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Situational awareness part II
We all know people that say they cannot meet people. Sometimes its just not being prepared to meet, other times its a matter of view. noticing people around you, taking interest in others within your visual zone. its funny when you tell them wow, that person was smiling/looking/interested in you, and the response is who?? i know its not always as simple as that, but something to think about...or you notice, engage, then fall on your face lol - Thats where the preparation could have been helpful...

What about Sensualation awareness? Where you find yourself in situations where a moment can go to fantasy in a heartbeat. Eyes meet, quick smile, little hello, a brief moment where your mind goes to interest, arousal, (as a guy that could be tricky) just a visceral moment, hoping the other is vibing the same way. Normal things, ordering drinks, a white knight moment in a store, a cab ride, bumping accidently at an elevator, spontaneous meetings...

The sad thing is that people who can think that way are just called Pervs or Dirty minded, like its a bad thing to feel... i like to feel...
 
The sad thing is that people who can think that way are just called Pervs or Dirty minded, like its a bad thing to feel... i like to feel...

I think it's normal to feel things*. Sometimes, it's the acting on it that gets crazy. If you act on it and it's well received, even in passing, that smile will remain on your face a long while. If it's not well received, if the other person is not feeling it, that can lead to "that perv!" moment.


* depending on what and who you're crossing paths with. Know what I mean? We can't say these words on Lit.
 
I think it's normal to feel things*. Sometimes, it's the acting on it that gets crazy. If you act on it and it's well received, even in passing, that smile will remain on your face a long while. If it's not well received, if the other person is not feeling it, that can lead to "that perv!" moment.


* depending on what and who you're crossing paths with. Know what I mean? We can't say these words on Lit.
No crossing paths, everything including fantasy still needs to be done with decorum. You can’t have a lovely moment if it’s imposed, always needs to be consensual for it to be lovely…The premise is that an innocent moment can be sensualized, and not everyone appreciates that thought process…
 
A day and numbers, reactions from the beauty that can be seen, fantasies blooming, wishes made, wishes granted, chills to thrills, moment to moment, seeking the quiet…there is beauty in contemplation…
 
I just took a shower and I'm thinking about how great it is that we no longer have to pull a Laura Ingalls Wilder and have a whole family share a dirty bathtub.
 
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