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[SassyButShy]

We lived together five years before getting married. We got married before he deployed. He did two years. Sorry you don't like the math.

I married him at city hall before he deployed vs waiting until he got back so we could have a fancy wedding because I wanted to prove my point I'd be by his side no matter what. He had been in several combat zones as a lone rider and survived that he was superstitious tgat now he had someone to come home to -- something terrible would happen and he wouldn't come back in one piece.

I said I'd love him no matter what. And I married him four days before he left. Well I thought he had come home in one piece, but apparently it was the inside that might have been broken. I've gained a great deal of insight from so many of the men who've posted here and generously shared their own issues.

Bottom line ... I said in sickness and in health. I'm going to try to get the right help, but I'm hanging in there.

Thank you.

 

[desertslave]

I didn't read the whole thing (but I remembered posting LOL) but there might be some helpful info here for PTSD, etc.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=929713&highlight=veteran

 

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War zone

We lived together five years before getting married. We got married before he deployed. He did two years. Sorry you don't like the math.

I married him at city hall before he deployed vs waiting until he got back so we could have a fancy wedding because I wanted to prove my point I'd be by his side no matter what. He had been in several combat zones as a lone rider and survived that he was superstitious tgat now he had someone to come home to -- something terrible would happen and he wouldn't come back in one piece.

I said I'd love him no matter what. And I married him four days before he left. Well I thought he had come home in one piece, but apparently it was the inside that might have been broken. I've gained a great deal of insight from so many of the men who've posted here and generously shared their own issues.

Bottom line ... I said in sickness and in health. I'm going to try to get the right help, but I'm hanging in there.

Thank you.

Sassy , I have never served , reading your posts and replies , a few things strike me ...... You seem like a wonderful lady and I would love to have u watching my back in troubled times . You opened yourself , baring your soul to your man , asking him to join u in the bedroom . You figuratively had your face slapped for your troubles. A man who truly loves his woman would never do that , honestly. That he won't consider other means to satisfy your needs is to me selfish in the extreme .
You need outside help or he needs a wake up call so extreme that he does the nessesary to save his marriage . Only u know what that is but u can't carry on like this . Best of luck in a bad situation Sassy