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Just curious. Are any members here into this kink?
Roxie Rae is lying on her pink bedspread, her bleached-blond hair draped on her black teddy, thigh-high stockings emerging from her leopard-print stilettos. She turns her backside to the camera and purrs, “Mmm, that looks like just the view to persuade you to vote Republican for daddy Trump. We both know you don’t know what it’s like to be an alpha. You’re just a beta, obeying, doing everything I say. Pretty soon you’ll be preaching and posting the Republican way all over your social media. The best part is, you’ll really believe in it.”
The video, posted by the 39-year-old Tampa resident under her stage name Roxie Rae, is one of dozens on **********, an adult-video-sharing website where content creators cater to all types of sexual fetishes, including one that is rarely discussed outside of niche kink circles: political humiliation. There are people who get turned on by the idea of having their political views mocked, usually (but not always) by members of the opposing political group. Liberals desire being dominated by conservatives and called pejoratives that imply they are weak and unintelligent, while conservatives want to be mocked for supporting former president Donald Trump, among other perceived transgressions, according to those who participate in this subculture.
The underground kink community is still largely marginalized, yet it thrives in unmarked “dungeons,” at private parties (and bedrooms and fantasies) and, of course, online. Technically, a fetish is an inanimate object (say, stiletto shoes), body part (feet, for example) or situation required for sexual arousal, though it’s frequently used interchangeably with the broader term kink, which includes pleasurable, if unorthodox, role-playing (bondage, interrogation scenes, wrestling reenactments, you name it). These fantasies are pure id — base desires that trade in exaggeration and archetypes — and like-minded participants might engage in them in person, or via video or direct messages.
With political sexual fetishes, Republicans and Democrats are reduced to caricatured sexual imagery: the macho posturing of Republican politicians is flattened into pure toxic masculinity; bleeding-heart liberal Democratic men become ineffectual doormats.
On FetLife, a social-networking site for people with fetishes, there are at least a dozen subcategories of the kink that users can tag in their profiles, such as “hot conservative girls who make liberals cry.” At least four political humiliation groups, including MAGA Doms/Dommes and Libtard Subs, are also active. Outside of FetLife, BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission and sadomasochism) sites cater to the taboo turn-on with names such as Triggered Liberal Snowflake. According to those who are active in the world of kink, an appetite for this type of political role-play grew during the Trump administration.
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Rae didn’t start out making political fetish videos. The dominatrix began working as a stripper at age 18, transitioning to online videos a few years later, specializing in foot fetish. Now she works full-time online, and says she earns six figures annually. About 90 percent of her work is producing other performers and 10 percent is making her own content. On X, formerly known as Twitter, where Rae advertises, she’s open about her conservative beliefs. She voted for Trump twice, although she currently supports Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis in the Republican primary.
Rae received her first request for a political humiliation video in March 2021, from a fan who DM’d her, writing: “One of the most difficult and humiliating sacrifices to make is to vote for a Republican candidate when you’re a Democrat. If I were to surrender control of my vote to you, that would be the ultimate sacrifice.” She charges about $150 for a five-minute custom video and then resells them for a dollar per minute in length.
“It is like the ultimate way to give up total control and to be humiliated, and if you’re a liberal and you go to another liberal for that, I don’t think you’re gonna get exactly what you want,” Rae said.
While political fetishes aren’t new, they seem to be spilling into the sexual fantasies of a polarized electorate with fresh vigor.
“When Trump came on the scene suddenly, the right had a backbone, was throwing punches … it was a really aggressive dominance … and I think that’s really what had been lacking before. Because you look back at Jeb Bush, he was kind of weak-kneed, milquetoast,” said a 33-year-old Virginia-based man who goes by RightMakesMites, his FetLife user name, and is the founder of the group MAGA Doms/Dommes and Libtard Subs.
The man, a bisexual Republican whose day job involves monitoring politics and liberal media for a radio host, spoke on the condition of anonymity because he’s concerned that his workplace would lose clients if they found out he’s into kink. Although the group has only 97 members, it is a part of the larger political community on FetLife, including the group Kinky Conservatives (2,271 members), where some members discuss dominating their “libtard slaves.” On MAGA Doms/Dommes and Libtard Subs, members post requests such as, “Looking for a MAGA Dom to ‘red pill’ me, and convince me to share my wife,” referring to the pill that reveals the world as it truly is in “The Matrix.” The phrase has become popular with conspiracy theorists.
RightMakesMites said he thinks interest in these fetishes reflects divisiveness among the parties. “Politics just suddenly got more intense,” he said. “The difference between Republican [and] Democrat was no longer the difference between Nixon and Kennedy. It’s now night and day in many people’s minds … then the kink follows as being more intense. And it’s only going to get more divisive from here, unfortunately, especially with the election year coming up.”
He said he came up with the idea for the group after he received messages from a handful of users all asking for the same thing: “I’m liberal, leftist and proud, but I really want to be dominated by a conservative.”
Nearly all of the group members merely want to text their fantasies to him, not act them out. One man who wanted to meet up (but changed his mind) described his fantasy as wearing a Trump dog collar (sold on Trump’s campaign website) and being walked by RightMakesMites around Walmart to pick out a dog bone.
One member, a 34-year-old man who lives in Peoria, Ariz., said he “was always drawn to submission [and] being dominated, being told what to do.”
The Democrat, who works in the auto-insurance industry, spoke on the condition of anonymity because he fears his family finding out about his fetish. He said he discovered political fetishes on a BDSM social media website a couple of years ago. “A lot of [the content] was liberals submitting to conservative Republicans or MAGA or being ‘red-pilled’ into supporting and worshiping Trump,” he said.
He got turned on, and it surprised him because “before the Trump era started, I never once thought about politics as being sexualized,” he said. “Domination from a political party and a[n] ideology that I can’t tolerate, made it … way more of a turn-on.” In particular, he liked the fantasy of a dominant man stealing his wife from him.
Although he has a number of fetishes, this is the one that he considers the most extreme. “I’m very, very, very much a liberal and if friends and family were to have any clue they would be shocked,” he said, adding that his wife doesn’t know about his fetish. “Of all of the porn that I partake [in], I would be the most ashamed and embarrassed if someone were to find this.”
In one dream scenario, Reps. Marjorie Taylor Greene and Lauren Boebert force him “to vote straight red Donald Trump.”
Justin Lehmiller, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, spent two years delving into the sexual fantasies of more than 4,000 Americans, resulting in the 2018 book “Tell Me What You Want.” According to Lehmiller, some Democratic and Republican respondents reported fantasies involving politicians, including those from across the aisle. “[Fantasies] tended to center around [male] politicians who kind of had these sexual reputations,” he said.
And so Republicans with Democratic fantasies lusted after the likes of John F. Kennedy and Bill Clinton. Democrats, on the other hand, pined for Sarah Palin.
Roxie Rae is lying on her pink bedspread, her bleached-blond hair draped on her black teddy, thigh-high stockings emerging from her leopard-print stilettos. She turns her backside to the camera and purrs, “Mmm, that looks like just the view to persuade you to vote Republican for daddy Trump. We both know you don’t know what it’s like to be an alpha. You’re just a beta, obeying, doing everything I say. Pretty soon you’ll be preaching and posting the Republican way all over your social media. The best part is, you’ll really believe in it.”
The video, posted by the 39-year-old Tampa resident under her stage name Roxie Rae, is one of dozens on **********, an adult-video-sharing website where content creators cater to all types of sexual fetishes, including one that is rarely discussed outside of niche kink circles: political humiliation. There are people who get turned on by the idea of having their political views mocked, usually (but not always) by members of the opposing political group. Liberals desire being dominated by conservatives and called pejoratives that imply they are weak and unintelligent, while conservatives want to be mocked for supporting former president Donald Trump, among other perceived transgressions, according to those who participate in this subculture.
The underground kink community is still largely marginalized, yet it thrives in unmarked “dungeons,” at private parties (and bedrooms and fantasies) and, of course, online. Technically, a fetish is an inanimate object (say, stiletto shoes), body part (feet, for example) or situation required for sexual arousal, though it’s frequently used interchangeably with the broader term kink, which includes pleasurable, if unorthodox, role-playing (bondage, interrogation scenes, wrestling reenactments, you name it). These fantasies are pure id — base desires that trade in exaggeration and archetypes — and like-minded participants might engage in them in person, or via video or direct messages.
With political sexual fetishes, Republicans and Democrats are reduced to caricatured sexual imagery: the macho posturing of Republican politicians is flattened into pure toxic masculinity; bleeding-heart liberal Democratic men become ineffectual doormats.
On FetLife, a social-networking site for people with fetishes, there are at least a dozen subcategories of the kink that users can tag in their profiles, such as “hot conservative girls who make liberals cry.” At least four political humiliation groups, including MAGA Doms/Dommes and Libtard Subs, are also active. Outside of FetLife, BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission and sadomasochism) sites cater to the taboo turn-on with names such as Triggered Liberal Snowflake. According to those who are active in the world of kink, an appetite for this type of political role-play grew during the Trump administration.
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Rae didn’t start out making political fetish videos. The dominatrix began working as a stripper at age 18, transitioning to online videos a few years later, specializing in foot fetish. Now she works full-time online, and says she earns six figures annually. About 90 percent of her work is producing other performers and 10 percent is making her own content. On X, formerly known as Twitter, where Rae advertises, she’s open about her conservative beliefs. She voted for Trump twice, although she currently supports Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis in the Republican primary.
Rae received her first request for a political humiliation video in March 2021, from a fan who DM’d her, writing: “One of the most difficult and humiliating sacrifices to make is to vote for a Republican candidate when you’re a Democrat. If I were to surrender control of my vote to you, that would be the ultimate sacrifice.” She charges about $150 for a five-minute custom video and then resells them for a dollar per minute in length.
“It is like the ultimate way to give up total control and to be humiliated, and if you’re a liberal and you go to another liberal for that, I don’t think you’re gonna get exactly what you want,” Rae said.
While political fetishes aren’t new, they seem to be spilling into the sexual fantasies of a polarized electorate with fresh vigor.
“When Trump came on the scene suddenly, the right had a backbone, was throwing punches … it was a really aggressive dominance … and I think that’s really what had been lacking before. Because you look back at Jeb Bush, he was kind of weak-kneed, milquetoast,” said a 33-year-old Virginia-based man who goes by RightMakesMites, his FetLife user name, and is the founder of the group MAGA Doms/Dommes and Libtard Subs.
The man, a bisexual Republican whose day job involves monitoring politics and liberal media for a radio host, spoke on the condition of anonymity because he’s concerned that his workplace would lose clients if they found out he’s into kink. Although the group has only 97 members, it is a part of the larger political community on FetLife, including the group Kinky Conservatives (2,271 members), where some members discuss dominating their “libtard slaves.” On MAGA Doms/Dommes and Libtard Subs, members post requests such as, “Looking for a MAGA Dom to ‘red pill’ me, and convince me to share my wife,” referring to the pill that reveals the world as it truly is in “The Matrix.” The phrase has become popular with conspiracy theorists.
RightMakesMites said he thinks interest in these fetishes reflects divisiveness among the parties. “Politics just suddenly got more intense,” he said. “The difference between Republican [and] Democrat was no longer the difference between Nixon and Kennedy. It’s now night and day in many people’s minds … then the kink follows as being more intense. And it’s only going to get more divisive from here, unfortunately, especially with the election year coming up.”
He said he came up with the idea for the group after he received messages from a handful of users all asking for the same thing: “I’m liberal, leftist and proud, but I really want to be dominated by a conservative.”
Nearly all of the group members merely want to text their fantasies to him, not act them out. One man who wanted to meet up (but changed his mind) described his fantasy as wearing a Trump dog collar (sold on Trump’s campaign website) and being walked by RightMakesMites around Walmart to pick out a dog bone.
One member, a 34-year-old man who lives in Peoria, Ariz., said he “was always drawn to submission [and] being dominated, being told what to do.”
The Democrat, who works in the auto-insurance industry, spoke on the condition of anonymity because he fears his family finding out about his fetish. He said he discovered political fetishes on a BDSM social media website a couple of years ago. “A lot of [the content] was liberals submitting to conservative Republicans or MAGA or being ‘red-pilled’ into supporting and worshiping Trump,” he said.
He got turned on, and it surprised him because “before the Trump era started, I never once thought about politics as being sexualized,” he said. “Domination from a political party and a[n] ideology that I can’t tolerate, made it … way more of a turn-on.” In particular, he liked the fantasy of a dominant man stealing his wife from him.
Although he has a number of fetishes, this is the one that he considers the most extreme. “I’m very, very, very much a liberal and if friends and family were to have any clue they would be shocked,” he said, adding that his wife doesn’t know about his fetish. “Of all of the porn that I partake [in], I would be the most ashamed and embarrassed if someone were to find this.”
In one dream scenario, Reps. Marjorie Taylor Greene and Lauren Boebert force him “to vote straight red Donald Trump.”
Justin Lehmiller, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, spent two years delving into the sexual fantasies of more than 4,000 Americans, resulting in the 2018 book “Tell Me What You Want.” According to Lehmiller, some Democratic and Republican respondents reported fantasies involving politicians, including those from across the aisle. “[Fantasies] tended to center around [male] politicians who kind of had these sexual reputations,” he said.
And so Republicans with Democratic fantasies lusted after the likes of John F. Kennedy and Bill Clinton. Democrats, on the other hand, pined for Sarah Palin.