Dominatrix

[HottieMama]

You'll be replacing the "yes Ma'am' title if you do, just saying

Why is it that you can shut me the hell up with just one sentence...???? (Not fair....Not Fair....NOT FAIR!!!!) Once again, no witty response damnit....

 

[Noira]

I've been needing F/f lately, personally. With me as the small f.

Woo.

Yeah, when I bitch about M/f, it's really because I want to see some F/f too. And where are the ?/f pairings?

I really wasn't going to post here because I'm not too keen on the Real Manly Men Aren't Ever Submissive theme and before I could make a nice reasonable post about some of the wonderful and manly men I've met who are submissive, well, it degenerated into drama llamas.

And frankly, I really just want some F/f right now. D: I wouldn't say no to an f who could switch to F and then back again.

I spent quite a bit of time in the kitchen barefoot, but when I do, that kitchen is my fucking bitch. If someone really wants to understand dommes and male subs, it is exactly the same as doms and female subs—individual to the needs and requirements of the couple in the relationship.

That's the BDSM board, hard to believe, not the maledom weak girl fetish cock-as-God forum, though you'd usually never know it any more.

Heh, I'm keeping that. Perhaps having it as a disclaimer in my signature will prevent me from breaking out into hetronormative Manly Male Dominant rants every other post.

 

[bad_dave]

Slurs are offensive. Period. Everyone has the right to be offended, not just the people it's aimed at, not just the people it might apply to.

I'd try to explain why if I thought anyone would listen.

We'll have to agree to disagree on that point.

 

[Stella_Omega]

We'll have to agree to disagree on that point.

I have always marveled at this. How someone can say, with perfect sincerity, that a woman should not be offended on overhearing her entire sex be insulted, by way of insulting a man by comparing him to women.

I mean, for instance. I know you really don't get it, probably half the human population doesn't get it.

 

[masterdrakin]

Ok I for one am bi and well a switch. I have no problem submitting to a female as for sub to a male not my thing. As I have no issue with males or females submitting to me. As for the terms yea every one sees them differently. PANSY either male or female the sexual orientation has no say so just means there weak or a wimp and unable to fight there own battles. Yes males calendar each other thay all the time some take offence and others do so jokingly and they know it. CRYBABY well someone that whines and complains about things they don't like or agree with. And never try to say or do anything about it but moan to others that will listen hoping someone will pick up there fight for them. As for the humiliation thing its hard to explain some like it while others don't. As for the VBM hey if its not your thing to sub then don't worry about it if you don't have a slight desire to do it or try you will probably never be able to understand it.

 

[teknight]

I have always marveled at this. How someone can say, with perfect sincerity, that a woman should not be offended on overhearing her entire sex be insulted, by way of insulting a man by comparing him to women.

I mean, for instance. I know you really don't get it, probably half the human population doesn't get it.

Let me guess....that half of the population...would be the women, right?

*runs and hides*

 

[Stella_Omega]

Let me guess....that half of the population...would be the women, right?

*runs and hides*

*chases you with a rolling pin*

No, more like the Tea party half-- men and women alike. I'm starting to think that the human race has developed two kinds of brains.

 

[teknight]

*chases you with a rolling pin*

No, more like the Tea party half-- men and women alike. I'm starting to think that the human race has developed two kinds of brains.

Nah. It's just easier to see ignorance and hypocrisy what with the cost of communication having gone down the way it has.
Women having brains...cute!
*really runs and hides*

 

[Stella_Omega]

fuck you, I haven't had enough coffee yet...

 

[teknight]

fuck you, I haven't had enough coffee yet...

<threadjack>
Are you asking me for cream for your coffee?
Kinkeh!
</threadjack>

 

[Stella_Omega]

<threadjack>
Are you asking me for cream for your coffee?
Kinkeh!
</threadjack>

I have unresolved issues with straight men, remember? (meaning I don't care if they love me or not) Cream your own coffee, buddy.

 

[teknight]

I have unresolved issues with straight men, remember? (meaning I don't care if they love me or not) Cream your own coffee, buddy.

Your text says "No," but you still need coffee!
Hee!

Also, I can't. I have no coffee!!

 

[bhndblueyes88]

*chases you with a rolling pin*

No, more like the Tea party half-- men and women alike. I'm starting to think that the human race has developed two kinds of brains.

eeeee he he eh ehe he. best mental image of the ENTIRE DAY...

and we've always had two kinds of brains. present and absent


F/f is one of those things I really just don't want to try. I hope those of you yearning for some find some, though ^_^ for your pleasure:

*MASSIVE SCRIBBLE*

nvm My typed-drawing of angry boobs didn't work....stupid formating *kicks*

 

[teknight]

eeeee he he eh ehe he. best mental image of the ENTIRE DAY...

and we've always had two kinds of brains. present and absent


F/f is one of those things I really just don't want to try. I hope those of you yearning for some find some, though ^_^ for your pleasure:

*MASSIVE SCRIBBLE*

nvm My typed-drawing of angry boobs didn't work....stupid formating *kicks*

And wuz so funneh!? *glares in your general direction, while running like a bat out of hell from Stella*

 

[Stella_Omega]

And wuz so funneh!? *glares in your general direction, while running like a bat out of hell from Stella*

yeah, that's easy right now, I'm weak as a widdle kitten.

Wait till my thyroid levels ramp back up. Then your bat will never make it out of hell!

 

[teknight]

yeah, that's easy right now, I'm weak as a widdle kitten.

Wait till my thyroid levels ramp back up. Then your bat will never make it out of hell!

L'enfer, c'est Stella.

Jean Paul Sartre, by way of teknight

 

[bad_dave]

I have always marveled at this. How someone can say, with perfect sincerity, that a woman should not be offended on overhearing her entire sex be insulted, by way of insulting a man by comparing him to women.

I mean, for instance. I know you really don't get it, probably half the human population doesn't get it.

I think you take things people say far to literally.

I understand that if someone is insulting person a, they are probably only intending to insult person a, not the whole of a specific gender. Maybe I'm just a bit more laid back then you.

 

[Mz_Cunningham]

I think you take things people say far to literally.

I understand that if someone is insulting person a, they are probably only intending to insult person a, not the whole of a specific gender. Maybe I'm just a bit more laid back then you.

Just because they only intend to insult one person, doesn't mean they only insult that person.

And insulting a man with the insult, "the worst thing I can think of is comparing you to a female", how is that not an insult to all of us?

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

Certain words will spark a lynching like cunt, nigger and the like because they are very charged words and very inflammatory. Even though I am very sensitive names are just words and people tend to overreact. I am tired of reading about different groups demanding apologies because they are offended by others speech. People need to unclench their sphincters and suck it up.

Now if you make fun of my hair or shoes it's on like Donkey Kong.

 

[HottieMama]

Certain words will spark a lynching like cunt, nigger and the like because they are very charged words and very inflammatory

This is all very situational. I personally am not offended by the word cunt in the least. At most I am indifferent towards it, and in certain situations I really like saying it/hearing it. My ex girlfriend, who is black, was not in any way offended by the word nigger. She was born and raised in Bermuda and that word does not have the same associations for her that it might for someone else. She considered it the "lowest common denominator" when used as an insult... Kinda like calling the overweight girl "fat," when you can't think of anything else to say.

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

This is all very situational. I personally am not offended by the word cunt in the least. At most I am indifferent towards it, and in certain situations I really like saying it/hearing it. My ex girlfriend, who is black, was not in any way offended by the word nigger. She was born and raised in Bermuda and that word does not have the same associations for her that it might for someone else. She considered it the "lowest common denominator" when used as an insult... Kinda like calling the overweight girl "fat," when you can't think of anything else to say.

Heh

Yeah I understand what you're saying. I just ignore name calling. I really think that some names and vulgarities are so over used that many people do not understand the meaning. My dad use to call my little nephews buggers till I reminded him of the reference which took him back and he stopped using it.

I scanned up through this link to see what sparked the conversation. I don't think most straight men really understand how hurtful some of their quaint little insults are to a gay or bi. They use the same insult to their straight friends but it has a different context. I'm not defending or condemning anybody here I'm just saying certain words are perceived differently by individuals and groups.

I try to avoid name calling to avoid misunderstanding or conflicts. I'm a lover not a fighter.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I think you take things people say far to literally.

I understand that if someone is insulting person a, they are probably only intending to insult person a, not the whole of a specific gender. Maybe I'm just a bit more laid back then you.

You have a different brain. A lot of people do.

 

[Little_Oral_Amy]

You have a different brain. A lot of people do.

You are being generous. Most men have no brains and heterosexual men generally lack the ability to look outside the box. It don't make them bad we just have to accept their limitations and move on.

 

[HottieMama]

I think you take things people say far to literally.

I understand that if someone is insulting person a, they are probably only intending to insult person a, not the whole of a specific gender. Maybe I'm just a bit more laid back then you.

When someone says something like "What are you on your period or something?" (I'm not going back and looking it up verbatim...) I don't get insulted because I am a woman, I get upset because it is a stupid, worthless comment. There are a lot more intelligent ways to "insult" that do not involve the lowest common denominator.

 

[teknight]

I try to avoid name calling to avoid misunderstanding or conflicts. I'm a lover not a fighter.

You are being generous. Most men have no brains and heterosexual men generally lack the ability to look outside the box. It don't make them bad we just have to accept their limitations and move on.

Being the brainless het male that I am (sorry, mother nature), I find the two messages to contrast...