Fantasy - crazy or not

[dashd]

I have the fantasy of being locked in a chastity device and released only when I’m bound to the bed and used just for pleasure by my wife and any of her friends (male of female). To be brought to the brink but not allowed to cum perhaps for at least a month. To see my wife taken by other men while I’m forced to watch, especially while she straddles my face. To be expected to lick up the mess that’s created. My wife says I’m crazy. What do you say?

 

[catalina_francisco]

It isn't totally crazy, though takes a particular type of person/s to make it work. Sounds more like the problem you have is your wife doesn't see the value in your fantasy and isn't interested in playing part in it.

Catalina

 

[trojan_man_co]

id have to agree completely with cat. your fantasies are your own, but thats just it... they are YOUR fantasies. this doesn’t mean your wife wants to have other guys, it doesn’t mean she wants to bring others into your bed... it doesn’t mean she even wants to tie you up and put a chastity belt on you... some fantasies are nice but don’t have to be lived out. if your wife agrees and wants to great. but don’t force her to do something that is strictly for you and could be so damaging to a relationship. the fact that you even asked her might have given her doubt about the stability of your relationship.

 

[FurryFury]

I have the fantasy of being locked in a chastity device and released only when I’m bound to the bed and used just for pleasure by my wife and any of her friends (male of female). To be brought to the brink but not allowed to cum perhaps for at least a month. To see my wife taken by other men while I’m forced to watch, especially while she straddles my face. To be expected to lick up the mess that’s created. My wife says I’m crazy. What do you say?

A fantasy of any sort in itself is not crazy IMO. What you do or do not do about it is what matters when it comes to it being crazy or "wrong."

Taking into account what the love of your life, your partner and your wife feels is extremely important if you want your marriage to endure. It is sometimes too easy to forget why you feel in love with this person or wanted to spend your life with them.

If you decide you need to follow your sexual dreams more than you can do in your marriage that is another thing entirely. I would exercise every attempt to communicate and reach some sort of compromise before doing so, but that is just my way.

Finding all that you look or wish for is usually impossible for most of us. Yet no one can take from us our fantasies because our minds are our own.

Fury

 

[Etoile]

You're not crazy - many people have fantasies exactly like yours. Furthermore, having a fantasy doesn't make you crazy. People fantasize about all kinds of wacky stuff, but that doesn't mean they'd do them in real life. Now, it happens that your fantasy is VERY easy to make happen in real life. So I'd say that on the scale of crazy fantasies, yours is not even all that crazy, and is actually pretty darn realistic.

 

[Netzach]

Not crazy, but kind of a logistical nightmare. If you could pare it down to a single theme the wife may find it a little more tantalizing and then you can add more.

 

[ghosst_K&H]

I believe it's called cuckolding, and very common.

 

[subwannabe]

Does your wife mean she thinks you're crazy and doesn't understand why you would want to do that but may possibly be willing if that is really what you want

or

does your wife mean she thinks you are crazy and wants no part of it?


Big difference.

If your wife wants no part of it then the majority of it will remain a fantasy. Maybe she could meet you halfway though. Maybe you could have a chastity device and have it be part of your sex life, without any extra partners. Getting her comfortable with this could even later lead to getting closer to your total fantasy.