I agree with the others your lovers sound very obnoxious. Usually I can tell when im going to squirt if they have a problem with squirting and maybe they can continue with fingers vs. orally, and move out of the way.
I guess I should consider myself lucky the men who have made me squirt usually beg for more and really enjoy it, the wetter the better. It sounds like you need to pick some better play partners they sound a bit selfish.
i love to be eating as they start to squirt its so wildly erotic!

) I have been asked over the years If Icould squirt. Well no I can't. At least I dont think I can. I have sprayed (very little) the inside of my legs before but squirting I cant.