Fist time with rope play

[xxromanceguy]

Last night the lady and I had our first rope play session. I couldn't believe how well she responded!! Don't think I have ever seen her so turned on! She had recently r
ead the 50 shades trilogy, (in about 4 days), and relayed to me, in subtle ways, how it excited her. Well, I just had to do some shibari research, as a photographer this has long been an interest of mine as well as a closet fetish, learned some knots, and OMG! I Know she had been anticipating this for some time, as she come out of the shower dressed in lingerie, make up, looking sexy as Hell... We did a little sensual play kissing. And warming her up I slowly removed what little clothing she had on, making sure to tease her very well. I fastened her in a breast harness, and secured her ankles in a leapfrop position wither her hands bound and pulled between her spread thighs to allow access to her ass and pussy. After about another hour of teasing and keeping her on the edge of orgasm, I inserted a vibrating egg into her dripping pussy and made her hold it in there without Cumming.. seeing her writhe I'm agony and ecstacy had me worked up very well too... Anyways in the end the bed was soaked as well as my face from her squirting several times.. I even made her fuck herself with a didlo, something she has never done in front of me before!! Needless to say, I do think we have found a new fetish together.. only question I have now is how often should we do this? I don't want it to get old or boring and want to be able to keep it exciting... As it was a GREAT NIGHT!!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Nobody can tell you how often you should do this. You and she should talk it over between yourselves.

Some suggestions I've heard; one couple I know do this once a month ONLY. They tease each other with hints and whispers so that on the night they really explode.

Other couples reserve one night a week. or more. Or one of them will jump the other.

As far as getting ideas, there are hundreds of ideas out there-- plus you can repeat things quite a lot before they go stale. As the song says; "There's joy in repetition."

And congratulations!

 

[xxromanceguy]

I just don't want this occasional indulgent to get lame... Especially after last, her response was so explosive and passionate. I want to give her that more often... She even woke up this morning discussing the intensity of the session and is very eager to experiment more... And we never discuss sex in such detail! I have found a few ideas out there, even a few of the storylines on lit... You are right, there is a lot of info and ideas out there...can't wait till the next session!!!