Even More Random Thoughts

[SassySheDevil]

If you aren't willing to give her attention. Someone else will. You can't be upset when that happens. She wanted it from you.

 

[Crankbait88]

Sometimes you eat the bear, sometimes the bear eats you.

 

[LucianaGrace]

If a man is a white knight, isn’t it inherent in his makeup that he wouldn’t identify himself as a white knight?

But of more importance…


Oh, hell no! I don’t need a white knight, thanks. Mostly because I actually don’t need one because I don’t need saving (life’s not too bad), but also the fact that I can save myself.

Thank you, but I’m okay.
*sings her own superwoman theme song*

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

I am definitely open to explanations, because I honestly don’t understand nor is it the first time I’ve heard it. Why is kindness and gentleness in demeanour not sexually attractive or just generally attractive in a woman? Or is it just a cop-out excuse?

Most I know are looking for something extra. Genuine femininity is not enough for some anymore. I’ve learned to just accept that being worthy is open to different interpretations. This is why it’s important to accept yourself as a woman for who you are. Take yourself out on dates, even if it is a picnic in your living room by yourself. Make strides to take pride in yourself.

 

[Mattentive]

I am definitely open to explanations, because I honestly don’t understand nor is it the first time I’ve heard it. Why is kindness and gentleness in demeanour not sexually attractive or just generally attractive in a woman? Or is it just a cop-out excuse?

That's the peak of attractiveness for me. It's more likely going to make me want to cuddle her brains out than the other thing, but in daily life a sweet girl would be great to be around, and the sex can work itself out when trust establishes itself, and she gets more confident.

 

[Dirt_in_the_Ground]

Randomly thinking of the verb jack, and how significantly its meaning changes depending on what adverb you stick behind it. Such thoughts make life a little more entertaining when I have a hard shaft in my hand and I’m jacking off my truck. Hmm . . . what other verbs can I play with?

 

[Orchidea73]

Fencing is not giving me the satisfaction.

 

[SassySheDevil]

This is about those cat and dog pics you just showed me, isn’t it?

Haha totally.

 

[Dirt_in_the_Ground]

Fencing is not giving me the satisfaction.

Well, I can only imagine that trying to sell stolen diamonds on the black market must have its drawbacks. But you hang in there!

Oh, wait . . . sorry, I forgot about the Olympics.

 

[Dirt_in_the_Ground]

Randomly thinking about people who, since I was a child, seemed to live in fear that some malicious force was intent on invading their homes and doing them harm, even though they lived well off the beaten path where no such thing ever happened. It wasn’t uncommon in my childhood to walk into a relative’s home and see a shotgun leaning against a wall next to the front door. One of my grandfathers kept a loaded revolver next to his bed when I was running around unsupervised as a 10-year-old, and at around the same age I’d ride around with my other grandfather with his rifle laying across my lap, so it would be handy in case he wanted to shoot a deer or threaten a trespasser. Now the older generations of men have passed from my family, and the greatest persistent foreboding seems to be that I will snap someday and do something really crazy, like forget to wipe my shoes before I walk into the house, or say “damn” in front of children. If I said “fuck,” it would unleash the hounds of Hell. I have never understood such timidity of spirit.

 

[Orchidea73]

I have never understood such timidity of spirit.

Me and you both, Dirty.

 

[LikeableMe]

Randomly thinking about people who, since I was a child, seemed to live in fear that some malicious force was intent on invading their homes and doing them harm, even though they lived well off the beaten path where no such thing ever happened. It wasn’t uncommon in my childhood to walk into a relative’s home and see a shotgun leaning against a wall next to the front door. One of my grandfathers kept a loaded revolver next to his bed when I was running around unsupervised as a 10-year-old, and at around the same age I’d ride around with my other grandfather with his rifle laying across my lap, so it would be handy in case he wanted to shoot a deer or threaten a trespasser. Now the older generations of men have passed from my family, and the greatest persistent foreboding seems to be that I will snap someday and do something really crazy, like forget to wipe my shoes before I walk into the house, or say “damn” in front of children. If I said “fuck,” it would unleash the hounds of Hell. I have never understood such timidity of spirit.

I’m worried about a gun being next to the front door - if anyone broke in, they would be provided with a weapon

 

[SassySheDevil]

Some day I'm going to hug the awkward right out of that poor kid.

 

[Dirt_in_the_Ground]

I’m worried about a gun being next to the front door - if anyone broke in, they would be provided with a weapon

I understand your concern, but the point is that no one was ever going to walk randomly down these old country roads with a thought of commiting a crime. Just too much effort involved.

 

[LikeableMe]

I understand your concern, but the point is that no one was ever going to walk randomly down these old country roads with a thought of commiting a crime. Just too much effort involved.

Oh, I understood that! Just that part jumped out at me!

I’ve been binge watching a documentary series about historic murder cases being reopened and analysed under the standards and with the tools available today. Some cases are being deemed as unsafe convictions and families getting justice for their ancestors. Apparently I’m looking at everything with a legal mind at the moment - my sister accused me of that yesterday

 

[Orchidea73]

Oh, I understood that! Just that part jumped out at me!

I’ve been binge watching a documentary series about historic murder cases being reopened and analysed under the standards and with the tools available today. Some cases are being deemed as unsafe convictions and families getting justice for their ancestors. Apparently I’m looking at everything with a legal mind at the moment - my sister accused me of that yesterday

There was this series of cold case murders on Crime Investigation channel, and I used to binge watch it. I'm a sucker for cold cases. They are so difficult to solve and kuddos to those who work on them.
Anyway, I had to quit because I started to have nightmares. lol

 

[LikeableMe]

There was this series of cold case murders on Crime Investigation channel, and I used to binge watch it. I'm a sucker for cold cases. They are so difficult to solve and kuddos to those who work on them.
Anyway, I had to quit because I started to have nightmares. lol

Were they unsolved cases in the show you mentioned? I might see if I can find those online and take a look! If they start giving me nightmares, I will quit watching them too! I’ve studied both law and psychology so these kind of documentaries fascinate me. It’s really interesting seeing the length the barristers are going to, in order to support their clients. I’m discovering whole occupations I didn’t realise existed - such as nursing historians, who contribute to books, articles and even movies and tv shows.

 

[Orchidea73]

Were they unsolved cases in the show you mentioned? I might see if I can find those online and take a look! If they start giving me nightmares, I will quit watching them too! I’ve studied both law and psychology so these kind of documentaries fascinate me. It’s really interesting seeing the length the barristers are going to, in order to support their clients. I’m discovering whole occupations I didn’t realise existed - such as nursing historians, who contribute to books, articles and even movies and tv shows.

There were cold cases, murders from 20, 30 or so years ago. Each episode had one of these cases with the detectives trying to solve it. Many of them still were not solved but they would give their hypothesis of who done it. In many cases the people involved were dead already. It's not that the show had heavy images or anything. But I have this thing that when I read or watch too much stuff on a particular subject (any subject) I would start dreaming about it. In this case it was murders, so I started dreaming about murders.

The same thing happened when there was a period I was reading to many books about the holocaust. You can imagine the nightmares there, as the description in the books left nothing to imagination, and rightly so. Then I read the biographies of Stalin, Lenin and Trotsky, and I started dreaming Stalin. Not a good dream, I can tell you that. lol So now, I don't focus too much on one particular subject. I have learned to alternate them. For every heavy subject I read, I start reading something very light and for pure entertainment after.

 

[TongueLust]

The rummage never stops.

 

[Crankbait88]

If you don't want me looking at them, stop advertising them, cover up.

 

[keeperofsecrets69]

A 50lb rooster is a LOT of cock.

 

[LikeableMe]

There were cold cases, murders from 20, 30 or so years ago. Each episode had one of these cases with the detectives trying to solve it. Many of them still were not solved but they would give their hypothesis of who done it. In many cases the people involved were dead already. It's not that the show had heavy images or anything. But I have this thing that when I read or watch too much stuff on a particular subject (any subject) I would start dreaming about it. In this case it was murders, so I started dreaming about murders.

The same thing happened when there was a period I was reading to many books about the holocaust. You can imagine the nightmares there, as the description in the books left nothing to imagination, and rightly so. Then I read the biographies of Stalin, Lenin and Trotsky, and I started dreaming Stalin. Not a good dream, I can tell you that. lol So now, I don't focus too much on one particular subject. I have learned to alternate them. For every heavy subject I read, I start reading something very light and for pure entertainment after.

I have to agree with you that overloading yourself on one topic can cause it to creep into the subconscious! I’m prone to dreams and nightmares, so I get that, too. I might look up the show you mentioned though - it sounds interesting and seeing the thought processes behind the conclusions can be amazing sometimes! Dreaming of the Holocaust must have really impacted your sleep!

 

[barefootgirl69]

So now, I don't focus too much on one particular subject. I have learned to alternate them. For every heavy subject I read, I start reading something very light and for pure entertainment after.

This is exactly what I do. I noticed the harder subjects make me feel down, rightly so. These things are deep and dark and shouldn't be forgotten. However, I need to feed my mind happy things, too. I somehow think the writers of the other books would want us to remember that there is still joy to be had in the world, if we look for it.

 

[Orchidea73]

I have to agree with you that overloading yourself on one topic can cause it to creep into the subconscious! I’m prone to dreams and nightmares, so I get that, too. I might look up the show you mentioned though - it sounds interesting and seeing the thought processes behind the conclusions can be amazing sometimes! Dreaming of the Holocaust must have really impacted your sleep!

Yeah, that one was particularly tough. I had exaggerated a bit and read 5 books in a row on the same subject.

This is exactly what I do. I noticed the harder subjects make me feel down, rightly so. These things are deep and dark and shouldn't be forgotten. However, I need to feed my mind happy things, too. I somehow think the writers of the other books would want us to remember that there is still joy to be had in the world, if we look for it.

I couldn't have said it better myself. There is indeed joy to be found, and I have tried to apply that during this whole period as well. Balance is a good thing.

 

[Crankbait88]

The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.