Anyone else ever clam up?

[CuriousJInLA]

Tonight I was out with my wife and a friend. We were outside the bar having a cigarette when a sexy young woman came up and complained that she was out just trying to hook up. And that the guys in LA are pussies (they are ). Maybe it was a red flag that it seemed too easy but she was hot and I definitely wanted to pursue, and my wife loves women/FFM. But for some reason I couldn’t even broach the subject. I keep thinking I missed an opportunity. But in the back of my mind I’m also thinking that I did the right thing. She was drunk but no more than anyone else (for real I’m not a sleazy guy) and it wasn’t a nefarious situation if I were to pursue. Random late night thoughts about a missed opportunity

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Opportunity missed! We all have em.

 

[JackStayII]

Tonight I was out with my wife and a friend. We were outside the bar having a cigarette when a sexy young woman came up and complained that she was out just trying to hook up. And that the guys in LA are pussies (they are ). Maybe it was a red flag that it seemed too easy but she was hot and I definitely wanted to pursue, and my wife loves women/FFM. But for some reason I couldn’t even broach the subject. I keep thinking I missed an opportunity. But in the back of my mind I’m also thinking that I did the right thing. She was drunk but no more than anyone else (for real I’m not a sleazy guy) and it wasn’t a nefarious situation if I were to pursue. Random late night thoughts about a missed opportunity

Your subconscious mind might have picked up on something that kept you clammed up. One of those niggling little gut feelings type things.

 

[bumpinthenight2022]

You might be one of the guys she was talking about, lol

Or...

You subconsciously recognized some threat and chose to avoid it

What did the wife have to say about this?

 

[CuriousJInLA]

You might be one of the guys she was talking about, lol

Or...

You subconsciously recognized some threat and chose to avoid it

What did the wife have to say about this?

Ha fair point to your first comment but no one would confuse me for an LA guy (though I happily live here and most folks are great)

To the second point: Yeah likely. Or maybe not a threat but the immediate realization that, despite my many flaws and kinks, that’s not me.

Wife was dancing and making out with someone. Thought it funny