Ever gotten in trouble for asking why?

[curiousslave94]

How many subs have gotten in trouble for asking your Master or Mistress why after they tell you something to do?
What was the situation.........

Mine was when your Master asks to hear your feelings after an argument, don't say why and then don't answer his questions.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Man yeah. When you're asked to communicate, and you don't-- that's scary to whoever is in charge of the relationship.

If it's because you panic when asked to bare your soul-- because of past trauma or something, please please try to explain that to your dom! And hopefully said Dom is capable of understanding what you're saying.

What happened when you got into trouble? How did he sort it out? Do you think it worked for you?

 

[curiousslave94]

Man yeah. When you're asked to communicate, and you don't-- that's scary to whoever is in charge of the relationship.

If it's because you panic when asked to bare your soul-- because of past trauma or something, please please try to explain that to your dom! And hopefully said Dom is capable of understanding what you're saying.

What happened when you got into trouble? How did he sort it out? Do you think it worked for you?

After a while just gave in and told him which was not fun cause then he analyzed it bit by bit, and asked more questions. Lets see did a lot to build up to that argument, but the final stray was when I said "why" he was annoyed that I called everything he did boring and was being a little brat about everything. But it did work out in the end i dont know how but in some weird way it did.

 

[Stella_Omega]

But it did work out in the end i dont know how but in some weird way it did.

Well, because what you told him helped him understand how to handle you better.

Like when the doctor asks you lots of questions so he can give you the right pill for why you're sick.

 

[curiousslave94]

Well, because what you told him helped him understand how to handle you better.

Like when the doctor asks you lots of questions so he can give you the right pill for why you're sick.

I know its annoying but you have to do it.

 

[Beck31]

trouble...why

Yes. That has happened a time or two. Learned my lesson.

 

[Rainbow_dash]

I lost everything when my grandma who raised me died. i didn't go to the funeral because my family hates me( well i was at the cemetery but in the back) I went to the grave after. i collapsed from the trauma of it all for 3 days. My master informed me i was THROUGH for EXTREME disobedience. i was thrown out, he repossessed my apartment and cut my allowance out.

With HALF my income gone I could no longer afford my REGULAR apartment. my play apt had all my gear and fetish stuff.


So NOW I live on a couch at a friends and have NOTHING.


i struggle to rebuild.

 

[curiousslave94]

I lost everything when my grandma who raised me died. i didn't go to the funeral because my family hates me( well i was at the cemetery but in the back) I went to the grave after. i collapsed from the trauma of it all for 3 days. My master informed me i was THROUGH for EXTREME disobedience. i was thrown out, he repossessed my apartment and cut my allowance out.

With HALF my income gone I could no longer afford my REGULAR apartment. my play apt had all my gear and fetish stuff.


So NOW I live on a couch at a friends and have NOTHING.


i struggle to rebuild.

Wow that sucks

 

[Stella_Omega]

I lost everything when my grandma who raised me died. i didn't go to the funeral because my family hates me( well i was at the cemetery but in the back) I went to the grave after. i collapsed from the trauma of it all for 3 days. My master informed me i was THROUGH for EXTREME disobedience. i was thrown out, he repossessed my apartment and cut my allowance out.

With HALF my income gone I could no longer afford my REGULAR apartment. my play apt had all my gear and fetish stuff.


So NOW I live on a couch at a friends and have NOTHING.


i struggle to rebuild.

Your ex master is a psychopath who claps for Tinkerbell. Don't get involved with anyone who believes in fairyland ever again, please. Your needs can be met in more sustainable ways.