Feelings

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

I have no clue what females mean when they whine about insufficient feelings from their men. I spent the afternoon reading female thinking on the subject.

It seems to me there are 3 possibilities: She wants him to slug her. She wants to be enchanted by him. Or she wants him to cry, pout, and share her panic attacks. I've yet to meet the female who wants whats behind door #3.

 

[Debbie]

WTH were you reading to come up with those conclusions?

 

[bronzeage]

I have no clue what females mean when they whine about insufficient feelings from their men. I spent the afternoon reading female thinking on the subject.

It seems to me there are 3 possibilities: She wants him to slug her. She wants to be enchanted by him. Or she wants him to cry, pout, and share her panic attacks. I've yet to meet the female who wants whats behind door #3.

Damn, you are dumb.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Note that neither respondent offered a hint to help me out. I suspect they don't know any more than I do.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Note that neither respondent offered a hint to help me out. I suspect they don't know any more than I do.

You really must be from Mars.

 

[Debbie]

Wife: I lost my temper at the children today and I feel terrible.

Husband: uh huh.

Wife: Did you hear what I said?

Husband: uh huh (nod to ensure acknowledgement.)

Wife: Is that all you are going to say?

Husband: I don't know what you want me to say.

Wife: Something would be nice. (Folds arms)

Husband: Tell me what you want me to say and I'll say it.

Wife: (Gives him the look and storms off)


Optimal, mirroring technique.

Wife: I lost my temper at the children today and I feel terrible.

Husband: I'm sorry to hear that you lost your temper at the children and feel terrible. What can I do to make you feel better?

Wife: I feel better already. Let's have an early night and I'll show you my appreciation, big boy.

(Wife and husband retire to the marital bed and make whoopie.)

 

[ksmybuttons]

Optimal, mirroring technique.

I think you have to have feelings to understand them. Technique won't do the trick when it's from an empty shell.

You have to care first.

 

[LadyVer]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYQhRCs9IHM

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

You really must be from Mars.

On Mars a truck load of caring and $1.50 will get you a small coffee.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Wife: I lost my temper at the children today and I feel terrible.

Husband: uh huh.

Wife: Did you hear what I said?

Husband: uh huh (nod to ensure acknowledgement.)

Wife: Is that all you are going to say?

Husband: I don't know what you want me to say.

Wife: Something would be nice. (Folds arms)

Husband: Tell me what you want me to say and I'll say it.

Wife: (Gives him the look and storms off)


Optimal, mirroring technique.

Wife: I lost my temper at the children today and I feel terrible.

Husband: I'm sorry to hear that you lost your temper at the children and feel terrible. What can I do to make you feel better?

Wife: I feel better already. Let's have an early night and I'll show you my appreciation, big boy.

(Wife and husband retire to the marital bed and make whoopie.)

We practiced this back in grad school!

The teaching team (male and female) went around the room, and each student responded to the statement (I BEAT THE KIDS ASSES, AND I FEEL TERRIBLE) with a caring reply. I was like last in line, and all the really kool replies had been used, so I said, SO WHAT! The female perfesser went apeshit, the male perfesser said, WHATS THE PROBLEM, LAVERNE?

 

[subdued_passion]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYQhRCs9IHM

You live in Saudi Arabia?

Because everywhere else women can vote (as far as I know).

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

You live in Saudi Arabia?

Because everywhere else women can vote (as far as I know).

LV lives in a fog.

 

[LadyVer]

LV lives in a fog.

"It seems to me there are 3 possibilities: She wants him to slug her. She wants to be enchanted by him. Or she wants him to cry, pout, and share her panic attacks. I've yet to meet the female who wants whats behind door #3."

I'm still waiting for you to show your sense of humor, instead of your silliness about women.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

"It seems to me there are 3 possibilities: She wants him to slug her. She wants to be enchanted by him. Or she wants him to cry, pout, and share her panic attacks. I've yet to meet the female who wants whats behind door #3."

I'm still waiting for you to show your sense of humor, instead of your silliness about women.

Its OK with me if you wait forever as I feel no impulse to please you.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

 

[Aphro]

Feeeeeeelings, oh whoa, whoa feeeeelings, oh woah woah feeeeelings of looooove.....

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

How true.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

How true.

On what planet?

 

[kbate]

We practiced this back in grad school!

The teaching team (male and female) went around the room, and each student responded to the statement (I BEAT THE KIDS ASSES, AND I FEEL TERRIBLE) with a caring reply. I was like last in line, and all the really kool replies had been used, so I said, SO WHAT! The female perfesser went apeshit, the male perfesser said, WHATS THE PROBLEM, LAVERNE?

Whew, I was afraid you wouldn't have a personal anecdote to fit this topic. The world is safe after all.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Whew, I was afraid you wouldn't have a personal anecdote to fit this topic. The world is safe after all.

My anecdotes are endless. Use your IGGY button and they'll go away.

 

[subdued_passion]

Whew, I was afraid you wouldn't have a personal anecdote to fit this topic. The world is safe after all.

Let me assure you that would NEVER occur. It doesn't matter what you talk about, what the problem or the situation... JBJ will go back in time and custom fit the anecdote to suit whatever scenario you can come up with.

That is just one of the reasons why he gets to have a fan club.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

On what planet?

Planet Miley, of course.

I've never met a woman who didn't discount, complain, whine, accuse, and gossip when speaking with anyone. It accounts for my confusion; I mean, how would any female recognize feelings?

 

[Wat_Tyler]

Planet Miley, of course.

I've never met a woman who didn't discount, complain, whine, accuse, and gossip when speaking with anyone. It accounts for my confusion; I mean, how would any female recognize feelings?

I find my life to be more about what I do as opposed to having much to do with what I think or feel.


Then there are those who emote all over everything.


I know, let's talk it to death!!!

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

I find my life to be more about what I do as opposed to having much to do with what I think or feel.


Then there are those who emote all over everything.


I know, let's talk it to death!!!

Me too. All the caring in the world doesn't equal one simple act. And I don't hafta like people to do the right thing.

The girlz wanna jawbone shit to death, and do nuthin.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

Me too. All the caring in the world doesn't equal one simple act. And I don't hafta like people to do the right thing.

The girlz wanna jawbone shit to death, and do nuthin.

Do you love me?

Do I act like someone who loves you?

Yes, but you never say anything!

What do I do?

You're good to me.

And?

But you never say anything.

Ever had someone tell you they loved you and then that shat all over you?

Yes.

They lied to you.

But . . . .

I know. Here's some truth. I'll fail you at some point. I'll say something and not live up to it. I'm human, and if you're scared, run away now.