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Thank you prdigy!!!

That was great advice. And insight. You obviously "get it." I'm not being a door mat here. I'm trying to be a wife. Unfortunately, one with her own needs.

You're right. An intervention would be a mistake. But we've talked it and talked it. Or at least I have. He hears what I say, but doesn't respond. I thought time heals this. Eight years is a long time. I do want to be sure he is not suffering from other health issues though. Never forgive myself if this were all a symptom of something else more serious and I didn't do my part to keep him healthy.

Thank you, again, for your comments!
 
Yes, Harold Hill. Certainly does bring out the sickos. I wonder if those posting such cruel things realize there's an actual human being with feelings sitting here and reading them. Did they wake up this morning and say to themselves "let's find someone who is down and see if we can beat her further into the ground"? 😢

I think people who post cruel responses are doing so from their own pain. They are really sad if you think about it. Maybe we should pity them, but whatever is causing their pain, we can't fix it. Better to just ignore them and let them wallow in their own self-pity.
 
I think the detractors on this thread should at least give Sassy credit for trying to keep her marriage together, rather than just tossing it aside. She doesn't really sound like a bad person.
 
That saying "Time heals all wounds" is far far FAR from the truth... I'm pretty positive the major problem is his pride. He's ashamed and doesn't want anyone else to know.

The situation he's in is like being locked in a damned dark room with no way out. I won't lie, when I came back I had a little problem. Sometimes he worked, sometimes he wouldn't. My ex wife sat me down, talked to me and, luckily, it was a pretty easy fix. Is he still in the military? If he is, contact the Chaplain for some advice for yourself. If he isn't, find a military chaplain online and talk to them anyways...
 
War leaves a lot of tension that fucks with men... Like I said... A lot of us deal with it. It probably just snowballed on him and gave him a mental block. Like an all-star in a hitting slump. He might just need to put together a string of hits before knocking them out of the park regularly...
 
War leaves a lot of tension that fucks with men... Like I said... A lot of us deal with it. It probably just snowballed on him and gave him a mental block. Like an all-star in a hitting slump. He might just need to put together a string of hits before knocking them out of the park regularly...

Hey, soldier. I said my little piece on here. But I see you're the man Sassy needs to hear from and I'm glad she's got that today. Respect.
 
That saying "Time heals all wounds" is far far FAR from the truth... I'm pretty positive the major problem is his pride. He's ashamed and doesn't want anyone else to know.

The situation he's in is like being locked in a damned dark room with no way out. I won't lie, when I came back I had a little problem. Sometimes he worked, sometimes he wouldn't. My ex wife sat me down, talked to me and, luckily, it was a pretty easy fix. Is he still in the military? If he is, contact the Chaplain for some advice for yourself. If he isn't, find a military chaplain online and talk to them anyways...

You have no idea whats going on, you assume the OP is honest but you never heard her husbands side of things. I think youre a fool.
 
You have no idea whats going on, you assume the OP is honest but you never heard her husbands side of things. I think youre a fool.

Thanks for you two cents... I don't remember fucking asking for it, but thanks none the less you dickless jackass.
 
Thanks for you two cents... I don't remember fucking asking for it, but thanks none the less you dickless jackass.

Maybe, but dickless or not you don't know shit about whats really going on.
 
lmao. He throws the N bomb anyway, you :kiss:

Yeah... Takes a real man to throw nigger around from behind a computer screen when a real nigger would beat his ass and make him his bitch. Does this place just attract cocksuckers or...?

(Just waiting for the... "Well it brought you here") I might need to start making phone calls tonight.
 
Johnson? What makes YOU think YOU know what is going on over anyone else? Your postings go immediately for the cruelest, cynical and hateful reply.

You don't know shit. You don't me. You don't know my wonderful husband. You don't know our income levels. You don't know what his -- or my -- deployment was like and I'm betting you never served.

Yet you and your buddies think I'm a money grubbing cheat whose husband withholds sex as punishment or is getting it from someone else because I'm a dried up hag.

I'd call you a dick, but if you had one you'd probaly be less of an unhappy person. So asshole will have to do.

If you want to attack ... Attack me. Leave my husband and his service out of it.
 
Johnson? What makes YOU think YOU know what is going on over anyone else? Your postings go immediately for the cruelest, cynical and hateful reply.

You don't know shit. You don't knowbme. You don't know my wonderful husband. You don't know our income levels. You don't know what his -- or my -- deployment was like and I'm betting you never served.

Yet you and your buddies think I'm a money grubbing cheat whose husband withholds sex as punishment or is getting it from someone else because I'm a dried up hag.

I'd call you a dick, but if you had one you'd probaly be less of an unhappy person. So asshole will have to do.

If you want to attack ... Attack me. Leave my husband and his service out of it.
 
Well I see I posted twice by accident and I can't figure out how to delete it. Who cares. Some things worth saying ... Are worth saying twice.
 
Yeah... Takes a real man to throw nigger around from behind a computer screen when a real nigger would beat his ass and make him his bitch. Does this place just attract cocksuckers or...?

(Just waiting for the... "Well it brought you here") I might need to start making phone calls tonight.

I know this is an adult forum but some fuckers shouldn't be allowed to roam here.
 
I'm grossed out by this thread for all the wrong reasons. I'm going to go take a shower.
 
Johnson? What makes YOU think YOU know what is going on over anyone else? Your postings go immediately for the cruelest, cynical and hateful reply.

You don't know shit. You don't knowbme. You don't know my wonderful husband. You don't know our income levels. You don't know what his -- or my -- deployment was like and I'm betting you never served.

Yet you and your buddies think I'm a money grubbing cheat whose husband withholds sex as punishment or is getting it from someone else because I'm a dried up hag.

I'd call you a dick, but if you had one you'd probaly be less of an unhappy person. So asshole will have to do.

If you want to attack ... Attack me. Leave my husband and his service out of it.

And I say the same about all who buy your blabbering...they know no more than I do, so my view is as plausible as their's. Honoring bullshit is for fools. Didja read where all the Usual Suspects bought the bullshit rape story published in ROLLINGSTONE? The feminists and libs went wild, now ROLLINGSTONE disavowed the story, it never happened. The reporter made it up.
 
Johnson? What makes YOU think YOU know what is going on over anyone else? Your postings go immediately for the cruelest, cynical and hateful reply.

You don't know shit. You don't knowbme. You don't know my wonderful husband. You don't know our income levels. You don't know what his -- or my -- deployment was like and I'm betting you never served.

Yet you and your buddies think I'm a money grubbing cheat whose husband withholds sex as punishment or is getting it from someone else because I'm a dried up hag.

I'd call you a dick, but if you had one you'd probaly be less of an unhappy person. So asshole will have to do.

If you want to attack ... Attack me. Leave my husband and his service out of it.

It's not my place to say, but it is better to ignore him. He wants people to attack him, it's the only way people like him can feel alive. If everyone ignores him, he will go to another thread. He does it for attention. Unfortunately, there are adults who never got past their childhood. If you notice, he is acting like an unwanted child.
 
It's not my place to say, but it is better to ignore him. He wants people to attack him, it's the only way people like him can feel alive. If everyone ignores him, he will go to another thread. He does it for attention. Unfortunately, there are adults who never got past their childhood. If you notice, he is acting like an unwanted child.

You promised THAT would be our secret, like your tutu is.
 
It's not my place to say, but it is better to ignore him. He wants people to attack him, it's the only way people like him can feel alive. If everyone ignores him, he will go to another thread. He does it for attention. Unfortunately, there are adults who never got past their childhood. If you notice, he is acting like an unwanted child.

I got him... No worries
 
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