Feedback, Thoughts, Impressions

[PacificBlue]

My date last Saturday night hasn't called in a week now. How normal is that? If he was truly interested, he would have called by now. Yes? No? Maybe?

In my opinion, it was a really good date. I remember the look of surprise in his face after he kissed me because I trembled. He kissed me more, he paced around me as if trying to make a decision and then put me in my car and sent me home. At the time I thought it was sweet...looking back now I'm wondering if he had other intentions that night and conscious got the best of him?!?!? I don't know...this is just weird.

 

[islandman]

Very weird. I'd fuck your AV six ways from Sunday if I could.


But i'm horny like that.

 

[IrishWolfhound]

I swear...I lost your phone number.

And my intentions were purely dishonorable.


Seriously...why do people play this gane? If you had a good time, call him up and say so. If he didn't, hopefully he will tell you so and then you can move on and stop wondering. In the mean time he's sitting there wondering if he should call you, but being worried that he will come across as some pathetic loser.

 

[ExLimey]

You: He hasn't called me in a week, that's far too long.


Him: Should I call her? It's only been a week, that's far too soon.


Call him, there's no rule against that you know!

I'm a fine one to talk, I'm home most nights alone. I'd probably go out more if it wasn't some unwritten rule that the guy has to make the first move.

 

[curious2c]

I can't imagine being with such a beautiful, intelligent and nice lady as you and no calling back in...oh say one or two hours. Days? either he has been seriously injured and can't call you or well, he's just (forgive me for this one please) STUPID. I don't think I would have packed yo off either. Probably talked to you all night long until the dawn swept over us. That is just me of course, and I didn't go out with you (my wife would have a slight problem with that i think.)

If it helps at all;
I'll keep the down and out of this one

 

[PacificBlue]

I feel self-conscious and rejected at the moment.

Is it normal 'dating procedure' to put someone off this long after coming on so incredibly strong???

 

[ma_guy]

He got a goodnight kiss on the 1st date and hasn't called back after a week? Have to called the local hospitals to see if maybe he got hit by a bus?

Listen to IWH. Make a call. What's the worst that can happen?

 

[PacificBlue]

I swear...I lost your phone number.

And my intentions were purely dishonorable.


Seriously...why do people play this gane? If you had a good time, call him up and say so. If he didn't, hopefully he will tell you so and then you can move on and stop wondering. In the mean time he's sitting there wondering if he should call you, but being worried that he will come across as some pathetic loser.

I tried to call him, no response. I saw him in passing this week...I did tell him I had a good time, he responded in kind. Nothing else has been said.

 

[FallenSeraph]

He probably wanted to take you home and screw you silly...but you'd probably think he was sick or something like that. To why he hasn't called? I dunno, maybe he's afraid he can't get past the front door without ripping your clothes off (just a thought) If you're really desperate (or curious, whatever works), just call the guy damnmit!

 

[metalpalace]

i agree with irish wolf....

 

[ExLimey]

I've actually gone 4 months between first and second dates. In my defense it was a long-distance thing and we talked all the time because of work.

 

[Guest]

 

[Debbie]

Face it Pacific..you're a fucking loser in life.

The guy has fucking ditched your ass before a relationship even had a chance to spark.

You're a failure and you've put this guy off...he's probably dicking some gorgeous little ho just now

I'm sorry you appear to be lost.
The asshole class is over there.
<--------------- try not to get lost.

PB is he shy?

 

[truegentleman]

I don't know why he hasn't called.

I would have never let you go once I had my arms around you.

If he doesn't call back, maybe it was not meant to be. One day you will meet that one special man who, when he looks into your eyes your heart just skips a beat. The one whose kisses can cause chills to run down your spine. The man who will take pleasure in the simple act of holding your hand as you walk along the beach. The one man who you deserve to have in your life.

 

[curious2c]

pacificblue

I am sure that it is not you. He may have some reason, perhaps he is suddenly shy because he has feelings about you he doesn't want to deal with.
I can't imagine not calling you back or at least giving you a reason.
You may be better off without him in the long run.
this isn't much, but if I were single and looking, I would be very, veryhappy to have such a nice and lovely lady to date. i would probably even fall in love with you after oh, two or three minutes too. Honestly.

 

[Lancecastor]

I feel self-conscious and rejected at the moment.

Is it normal 'dating procedure' to put someone off this long after coming on so incredibly strong???

Newsflash:

A goodnite kiss or two does not equal "coming on incredibly strong" !


If he hasn't called in a week it probably means it's time for us to see your rejection threads again....ooops, I see you've already started.

I propose you have 1 thread we can subscribe to that charts your biorythmns and dating dilemnae in one central location.



Lance

 

[islandman]

Newsflash:

A goodnite kiss or two does not equal "coming on incredibly strong" !


If he hasn't called in a week it probably means it's time for us to see your rejection threads again....ooops, I see you've already started.

I propose you have 1 thread we can subscribe to that charts your biorythmns and dating dilemnae in one central location.



Lance

I like idiots. They are to be pitied.

 

[Problem Child]

It's a giant conspiracy to make PB feel bad. Probably CIA or Mossad. Nobody else could orchestrate such a mammoth undertaking.

Seriously, this is getting fucking old. I could set my watch by it every week.

 

[Guest]

It's a giant conspiracy to make PB feel bad. Probably CIA or Mossad. Nobody else could orchestrate such a mammoth undertaking.

Seriously, this is getting fucking old. I could set my watch by it every week.

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So, PC, what time do you have?

 

[Problem Child]

________


So, PC, what time do you have?

Half past woe is fucking me.

 

[Guest]

Half past woe is fucking me.

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Woe puts out, eh? Post some pictures.

 

[ksmybuttons]

Here is an unbiased "dating" thread.


http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=2882565#post2882565

 

[PacificBlue]

There was no 'woe is me' or pitty expected here. Just some insight from people who have dated a little more than I have. I did not post everything that happened that night or in the conversations before that night, nor will I.

Thank you to those who tried to help. I appreciate it.

 

[Lancecastor]

You're welcome, PB...remember, a kiss or two does not mean you are going steady.

But if there's anal sex in his Honda...he might call.

There was no 'woe is me' or pitty expected here. Just some insight from people who have dated a little more than I have. I did not post everything that happened that night or in the conversations before that night, nor will I.

Thank you to those who tried to help. I appreciate it.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

You know you could simply call him , there is nothing wrong in calling a man...

Good luck.