Exciting?? How????

[CuriouslilQT]

When my boyfriend came down last time..we ad a real good time together. He spent most of his time pleasing me. Even though I did give him something to moan about supposly it was not enough. Last time I talked to him he went ahead and told me that he felt like it was a one way street and I didnt do my part!
NOW he is coming back for spring break and honestly I am kinda nervous abotu what I could this time to make it EXCITING!
We both havent had sex yet...and this might be it...
but anything else...I am kinda on the freaky side so I am willing to try anything...

HELP!

LILQT

 

[Cutie Lillie]

One easy way....

which I think can be both fun 'and' exciting....

Make a special time.. make it fun.. not serious.. could even be part of foreplay...

But make a special time to sit together and share all your likes, dislikes, hopes, dreams, desires, fantasies, etc etc etc

No one can read the mind, or even body, of another person.. and to me, the best part of sex is the 'sharing' of each 'other'.. not a body thing at all.. but a heart, soul and mind thing..

Make it fun and be sure to share YOUR likes, dislikes, dreams, fantasies, etc...

Cause there is one phrase implied that is right.. it IS a 'two-way street'. You never know..this might bring you two closer together. You certainly will get to know each other better!!!

Once you know him, you'll have more to give him.. and vice versa.

 

[funwdi]

I agree with Cutie...talk really can turn you on. Plus, you'll find out what makes his clock tick without alarming him...
I think he might like a little more attention to his cock. I dunno, but it seems like he wasn't too thrilled last time. Did you give him a blow job? If he did some great oral sex for you, maybe that's what he means by two way street. But go with Cutie's suggestion first, because you can find out WHAT he means.
Good luck, be safe and have fun!

 

[MissTaken]

You could get on line and share some porn to spice up your talk.

Reading stories from lit can be fun too.

Sexy lingerie....but not harshly sexy, could be nice.

Write him a sexy poem or letter before he gets home.

as far as having sex, that should be staged and special for you both. Something romantic, a dinner with candlelight and knowing looks....let the sexual tension build, then adore one another.

IF you re ready

 

[CuriouslilQT]

Thanks for the advice..
I do like the idea of staging everything before having sex/makin love
Also..I did go down on him but not for a long time. Any
suggestions on that???

 

[Georgia Girl]

Consider the things you have in your mind regarding making love with him. Use those things/ideas and make love to his cock. Use your fingers, lips, tongue, teeth, nails, skin, mouth -- all of you to show him how much he means to you.

Like a good piece of music oral sex does not have to follow a set pattern - it is ever changing - it can be fast then slow, change the pressure randomly, cover you teeth on the down stroke, then uncover them as you slowly glide up.

There are so many things you can do if your preference is to remain a virgin. You do not have to have intercourse to make love, you don't even have to touch - you can make love over miles with words using the sound of your voice, in person with the look in your eyes or a delicate touch.

Stop being nervous, find a space in your world that is comfortable and allows you to be free of the inhibitions life places on you and explore in your mind.

Or just keep asking us questions.

Dawn

 

[JilloryIsMoist]

Fist that motherfucker until you can grab the back of his eyeballs, then squeeze them. Twice.