Facials demeaning?

[interfacial]

I do find facials to be kind of demeaning, at least while it's being done. I understand how erotic I can look after one, but the actual act itself is just distasteful to me. If you're fucking me, cum in me. If you're getting oral from me, cum in me if I like the taste. If I don't like the taste, I enjoy getting sprayed, but keep it below the neck. Lick it off for extra points hehe.

I know it's weird that I find it demeaning for the face and not the body, but it has a lot to do with how I identify myself. My perspective comes from my brain and eyes, really, and it's kind of like cumming on my face is cumming on who I am. It's one of those crazy things that's all feeling and no logic. Plus, I don't like when it gets in my eyes, and I want to see it happening.

 

[Lurnk]

First off, I would say it's probably the porn, which makes it so appealing to you.

As far as facials being demeaning, I would say no, I don't mind the juice. In and of itself what's the big deal?

However, I know of quite a few men who find semen to be dirty stuff and for them a girl who takes it on the face or swallows or even plays with it is 'nasty.' As a result, I sometimes wonder how far this mindset stretches and, needless to say, I must feel a good amount of trust in the guy before I do it.



Lurnk.

 

[rosco rathbone]

The meaning of demeaning

If she feels demeaned by it, then it's demeaning.

Here is a possible example of a demeaning situation:

"...Lisa, the hot young stripper, really needed this job at the Naked Ladies Lounge in order to pay off her Amex bill that month. Greazy, sleazy Mr. Goldstein, the fat club owner leered over his desk at her in the office.

"I'll give you stage time on Saturday night, but you have to blow me, cookie".

Lisa responded with outrage. "No way!" She uncrossed her legs, pulled down the tight fitting minidress that was her interview wear and got up in a huff. Goldtein held out one hand to stop her.

"Alright, alright. Tell ya what. Just get down on your knees and let me shoot it all over your face and I'll give you every Saturday and Friday night, prime time. Deal?"

Lisa's first reaction was to tell him to fuck himself but she paused. If this payment was late, they'd cut off her credit. No more shoes, no more pedicures...Goldstein smirked. The wily old impressario was a master negotiator and knew he'd hooked his fish.

"Allll right" said Lisa, sulkily. "Let's just get this over with quick, OK"?

Panting with lust, the slimy businessman ordered her to her knees....

 

[WestVaCouple]

Demeaning

Demeaning - Yes!

 

[MelnMe]

Hello all,

I don't think Mel finds it demeaning although she doesn't let me do it that often (mainly for practical reasons & to keep it 'special.').

What I have tried to get across to her, however, and I really mean this, is that I consider it the ultimate symbol of my desire for her. Doesn't anyone else feel this?

When she's on her knees in front of me, semi-naked with thick, red lipstick on, the most graphic and overt way of expressing my complete lust for her is, in my opinion, by spunking all over her beautiful face (I think I need to speak to her more about this. Tonight. ).

It's certainly not meant to be degrading; it's done almost reverentially, and when she smiles up at me afterwards, my heart melts.

I think 'icing ('frosting' in US?) a cake' is a really apt analogy.

 

[Emes]

I personally dont find it demeaning at all...does that make me weird???

 

[Kinky-Princess]

Thus you should be honored with some prize or recognition. I insist!

lol. Thanks,but I am sure I am not the only girl out there who requests it.

 

[pace_purr]

Just bad timing

Paula has a a few cum facials due more to either not being able to swallow the full load, or pulling away ready to continue on with something else and the guy has not been able to control himself, she never considered it demeaning just bad timing.

 

[alain88]

Sort of related, but do you ladies mind a man shooting his load on yours tits. I readily admit I am obsessed with big tits and when I'm lucky enough to find a well endowed partner I always want to cum on her tits. It seems like since they are so desirable it's very erotic to blow my load on them.

 

[evesdream]

If she feels demeaned by it, then it's demeaning.

Here is a possible example of a demeaning situation:

"...Lisa, the hot young stripper, really needed this job at the Naked Ladies Lounge in order to pay off her Amex bill that month. Greazy, sleazy Mr. Goldstein, the fat club owner leered over his desk at her in the office.

"I'll give you stage time on Saturday night, but you have to blow me, cookie".

Lisa responded with outrage. "No way!" She uncrossed her legs, pulled down the tight fitting minidress that was her interview wear and got up in a huff. Goldtein held out one hand to stop her.

"Alright, alright. Tell ya what. Just get down on your knees and let me shoot it all over your face and I'll give you every Saturday and Friday night, prime time. Deal?"

Lisa's first reaction was to tell him to fuck himself but she paused. If this payment was late, they'd cut off her credit. No more shoes, no more pedicures...Goldstein smirked. The wily old impressario was a master negotiator and knew he'd hooked his fish.

"Allll right" said Lisa, sulkily. "Let's just get this over with quick, OK"?

Panting with lust, the slimy businessman ordered her to her knees....

It's not bad for the complexion either, at least that's what I've heard.

 

[stageleft]

facial

my new g/f is extremly pretty & i often compliment her beautiful looks.
during her "monthlys" she gently began to lightly stroke her face with my erection as i complimented her pretty looks.
out of the blue she smiled with gratitude & asked if id like to finish on her face.
she was overwhelmed with my ecstatic reaction & made giving her a loving facial the most wonderful experience on earth !

 

[arenth8]

I agree with TBKahuna123
"The most erotic scenes to me are of a woman, continuing to orally please her lover as his cum runs from her mouth and down her chin. Again, personal preference, but to me it's the attitude, the desire to please her lover. Just cum on the cheek does nothing for me."
I had never asked my wife if she would like it and never done it to her. One day though she gave me a blow job, which is VERY rare for her, anyway I wanted to cum in her mouth but she refused. Instead, when I was ready to cum, she pulled me out of her mouth, grabbed the base of my cock and rubbed the head all over her face as I came. I have to say it was one of the most intense orgasms I had ever had.
I just wish I could get her to do it more often.

 

[SpankyMcCranky]

Mmmm... I love it. As for whether or not it's "demeaning", I guess. That's probably a big part of why I love it. It makes me feel special. It's very intimate. It shows him how much I like it. And I get to taste it too... Mmmm...

 

[Musing]

My Sir does enjoy cumming on my face. He particularly likes to pull out, throw me down, straddle me, and cum all over my face, neck and hair. For my part I love the thrill of being towered over while he does this, of looking up at him and waiting for his cum. I always open my mouth when he does this and then lick up as much as I can, often he will scoop some from my face to my mouth and the act of sucking it from his fingers while he smiles is also a turn on. I also clean his cock after any kind of play except anal, taking it into my mouth to lap up the last drops of cum and leave him clean and well serviced.

I have never found any part of my service demeaning because I know how much he loves me and the aftercare he affords me is wonderfully tender. I think that's the most important thing for a lot of women - that whatever you do with her or to her, you do it with love and take the time to remind her how special she is afterward. No matter how hard my Sir may push me, I always know how he feels, often he will tell me how much he loves me - while doing things that many women would find demeaning. For myself, I love serving him and his pleasure and happiness bring me as much joy as any attention he pays me in return.

Oh... wish he was here