Samuari
Twice Blessed
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Excerpt from Penthouse Letters, August, 1997 (by Carmen Ficarra):
Quick, what's the most common scenario we come across
in the letters we get from our readers? I ask people this
question all the time, and they usually say, "A man in bed
with two women." On one memorable occasion at a
restaurant in Washington, D.C., I'd barely gotten the question
out of my mouth when a man across the table blurted out,
"Sleeping with your mother!" As you might imagine, something
on the order of a stunned silence followed as the guy blushed
red as a hothouse tomato and the rest of us looked down at
our napkins and plates, the dust on the tips of our shoes - anything
to keep from making eye contact with him. Finally, I broke
the silence by revealing the truth:
The most common letter we get is from husbands, describing
how much they love watching their wives have sex with
other men. We know right away we've received one of these
letters too, because for all the hot-tub humping, steamy bar
scenes and backseat blowjobs they involve, they all seem to
start out with those three little words . . .
"My beautiful wife . . ."
Apparently a common enough fantancy, some of us have been lucky enough to have wives that are willing to indulge us. (That might the subject for a thread, but its likely been done, and there would be fifteen addys posted so that we newbys could catch up.)
This was indeed the fantasy of a friend of mine, who after much wheedling was able to convince his wife that she should go have some fun. When she came home and told him about it (part of the agreement) jealousy reared its ugly head. His job takes him out of town for extended periods, but when he is here he sticks to her like a shadow. Problem is that once she had tasted the forbidden fruit, she really liked it. She came to me in tears, wanting me to reason with her husband. When I was unable to get any where she said that she would wait until he was out of town, “After all, what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him, will it?” I told that if she played it would not be with me, nor would I have anything to do with deceiving my friend. As long as he had a problem, so did I. (Subject for thread 2, was I right?)
Now for my dilemma. After I thought some more, I realized that I was being hypocritical. My feeling about cyber fucking, sexual role-play, etc. has always been “Its just fantasy isn’t it? So what my wife’s nose isn’t rubbed in she doesn’t smell.” I’m not lying to her, she knows that I spend a lot of time on this site, but I haven’t told her the whole truth, either. A lie of omission is still a lie, and I am not going to continue to do it. I’m afraid that if I come out and catalogue my activities, that she will be hurt, even tough they are rather mild, by comparison. But if I don’t I will give up all sorts of fun stuff we do here, and I really don’t want to do that either. Is there any way for me to continue to play ethically, and not take the chance on hurting my dear longsuffering wife?
Quick, what's the most common scenario we come across
in the letters we get from our readers? I ask people this
question all the time, and they usually say, "A man in bed
with two women." On one memorable occasion at a
restaurant in Washington, D.C., I'd barely gotten the question
out of my mouth when a man across the table blurted out,
"Sleeping with your mother!" As you might imagine, something
on the order of a stunned silence followed as the guy blushed
red as a hothouse tomato and the rest of us looked down at
our napkins and plates, the dust on the tips of our shoes - anything
to keep from making eye contact with him. Finally, I broke
the silence by revealing the truth:
The most common letter we get is from husbands, describing
how much they love watching their wives have sex with
other men. We know right away we've received one of these
letters too, because for all the hot-tub humping, steamy bar
scenes and backseat blowjobs they involve, they all seem to
start out with those three little words . . .
"My beautiful wife . . ."
Apparently a common enough fantancy, some of us have been lucky enough to have wives that are willing to indulge us. (That might the subject for a thread, but its likely been done, and there would be fifteen addys posted so that we newbys could catch up.)
This was indeed the fantasy of a friend of mine, who after much wheedling was able to convince his wife that she should go have some fun. When she came home and told him about it (part of the agreement) jealousy reared its ugly head. His job takes him out of town for extended periods, but when he is here he sticks to her like a shadow. Problem is that once she had tasted the forbidden fruit, she really liked it. She came to me in tears, wanting me to reason with her husband. When I was unable to get any where she said that she would wait until he was out of town, “After all, what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him, will it?” I told that if she played it would not be with me, nor would I have anything to do with deceiving my friend. As long as he had a problem, so did I. (Subject for thread 2, was I right?)
Now for my dilemma. After I thought some more, I realized that I was being hypocritical. My feeling about cyber fucking, sexual role-play, etc. has always been “Its just fantasy isn’t it? So what my wife’s nose isn’t rubbed in she doesn’t smell.” I’m not lying to her, she knows that I spend a lot of time on this site, but I haven’t told her the whole truth, either. A lie of omission is still a lie, and I am not going to continue to do it. I’m afraid that if I come out and catalogue my activities, that she will be hurt, even tough they are rather mild, by comparison. But if I don’t I will give up all sorts of fun stuff we do here, and I really don’t want to do that either. Is there any way for me to continue to play ethically, and not take the chance on hurting my dear longsuffering wife?
