Feeling horrible for being submissive!

[Erosfan]

Sub shame is a horrible thing. Sub men are conditioned to believe that men are naturally dominant and that they're not real men. Sub women are told they're reinforcing old sexist ideas and that they're hurting women in general. At a certain point you just have to stop caring about what other people think and just do what makes you happy.

Shame is a waste of time. I am a male that is very much in control in my professional life. My sub tendencies are a means of escape and a way to let my lover experience desires she might not otherwise ever know. It is a loving, gentle femdom relationship. I get to let go in a way and she gets to take charge and set her inner self free. We both enjoy this immensely.