Dominant nurses

MissKelli

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I am wondering if there if they are a lot of women who become more dominant because they were nurses. Do any of you have an ideas about that?
 
My answer...

I can only answer for me but the answer is no. I am very submissive. I think it will just depend on the person not the occupation.:rose:
 
They sure make confident tops, if they are inclined that way.

I've played with one woman who IS dominant in her relationship, and is an RN. She catheterised me, it was a great experience.
 
I'm not a nurse persay, 68W a combat medic and I love being dominant ^_^ not sure it's because of my MOS though ^_^ though it is nice to take out some of rank frustration on partner now and then ^_^ as a SPC I get crap from bunch of sources and it'd "Roger SGT or yes sir and yes MA'am " no buts, no excusses etc etc
 
Definitely met my share of Dominant RN's but also sub RN's. Common denominator - the profession DOES seem to draw out the kinky.
 
I'm only a former medical assistant but....I could be 'in charge' at work, handle situations confidently and competently, but I wouldn't say I was ever dominant. I'm submissive to my Sir, but I'm not submissive to the rest of the world.
 
Definitely met my share of Dominant RN's but also sub RN's. Common denominator - the profession DOES seem to draw out the kinky.

Truer words were never spoken. We are a fantastically kinky lot, I think it comes from having to be just a touch crazy to want to do what we do.:D
 
Truer words were never spoken. We are a fantastically kinky lot, I think it comes from having to be just a touch crazy to want to do what we do.:D

To do what we do, see what we see, and to be able to laugh about it! If all of that isn't enough, you're right....we actually WANT to do all of that! A touch crazy? Nah....I think it takes a lot more than just a touch of crazy. :cool:
 
Definitely met my share of Dominant RN's but also sub RN's. Common denominator - the profession DOES seem to draw out the kinky.

My mom's a nurse. Maybe there are things I just don't wanna know...

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I am wondering if there if they are a lot of women who become more dominant because they were nurses. Do any of you have an ideas about that?

But for a more serious answer.

I'm a bit of a believer in the whole 'hardwired' thing (though I'm sure many might disagree). Your dominance or submission is not determined by your job and is what it is, generally speaking.

But...I would think that being a nurse may make either type more assertive. You're dealing with potentially life&death situations or even just having to manage people under stressful situations. So will you get submissive nurses who know how to stand up for themselves? You bet...

Probably doesn't change what they like to do in the bedroom/at home though.
 
But for a more serious answer.

I'm a bit of a believer in the whole 'hardwired' thing (though I'm sure many might disagree). Your dominance or submission is not determined by your job and is what it is, generally speaking.

But...I would think that being a nurse may make either type more assertive. You're dealing with potentially life&death situations or even just having to manage people under stressful situations. So will you get submissive nurses who know how to stand up for themselves? You bet...

Probably doesn't change what they like to do in the bedroom/at home though.

I tend to agree with you. I think nurses fall into one of three categories and they all come down to the individual's personality. They are either submissive at home because it's a change from their work persona, they're aggressive both at work and in the bedroom, or they're submissive at home and at work. The last category, I would even go so far as to say they appear submissive at work, but they use it to get their way. I know there's a term for this in the bdsm world, but I can't think of it at the moment. I'm sure someone wil help me out. :)

I would also hazard a guess that the profession doesn't make the personality; the personality determines the profession. Nursing is hard mental and physical work; it is not for the faint of heart or stomach. I think most people who go into it for the Florence Nightingale aspect of "wanting to help others" either toughen up pretty fast, or they find a gentler branch of nursing - or leave the profession altogether. "Soft" people tend to burn out very quickly in nursing.
 
I am very take charge at work so I don't want to be at home.;)

This is it exactly...I have to dominate at work, it's the way I am as a nurse....but I am glad to then give it up...no stress
And nurses are fun...we've seen it all!
 
I have proposed many theories to myself about the role of nurse and my sexual personality, and if they are related. I am pretty sure I sway to the submissive side but I have failed to actualize it in my love life. I haven’t loved anyone enough yet to give up any real control. I am working on that.

I do know that I have some dominant traits, and could easily play the role but it doesn’t turn me on. If I sense that burden early: I run!

Truer words were never spoken. We are a fantastically kinky lot, I think it comes from having to be just a touch crazy to want to do what we do.:D
Just a little crazy.

To do what we do, see what we see, and to be able to laugh about it! If all of that isn't enough, you're right....we actually WANT to do all of that! A touch crazy? Nah....I think it takes a lot more than just a touch of crazy. :cool:
I crayzee laugh a lot.

I tend to agree with you. I think nurses fall into one of three categories and they all come down to the individual's personality. They are either submissive at home because it's a change from their work persona, they're aggressive both at work and in the bedroom, or they're submissive at home and at work. The last category, I would even go so far as to say they appear submissive at work, but they use it to get their way. I know there's a term for this in the bdsm world, but I can't think of it at the moment. I'm sure someone wil help me out. :)

I would also hazard a guess that the profession doesn't make the personality; the personality determines the profession. Nursing is hard mental and physical work; it is not for the faint of heart or stomach. I think most people who go into it for the Florence Nightingale aspect of "wanting to help others" either toughen up pretty fast, or they find a gentler branch of nursing - or leave the profession altogether. "Soft" people tend to burn out very quickly in nursing.
I relate to the category of appearing submissive at work. I have mastered a method of communication that enables me to get exactly what the patient needs without sounding like the demanding controlling maniac that I really am (when it comes to patient care.)

It’s not so much of me being submissive at work but more like me empowering others to be the best I know they can be. I would say that generally the nurse is assertive, controlling and completely in charge: I just try to do it in subtle ways when I can (doesn’t always work).

It’s a joke to think of the nurse as a submissive hand to the doctor. What a dream! I was duped! They tricked me. I wanted to give bed baths, and here I am: rapid response nurse triaging unit beds and telling the residents: no, you can’t admit this patient to the unit—we have three in the ER intubated waiting, and one in recovery post-operative waiting, so we better just manage this little episode of hypotension secondary to morning medications with a few liter saline bolus. I will stay here till the SBP is 90, and then I am going back to the unit without this patient. Oh?

Hahahahahaha! What is the exception? Surgical. The care delivery is very specific.
 
Hahahahahaha! What is the exception? Surgical. The care delivery is very specific.

If you mean surgical services, per se, no, surgical nurses and techs are among the worst control freaks in the hospital. lol I worked in surgery for many years, and I tailored my response to the surgeon. I was always in control, but how I showed that control depended on the surgeon. Surg techs are actually much more controlling than circulators; if you don't believe me, act like you're going to contaminate a ST's back table then watch the fireworks fly. LOL

I think the most controlling nurses are in the ER, ICUs, and OR (or any procedural area). ER nurses are absolutely more vocal about it, while OR nurses hone their evil eye. They definitely aren't submissive, nor are they shy about letting the surgeon know when he's in trouble. I can't count how many times I've heard an attending warn a surgical resident, "No matter what you do, NEVER piss off your scrub nurse." LOL It takes a very special breed of nurse to work in the OR. You have to have a thick skin, fear nothing or no one, and you have to be willing to step up to advocate for your patient when he can't speak for himself.
 
nurses are sluts period,it's kind of a cliche.

Which is entirely understandable, given they're basically watch people die slowly and inevitably, and even hasten it if appropriate.

I'd fuck everything in sight too.

As for dominance, yes, they do tend to develop a certain philosophical attitude towards biology in general, but that can go either way.

They lose their innocence pretty rapidly if that's what you mean.
 
If you mean surgical services, per se, no, surgical nurses and techs are among the worst control freaks in the hospital. lol I worked in surgery for many years, and I tailored my response to the surgeon. I was always in control, but how I showed that control depended on the surgeon. Surg techs are actually much more controlling than circulators; if you don't believe me, act like you're going to contaminate a ST's back table then watch the fireworks fly. LOL

I think the most controlling nurses are in the ER, ICUs, and OR (or any procedural area). ER nurses are absolutely more vocal about it, while OR nurses hone their evil eye. They definitely aren't submissive, nor are they shy about letting the surgeon know when he's in trouble. I can't count how many times I've heard an attending warn a surgical resident, "No matter what you do, NEVER piss off your scrub nurse." LOL It takes a very special breed of nurse to work in the OR. You have to have a thick skin, fear nothing or no one, and you have to be willing to step up to advocate for your patient when he can't speak for himself.

My mother was trying to be an ST, made it thru training, but almost 60yo reflexes simply don't allow a person to get into this for the first time. I can see why an ST would pee their pants if they think they're going to get contaminated!
 
My mother was trying to be an ST, made it thru training, but almost 60yo reflexes simply don't allow a person to get into this for the first time. I can see why an ST would pee their pants if they think they're going to get contaminated!

Pee their pants - not likely. Lol. Throw a fit maybe and if that doesn't get the message across, they'll throw an instrument. Lol
 
Yes, the operating room must have the highest order of control.

I thrive in the ICU clean, controlled, managed area. I can keep the room pristine; the six drip lines are all carefully labeled. The arterial line is immobilized, the urine output is accurate, the patients are coding but we are set up. The role is persistent vigilance and attendance at bedside. I love it.

To be more role specific: I feel less stress, less burden of dominance when caring for post-operative surgical patients in the ICU setting compared to the medical service. It’s not a false sense of security related to the perceived dominance of the surgeon: they actually do their job better, and they are more controlling compared to medical attending.
 
I am a nurse, and while I must remain in control during my work hours, I am most definitely submissive in the bedroom. I don't find it difficult to separate, but I have had this discussion with others in the past who do.
 
Speaking from the MD perspective, I agree with almost everything written here. I have always held to the maxim "you don't shit where you sleep" and have never had any relationship with nurses, MA's, etc. Fantasies about them is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT! Some of them are unbelievably sexy and nurturing. Dominant/submissive thoughts with roleplaying
get me aroused!
 
My mother was trying to be an ST, made it thru training, but almost 60yo reflexes simply don't allow a person to get into this for the first time. I can see why an ST would pee their pants if they think they're going to get contaminated!

Your mom can still use her skills even if she doesn't scrub. Has she considered looking for work in materials management or SPD (Sterilizing, Processing, Decontam - aka Central Supply)?
 
Your mom can still use her skills even if she doesn't scrub. Has she considered looking for work in materials management or SPD (Sterilizing, Processing, Decontam - aka Central Supply)?

You're sweet. They blew through her joints as a receptionist/admin by never giving her ergonomic jack shit and now she's RSI disabled for real, happy to have it on paper and just 2 years from retirement anyway. Ah, hospitals. Big hospitals.
 
You're sweet. They blew through her joints as a receptionist/admin by never giving her ergonomic jack shit and now she's RSI disabled for real, happy to have it on paper and just 2 years from retirement anyway. Ah, hospitals. Big hospitals.

Aww, that sucks. I'm sorry. Yeah, hospitals are all about big business these days. We aren't allowed to be nurses anymore; we're waitresses who pass meds. It's all about the survey scores and customer satisfaction. Employees don't count either. We're all disposable. Use us, abuse us, then replace us with a new crop of nurses.
 
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