created a perfect mirror of the Bitch Domme persona that so many guys seem to adore.

The Bitch Domme fetish squicks me intensely, and the idea that het men will headgosplody because this one is male not female-- cracks me up.

It's actually a pretty strong niche - butch masculine tops exploiting closeted "sissy fairy" bottoms, this is one of thousands, but with some pretty creative tweaks.

 

[Keroin]

I know that people have no issues slapping up kink.com content here or whatever pay site, but there are people working. I've had some of my mp3s go to torrent, and it's one of those things I want to feel is free advertising, but really just makes me feel like shit.

Sorry to hear you're in a bad mood, Netz. I'm with you when it comes to the above, BTW.

Small consolation but at least when your stuff gets ripped off you possibly get advertising out of it. Between piracy and producers conveniently forgetting to report, I figure we only make about 25% of the income we should off our work.

And, when you've beat the crap out of your body to produce that work and have that income, it really, really blows.