Exposed myself

[Submissiveslut_whore]

So, I'm currently talking to this girl, like we flirt on and off. I once kinda made a joke more like a statement "do you wanna control me, yes please." And she kinda caught onto it, the question she asked me right after this was if "I liked leash."
And since then, she's kinda being bossy with me, like she wanna always show who's in control. And it turns me on so much, but we're still not up for something moreee. Idk what to do

 

[subdudeme13]

So, I'm currently talking to this girl, like we flirt on and off. I once kinda made a joke more like a statement "do you wanna control me, yes please." And she kinda caught onto it, the question she asked me right after this was if "I liked leash."
And since then, she's kinda being bossy with me, like she wanna always show who's in control. And it turns me on so much, but we're still not up for something moreee. Idk what to do

Talk about it and lay out what you want and what she wants. Then go for it.

 

[SirSparky]

I agree, talk about how it makes you feel, what you want to try. Communication is the key. Discuss what works or doesn't. Any suggestions to make it better

 

[subdudeme13]

I agree, talk about how it makes you feel, what you want to try. Communication is the key. Discuss what works or doesn't. Any suggestions to make it better

A domme I used to visit interviewed me during our first meeting. She wanted to know my likes and dislikes. She asked about dressing up and being a sissy and I said it wasn't my thing. I ended up dressed up in heels and nylons and bent over a horse and loving it! I miss her so much!

 

[SirSparky]

Yes, there are both soft and hard limits. Soft limits I like to push my sub on doing. I like the little fight she gives but then succumbs to my will and she finds that she actually loved it. Hard limits I never push on as that's a big no no

 

[spawnofdavey]

@Submissiveslut_whore as the others have said, communication is the key. Talk to each other, find out what you both are looking for, what you like, what you definitely don't like and see if there is a common theme between your interests.